Addiction & Recovery
Related: About this forumMy wife's going camping this weekend.
In years past it would be an excuse to get totally shit-faced every night. But I've been clean for over 5 years, so about the only bad things I'm going to do is treat myself to some fried food!
She's going camping with her brothers and cousins. I went every year for years and years. As I've told the fam, I hate camping and the only thing that made it tolerable was alcohol. Now that I don't drink, I REALLY hate it. So I've been skipping it for the last four years. I did go the first year after quitting drinking and had an absolutely miserable time. So I'm through with camping.
flying_wahini
(7,943 posts)Sounds like a great plan to me!
bif
(23,830 posts)We're both retired as we spend a lot of time around the house. It'll be a nice break.
Ocelot II
(120,110 posts)that had no plumbing or electricity, had to pee in the woods and bathe in a cold lake. Did. Not. Like. I didn't drink on these trips but maybe I'd have liked them better if I had. Still, you're better off staying home, enjoying the indoor plumbing and electric lights, eating some delicious fried food and not drinking.
Polly Hennessey
(7,381 posts)understood the camping thing. Why should I go out in the woods with critters and bugs sharing my space and still have to cook, cleanup, and swat flies. I can cook and cleanup in my own home and not have to swat flies. A picnic in the park is my limit.
Ocelot II
(120,110 posts)when it comes to cooking, bathing, bathroom needs and sleeping, I want at least a basic motel room. I remember camping in Glacier Park and it rained and the tent leaked and my sleeping bag got wet and I knew there were bears out there. Never again.
CANADIANBEAVER69
(563 posts)sounds like a childhood memory that I have of a camping trip we did. I like camping, and I have done many in the rain, but I camp with my sister who was a scout leader, so she knows how to set up a good dry camp. Each to their own, I totally get wanting comfort with some of the basics. As you age, I think your needs change. Camping can become more of a chore than a fun experience.
bif
(23,830 posts)My wife spends a coupe days preparing for the weekend. And at the end, 1/2 the day on Sunday when she gets back. What a pain in the neck!
I do miss sipping wine and sitting around the campfire telling stories. But it sure isn't the same without booze.
CANADIANBEAVER69
(563 posts)that's the best part for me.
Srkdqltr
(7,558 posts)While hubby and kids enjoy nooooo.
My idea of camping is a hotel with room service.