Addiction & Recovery
Related: About this forumForty years sober today.
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It just crossed my mind. I entered DePaul Rehabilitation Hospital in Milwaukee 40 years ago this evening. No relapses in all that time. I was thirty-eight years old. I am not seeking any sort of recognition, just want folks to know it can be done.
ON EDIT- thank you for all the recs and responses and for not mentioning my stupid typo, now fixed.
SheltieLover
(78,973 posts)enough
(13,720 posts)Lonestarblue
(13,372 posts)Thanks for sharing. Sometimes life gets hard. You reminded us that perseverance can pay off.
AltairIV
(1,020 posts)applegrove
(131,378 posts)MIButterfly
(2,410 posts)Good for you! That is quite an accomplishment. You deserve all the accolades you can get!
That's an inspiration for anyone dealing with any kind of addiction.
LoisB
(12,678 posts)wendyb-NC
(4,650 posts)You are an inspiration, I am 19 years sober, and I plan continue.
elleng
(141,926 posts)calimary
(89,475 posts)Congratulations on a truly outstanding accomplishment!
Thats a LOT to be proud of!
I was originally gonna recommend celebrating with some milk and cookies, but your achievement, just by itself, is sweet - and filling - enough!
AllaN01Bear
(29,069 posts)634-5789
(4,648 posts)And yeah, it can be done. You did great! Keep up the dailies!
Magoo48
(6,713 posts)I just took 41 years on the 7th.
As my wife told me, again, this year, 41 years and still no apparent growth.
May you be happy, joyous, and free my friend.
🐝🐫
hamsterjill
(17,282 posts)But I commend you. That's amazing and whether you want recognition or not, you deserve it. Good for you!!!
greatauntoftriplets
(178,773 posts)rurallib
(64,634 posts)JMCKUSICK
(5,675 posts)Torrent63
(30 posts)Congratulations.
GreenWave
(12,507 posts)I have obeyed them!
3catwoman3
(29,072 posts)Wifes husband
(715 posts)3catwoman3
(29,072 posts)TygrBright
(21,339 posts)gerryatwork
(98 posts)I have a sense of what you accomplished. My 2nd started her sobriety about 15 years ago. I give her a lot of credit. Even though she left me for her future husband she met at AA about 14 years ago.
Congratulations its a great personal accomplishment
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4Sitka
(53 posts)cate94
(3,074 posts)I wont live long enough to reach that goal, but I certainly want to be sober the rest of my life. You are an inspiration!! Thanks for sharing!
ShazzieB
(22,409 posts)OldBaldy1701E
(10,818 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(15,479 posts)That's quite an accomplishment.
NoMoreRepugs
(11,905 posts)ariadne0614
(2,164 posts)Permanut
(8,208 posts)30 years here, and worth every minute of it.
CTyankee
(67,986 posts)It's just not good for your body. Especially as you get older.
I had fallen in love with Merlot, just loved the taste. Now I get FRE's alcohol free Merlot and I can enjoy the taste of that wine and not worry about harmful effects on my body.
markie
(23,962 posts)FakeNoose
(41,026 posts)I'll bet your family and friends are so proud of you. Awesome job!
LearnedHand
(5,322 posts)Way to hang in there!
orangecrush
(29,589 posts)FemDemERA
(743 posts)Rhiannon12866
(253,096 posts)I celebrated 16 years on April 30th also to show it can be done. Those who stood up for me were a dedicated AA member who celebrated 51 years last November and my good friend who came back and now has 3 years.
Dem4life1970
(1,053 posts)Javaman
(65,484 posts)MLAA
(19,698 posts)soldierant
(9,305 posts)Congranu;ations, Sugar.
Turbineguy
(39,943 posts)One of my best friends will get there in one more year.
LudwigPastorius
(14,456 posts)But as it is, I've got 5 and half years of sobriety, and I'm not going back.
MissouriDem47
(406 posts)proud patriot
(102,454 posts)Congrats on 40 years
Wifes husband
(715 posts)I have 33 years, and the first year was definitely the hardest. I had several 9 month chips.
So, genuine congratulations. The rest is just putting in the time. Ex
pioche4
(180 posts)Hornedfrog2000
(866 posts)I was almost 30. Had 2 OWIs. I had no drivers license, was only a highschool dropout, and had nothing. It was 2015, and I met someone I wanted to marry, but knew that would never be possible with how i was living. I knew my life was going to be hard, regardless, but I could make it hard on my terms. I was going to work harder than I ever have. I was going to give myself a chance because when I really thought about it, I had always defaulted to, " you cant do that, or you arent good at that", but i never gave myself a chance.
Trump stole the whitehouse with the help of Putin, and I knew I had to get ahead, because they would literally try to steal even more from us (this was literally my big reason for turning my life around). Fastforward to 2025 I am in graduate school for my doctorate, and will be making more money than I had ever imagined.
I used "welfare", grants, etc to get to this point. Without them I would have never had a chance. I appreciate the minute, fractional percentage of help i received from everyones taxes to help me become a productive member of society. I will never forget that I would not be here without charity, welfare, and kindness of others.
I have never been the smartest person, but being succesful sometimes is about finding a way, any way.
Duncanpup
(15,651 posts)Pototan
(3,048 posts)this is a bad time to be sober
Bristlecone
(11,071 posts)Ive heard the 41st year is the hardest
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rzemanfl
(31,289 posts)I think you win the thread.
Farmer-Rick
(12,558 posts)That's something to be very proud about.
Congratulations!
Pachamama
(17,544 posts)I admire it and know unfortunately the experience of witnessing someone I love who couldnt do it and all the terrible things and destruction that comes with alcohol abuse.
Sending you lots of appreciation and good thoughts for what you have overcome and achieved - for yourself and all those that love you.
TommieMommy
(2,761 posts)johnnyplankton
(623 posts)But I got sober and stayed with meetings and things continue to get better.
RamblingRose
(1,156 posts)restaurants around us are Mexican. I love a margarita w/ my dinner but am staying dry in solidarity.
Congratulations!
WmChris
(682 posts)3/13/82
if..fish..had..wings
(880 posts)Nice going
NNadir
(37,677 posts)I'm glad you celebrate the anniversaries.
Bluejeans
(146 posts)< applause > That's one hell of a record! As we would say in the military, "Keep on keepin' on!"
Ziggysmom
(4,091 posts)they closed and tore down the building around 25 years ago. Im so happy you are sober and a Dem!
rzemanfl
(31,289 posts)If I wasn't a Dem, I'd probably still be drinking and the Secretary of Defense or something.
sinkingfeeling
(57,595 posts)Clouds Passing
(7,646 posts)No relapses too! Many more continued years of a clear mind ..
berksdem
(916 posts)SpankMe
(3,681 posts)Old Crank
(6,820 posts)I've been lucky not to ever know the demons that this stuff can unleash.
ChazInAz
(3,007 posts)I turned forty-four on the Ides of March.
Life's better this way, isn't it?
BubbaJoe
(25 posts)Oct 10, 1994. Still going. Funny thing is now where I live there are 10 or more bars within staggering distance.
BoRaGard
(7,591 posts)k55f5r
(513 posts)Also, thanks for reminding me of my upcoming 40 yr sobriety anniversary. 40 yrs September 10th.
vapor2
(4,218 posts)sdfernando
(6,046 posts)Contrats rzemanfl !!!!