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Clouds Passing

(6,836 posts)
Tue Dec 2, 2025, 01:16 PM Dec 2

Today Is My 23rd Sobriety Anniversary

After waking up with a pounding headache and a horrible hangover, I made the decision to stop drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes at the same time. Life is so much clearer and stable being sober. I know that I made the best decision for my body and myself. I am so proud of my epic accomplishment!

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Today Is My 23rd Sobriety Anniversary (Original Post) Clouds Passing Dec 2 OP
Congrats, Clouds! SheltieLover Dec 2 #1
Thanks SL 😁 I appreciate your support and encouragement Clouds Passing Dec 3 #22
Congrats malaise Dec 2 #2
Thank you malaise. Gratitude helps keep the goodness expanding Clouds Passing Dec 3 #23
Congratulations Duncanpup Dec 2 #3
Thank you Duncanpup Your stories are an excellent way to stay connected to real life Clouds Passing Dec 3 #24
Congratulations! Mike Nelson Dec 2 #4
Thanks Mike Nelson 😀 Clouds Passing Dec 3 #25
Congratulations underpants Dec 2 #5
Thanks underpants. When I look back at those days, I'm grateful for clarity Clouds Passing Dec 3 #26
Congratulations, Clouds Passing! MIButterfly Dec 2 #6
Thank you MIButterfly 😁 23 more Clouds Passing Dec 3 #28
Congratulations, that was a great move 23 years ago! yonder Dec 2 #7
Thank you yonder 😀 Congratulations on your 3 years 😃 Clouds Passing Dec 3 #29
Congratulations. sinkingfeeling Dec 2 #8
Thank you sinkingfeeling 😁 Sobriety gives us the courage to deal with life's downs in healthy ways Clouds Passing Dec 3 #31
One dat at a time. WmChris Dec 2 #9
Thanks WmChris 😊 I keep moving on in awokeness, not in a self induced daze Clouds Passing Dec 3 #33
""" AllaN01Bear Dec 2 #10
Thank you AllaNO1Bear 😊 Clouds Passing Dec 3 #34
Fantastic! MLAA Dec 2 #11
Thanks MLAA 😄 It's been a revealing soul journey Clouds Passing Dec 3 #35
Congrats! That is a long time. Bristlecone Dec 2 #12
Thanks for your encouragement Bristlecone 😊 Clouds Passing Dec 3 #36
Congratulations, Clouds Passing! Grim Chieftain Dec 2 #13
Thank you Grim Chieftain 😄 Clouds Passing Dec 3 #37
Congratulations Clouds Passing, JMCKUSICK Dec 2 #14
Thank you so much JM 😁 Clouds Passing Dec 3 #38
You have every reason to be extremely proud. NNadir Dec 2 #15
Thank you NNadir 😃 Every anniversary I become more grateful for that fateful decision Clouds Passing Dec 3 #39
Terrific news, Clouds Passing! calimary Dec 2 #16
Thank you calimary 😃 The stability attained from the inner journey is like being slowly pulled into Clouds Passing Dec 3 #40
Yahooooooooo Magoo48 Dec 2 #17
Thank you Magoo48 😀 WooHoo Clouds Passing Dec 3 #41
Happy anniversary! Americanme Dec 2 #18
Thank you Americanme 😃 Congratulations for your 16 years! Clouds Passing Dec 3 #42
That's amazing since you're still under 30 years of age. KS Toronado Dec 2 #19
Thank you KS 😃 for turning back my biological clock 35 years 😂 Clouds Passing Dec 3 #43
Thank You. It's pretty easy, just watch your clock! KS Toronado Dec 3 #45
Fibonacci Spiral 🌀 Clouds Passing Dec 3 #49
Congratulations! mountain grammy Dec 2 #20
Thank you mountain grammy 😀 I feel like I'm standing at the top of a mountain Clouds Passing Dec 3 #44
My son retiredwelder Dec 2 #21
if wisconsin, i might know him Tetrachloride Dec 3 #30
Thank you retiredwelder 😃 Your son Clouds Passing Dec 3 #46
Congratulations! yardwork Dec 3 #27
Thank you yardwork 😄 Thank you for your acknowledgment Clouds Passing Dec 3 #47
Congratulations LetMyPeopleVote Dec 3 #32
Thanks LetMyPeopleVote 😃 The journey to healing the inner self is worth the ride Clouds Passing Dec 3 #48

Clouds Passing

(6,836 posts)
28. Thank you MIButterfly 😁 23 more
Wed Dec 3, 2025, 09:45 AM
Dec 3


Consciousness awakens and expands as our mind clears out toxic thinking.

yonder

(10,227 posts)
7. Congratulations, that was a great move 23 years ago!
Tue Dec 2, 2025, 02:07 PM
Dec 2

You have every right to be proud after pushing aside some bad habits — even more impressive when you include tobacco.

It was 3 years for me on Thanksgiving. I only wish I'd seen the light 50 years ago.

As you said, life is better all around.

Cheers for all of us and a happy 23 for yourself!

Clouds Passing

(6,836 posts)
29. Thank you yonder 😀 Congratulations on your 3 years 😃
Wed Dec 3, 2025, 09:49 AM
Dec 3


Keep on the good path, your soul appreciates your efforts and dedication.

Clouds Passing

(6,836 posts)
31. Thank you sinkingfeeling 😁 Sobriety gives us the courage to deal with life's downs in healthy ways
Wed Dec 3, 2025, 09:57 AM
Dec 3


Clouds Passing

(6,836 posts)
36. Thanks for your encouragement Bristlecone 😊
Wed Dec 3, 2025, 10:12 AM
Dec 3

Nooooooo 24 can’t be the hardest, I’ve already had a tough year. And I made it through this year’s difficulties sober!!!
So 24 will be a breeze, I hope.


Grim Chieftain

(1,131 posts)
13. Congratulations, Clouds Passing!
Tue Dec 2, 2025, 03:28 PM
Dec 2

Quitting alcohol or cigarettes is quite an accomplishment, but quitting them both at the same time is truly remarkable! Very proud of you, friend!

Clouds Passing

(6,836 posts)
37. Thank you Grim Chieftain 😄
Wed Dec 3, 2025, 10:13 AM
Dec 3

The cigarettes and the alcohol are best buds. Couldn’t do one without the other.

JMCKUSICK

(4,943 posts)
14. Congratulations Clouds Passing,
Tue Dec 2, 2025, 03:34 PM
Dec 2

Such a fascinating journey you've been on. May the very best still be ahead!

Clouds Passing

(6,836 posts)
38. Thank you so much JM 😁
Wed Dec 3, 2025, 10:20 AM
Dec 3


The day I started this journey was the day I became able to recover lost parts of myself. This is one of the most rewarding aspects of true self. To discover that we have strength and wisdom beyond what we could have ever imagined is a gift of the highest order. Stay strong. Stay wise JM

Clouds Passing

(6,836 posts)
40. Thank you calimary 😃 The stability attained from the inner journey is like being slowly pulled into
Wed Dec 3, 2025, 11:41 AM
Dec 3

the calm of the eye of the storm.

Americanme

(354 posts)
18. Happy anniversary!
Tue Dec 2, 2025, 04:08 PM
Dec 2

I gave up alcohol 16 years ago, quit smoking 13 years ago. I am so glad I did. Congratulations to you!

Clouds Passing

(6,836 posts)
42. Thank you Americanme 😃 Congratulations for your 16 years!
Wed Dec 3, 2025, 11:46 AM
Dec 3


It’s refreshing to wake up not hungover!

Clouds Passing

(6,836 posts)
43. Thank you KS 😃 for turning back my biological clock 35 years 😂
Wed Dec 3, 2025, 11:49 AM
Dec 3

That’s an amazing talent you have!

retiredwelder

(19 posts)
21. My son
Tue Dec 2, 2025, 05:50 PM
Dec 2

Congratulations, I wish my son would stop drinking, we`ve tried over and over, he has to make the decision .

Clouds Passing

(6,836 posts)
46. Thank you retiredwelder 😃 Your son
Wed Dec 3, 2025, 04:17 PM
Dec 3


Do not give up on him! Keep trying different ways to connect with him. Tough love does not work, it’s a false solution. I understand your journey with him. The fear of losing him becomes overwhelming at times. The many many years of prayers for their healing make us feel like we are failing.

I could write a tome about my son.He was intelligent, creative, talented and loved people. He was also addicted to alcohol and drugs. He lost his life here on earth from a drug overdose. I feel terribly responsible, the guilt hits hard randomly. He tells me that this was his path. Even so I am always left with the thought that I could have done better, been more there for him, been more understanding, compassionate, forgiving, present. I do know that all my prayers and attempts to help him were not useless, he has passed his earthly test and is redeemed. Start to shift the way you see your son from a vision of damage to a vision of healed self.

Be those ways now. Peace, CP☁️☁️

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