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Tab

(11,093 posts)
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 12:17 PM Aug 2015

Meeting with my (new) oncologist this afternoon

My previous one moved back out of state to be closer to her family, so this guy was a colleague, so I assume he's roughtly familiar with the case, but we're going to go over alternatives, if I want any, and his interpretation of the results of my last scan (colon cancer, mets spread throughout the lungs and now on the adrenal gland itself.

Trying not to speculate but getting increasingly stressed as the day moves on.

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Meeting with my (new) oncologist this afternoon (Original Post) Tab Aug 2015 OP
It's got to be tough being where you are, my dear Tab... CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2015 #1
Thank you, Peggy Tab Aug 2015 #2
Sounds good...my thoughts go with you. CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2015 #3
So very sorry to hear this, Tab. dixiegrrrrl Aug 2015 #4
Alas, no major new info Tab Aug 2015 #5
A second set of eyes is never a bad thing Ruby the Liberal Aug 2015 #6
New eyes are always good IMHO ... slipslidingaway Aug 2015 #9
New eyes can be a good thing but I know it can also be stressful. Solly Mack Aug 2015 #7
Good to hear from you even if the news is inconclusive KaryninMiami Aug 2015 #8
He's suggesting Cixtubimab (sp?) Tab Aug 2015 #10
Hey Tab... just checking to see what you're thinking. 2theleft Aug 2015 #11
I agree with new eyes onethatcares Aug 2015 #12
My mom will see her oncologist for the first time next week, Puzzledtraveller Oct 2015 #13

dixiegrrrrl

(60,011 posts)
4. So very sorry to hear this, Tab.
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 01:14 PM
Aug 2015

Of COURSE you are stressed! Who would not be?
I have you will find some reassurance from your new doc.

Tab

(11,093 posts)
5. Alas, no major new info
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 05:47 PM
Aug 2015

was bringing him up to date. He needs to research more exactly what has been (or not been) done and why (or why not); things have been a bit hectic since my oncologist left and the replacement's only been there for a week (I'm working with the one that was partnered with my old one). We're going to discuss this a bit more in the next few days, whether we want to revisit treatment options or not. However, since we had to stop the old treatment because, among other things, it was trashing my platelets, I don't know that he'll have any info or not, and I also don't know if I could continue to work if we do resume, so lots of questions to be answered still.

Thanks for everyone's support - I'll let you know when we figure out the next step (if any).

((((Best))))

- Tab

Ruby the Liberal

(26,312 posts)
6. A second set of eyes is never a bad thing
Wed Aug 19, 2015, 06:13 PM
Aug 2015

It is great that he is researching and not just going off the top of his head. You have been through enough for 'more of the same' just because.

slipslidingaway

(21,210 posts)
9. New eyes are always good IMHO ...
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 10:37 PM
Aug 2015

we've learned there are local hem oncs that have one set of rules and then transplant hematologist/oncologists that have different parameters as to when they should intervene. I would imagine there are oncologists who specialize in your disease as well.

Hoping this new oncologist will give you a path forward.





KaryninMiami

(3,073 posts)
8. Good to hear from you even if the news is inconclusive
Thu Aug 20, 2015, 12:16 PM
Aug 2015

You know the drill - one day at a time. That's the best we can do. Keep us posted on how you're doing and how things are going please.

2theleft

(1,137 posts)
11. Hey Tab... just checking to see what you're thinking.
Sat Aug 29, 2015, 10:50 PM
Aug 2015

Looks like he's made a recommendation, but sounded like you weren't sure if you were going to do it. Have you made a decision? I know you've been through so many treatments and I know with my dad and how bad he felt after 10 years of it, that it's really hard to make a decision to feel bad again.

Just wanted to drop by to check in on you. Thinking good thoughts for you.

onethatcares

(16,571 posts)
12. I agree with new eyes
Sun Aug 30, 2015, 05:16 AM
Aug 2015

seeing other things. Although just the change of doctors has got to be stressful after building faith in your previous oncologist.

glad to see you still posting.

Puzzledtraveller

(5,937 posts)
13. My mom will see her oncologist for the first time next week,
Thu Oct 8, 2015, 02:57 PM
Oct 2015

I wish I could stand in her place and take her fear and anxiety for her. I can imagine the doctor patient relationship with cancer patients is a special and very important one. I hope you continue to have a good relationship with your doctor.

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