What complementary therapies help you?

My partner had her first infusion of bone strengthener last month. It left her in excruciating pain for about two days. What is worse is that she has been moving differently, which has led to numerous muscle problems. She pulled her groin muscle a few days ago and it hobbled her. That, combined with the estrogen therapy, which is inducing a very intense, time-shortened menopause, has made it a difficult week. The poor thing was burning up in my arms the other night while wincing in pain.

Irish, your suggestion about reiki therapy was right-on, and I am researching practitioners in our area. I know a good session will relieve stress and will help to heal her on a soul level, as well. I have personally experienced its benefits.

Did any of you experience nagging muscle pulls and tears because the cancer and its treatments literally changed the way you moved your body? Did you take your painkillers and still feel the frustrating discomfort? What helped you? Music, icepacks, yoga, acupuncture or anything else?

We are going for a second opinion with an oncologist next week. She is based at a center that offers complementary therapies designed to work with the center's traditional medicine. I know she will give us good advice but it would help to get some first-hand stories to add to our research and evaluation of potential alternative treatments.

We're newbies with this, so please bear with us. We promise to pass along the kindness.