But I am glad that you are aware of the situation and can rationally deal with it. DNR/DNI are definitely the way to go. I used to work in an intensive care unit so I know just what you're talking about. I was an RN then.

Are you home or back in the Philippines?

There are no good answers for some of our situations. The DNI/DNR is up to you but I have the same philosophy as well. Please post back, and - if you want - PM me and I'll try to check up on a regular basis.

Hoping for the best (fingers crossed)

Let me say, I think I probably will pull out of this crisis. I am even feeling a little bit better right now. I certainly am not giving up - I am only trying to be realistic and realistically, I think I will pull out of this crisis situation. But, whether now or some other time in the near or distant future things go the other way - I will depart in peace and in gratitude.

associated complications, you seem to have a good understanding of what might be in store. Still we wish you that you pull through and can have some happy memories. Those memories can be short or they can be long.

I hope you have many years of memories.

I am so sorry. I'll be thinking and praying for you tonight. Good luck.

He was known by so many here.
Is there a thread somewhere you could point us to?

This is so sad

aA

My heart goes out to his family and all who love(d) him.

Sincerest condolences.

kesha.

I am sending thoughts and prayers to you, your family, friends and loved ones. Farewell, Doug Carpenter.

A great DU'er has passed.

I want to say now, before it is too late, what a wonderful DU'er you are. I always read your posts, and I hold you in such high esteem. Your wisdom and insight on so many subjects command my respect. I am in awe of your bravery and your matter-of-fact attitude regarding your illness and what it means. You are truly incredible.

When you do pass, I am sure I will shed a tear of sorrow for a person I never personally met and the family and friends he left behind. I already know that whatever I post in your obituary thread, it will seem so inadequate; because, sometimes, words fail. The entire DU community will be in mourning, and there will be a tremendous void where there once was Omaha Steve.

I am praying for a miracle, and I am sending you and your loved ones peace and strength in the months ahead.

Susan (FourScore, used to be whereismyparty)

He seemed full of optimism, not that means anything physically, but it makes it more of a shock.

Thinking of you, Doug.

I had hope when you thought this could turn around, but life turns on a dime.

Strength to his family and friends.

RIP.