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cyclonefence

(4,873 posts)
Wed Oct 31, 2018, 11:02 AM Oct 2018

After surgery

I had a bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction a week ago and am doing fine. Pathology reports came back negative (despite what our *president believes, negative is good when you're checking for cancer) and margins of the tumor removed were clean, so all looks good. The drains are a nuisance, but pain is minimal, which surprises me. Honestly, I have taken a total of 7 pain pills, including during my overnight in the hospital. The pains I do get seem to be positional, and when I change position, the pain goes away, so I don't see the point of constipating myself for a pain that's going to go away anyhow.

I do have a chemo port, but I'm assuming that will be removed. I don't know why I'd be getting chemo if everything is clear and contained. But who knows? I did chemo the first time around, and it wasn't as horrible as I'd thought it would be. I can take it a second time. I've avoided getting a haircut because I assumed I'd have chemo and my hair would fall out again, but if I don't have chemo, I'll have the worst hairdo in town until I can get somebody to cut this.

Thanks again for all the good wishes from you here. Positive vibrations cannot but help.

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After surgery (Original Post) cyclonefence Oct 2018 OP
You are winning ! magicarpet Oct 2018 #1
Best to you during your recovery pandr32 Oct 2018 #2
All good news zipplewrath Oct 2018 #3
Oh, I send you so many hugs and kisses. I also had breast cancer, but got away with only Nay Oct 2018 #4
Excellent news for you The Blue Flower Oct 2018 #5
All the best to you, cyclone fence! skylucy Oct 2018 #6
Wishing you a speedy recovery. sinkingfeeling Oct 2018 #7
I was thinking about you, cyclonefence! Ohiogal Oct 2018 #8
My best wishes to you! PennyK Nov 2018 #9
Aw, thanks! cyclonefence Nov 2018 #10

zipplewrath

(16,692 posts)
3. All good news
Wed Oct 31, 2018, 11:26 AM
Oct 2018

Be prepared to have them suggest you do some chemo anyway, although they may be suggesting a less than aggressive schedule for you. Margins and tests don't always "catch" everything and they often suggest chemo to "make sure". And in this day and age, some of the less aggressive forms won't have your hair falling out. You may experience other really fun things like loss of appetite and exhaustion though. Ask your doctors, they can give you some idea if they suggest this.

But don't take this suggestion, if they make it, as some sort of set back. You're headed in the right direction and all of your news is good so far. "Take the win" as athletes often say. And your right about the pain pills. In the end, if you're not in pain, and won't be, skip them. Just don't be "too" brave about it. If the pain starts to kick in, take 'em. With pain meds, especially the non-opioid kind, it can take a while for them to "get ahead" of the pain.

Take the win, enjoy the good news, send some positive vibes your own way. It will all help no matter what.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
4. Oh, I send you so many hugs and kisses. I also had breast cancer, but got away with only
Wed Oct 31, 2018, 11:34 AM
Oct 2018

a lumpectomy and 30 days of radiation. I'm 7 years out from that surgery and all has been fine. May that happen to you!

The Blue Flower

(5,636 posts)
5. Excellent news for you
Wed Oct 31, 2018, 11:35 AM
Oct 2018

It sounds as though you have a positive attitude and will get through it just fine. Nice to hear some good news!

Ohiogal

(34,613 posts)
8. I was thinking about you, cyclonefence!
Wed Oct 31, 2018, 02:30 PM
Oct 2018

Glad your surgery went well and you don't have much pain. I, too, didn't have much pain after my mastectomy on the right side. Those drains, though, ugh! I remember going to church on Easter Sunday with two of them still in place. Yuk.

They must be doing much better controlling side effects from chemo, nowadays, if you said yours wasn't too bad. I had 3 months of it (this was in 2007) and it was complete and total misery for me.

Here's hoping you continue to heal and get well. Thanks for keeping us updated!

Hugs, Ohiogal

PennyK

(2,312 posts)
9. My best wishes to you!
Fri Nov 2, 2018, 04:11 PM
Nov 2018

Sorry i didn't see your post sooner.
I had just the one mastectomy, but reconstruction still hasn't happened (hopefully early next year, 2 years from the other surgery -- I had complications of all sorts). yeah, the drains are a pain, but I also was surprised by the lack of actual pain.
hoping you won't need full chemo, maybe just Herceptin, which means you'll def need a haircut.

cyclonefence

(4,873 posts)
10. Aw, thanks!
Wed Nov 7, 2018, 05:30 PM
Nov 2018

I got the drains out today, a big relief since I've been sleeping (or "sleeping&quot in a recliner for fear of messing up the tubes in my sleep. The lack of pain has been remarkable! As far as chemo goes, I feel like I'm ready for whatever they want to hand me--I'm going to sleep in my bed tonight!

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