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alfredo

(60,132 posts)
Mon Dec 2, 2019, 04:18 PM Dec 2019

Status report.

Still have weakness in my legs, got vertigo, and a lower, gravely voice.

What I can eat has expanded. Today it was mashed potatoes, peas, sauerkraut, and turkey hotdogs. Still take some nutrition through the tube, and a liter of water a day. I still have swallowing issues. There is no way I can drink a liter of water a day.

Napa Cabbage is one of my go to vegetables. I use it in a salad, or cooked with garlic, sesame seeds, S/P, tamari, and a bit of sesame oil at the end.

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Status report. (Original Post) alfredo Dec 2019 OP
Thanks for the update! PennyK Dec 2019 #1
Today I had squid salad and Miso soup. So wonderful alfredo Dec 2019 #2
Just read your update, Alfredo Marthe48 Feb 2020 #3
Thanks. Life has been good. alfredo Feb 2020 #4
Hmmm.. CatLady78 Aug 2020 #5
Thanks. Here's best wishes for your mom. alfredo Aug 2020 #6
Thanks CatLady78 Aug 2020 #7
Tongue and neck Stage three transitioning to stage four. alfredo Aug 2020 #8
Good luck CatLady78 Aug 2020 #9
Thanks. Here's best wishes for your mom. alfredo Aug 2020 #10
Take care alfredo CatLady78 Aug 2020 #11
Take care. Send your moms hugs alfredo Aug 2020 #12
Thanks :)-good bye for now & good luck. nt CatLady78 Aug 2020 #13
Blue skies and gentle breezes. alfredo Aug 2020 #14

PennyK

(2,311 posts)
1. Thanks for the update!
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 11:34 AM
Dec 2019

You never stop experimenting with the diet -- that's great!
Treatment gives us our lives, but it's up to us to make good use of them. Gotta always look ahead.

CatLady78

(1,041 posts)
5. Hmmm..
Thu Aug 6, 2020, 06:26 AM
Aug 2020

That Napa cabbage recipe sounds good. Glad you are doing better. Sounds like you are getting veggies and protein.

I am hoping my mom does not have cancer but she is ill regardless and can't eat. The biggest problem I have is getting her to eat stuff. She dislikes almost everything now.

As of this date she has lost something like 20 lb/9 kg since some time in April. I hope it is just a diabetes medication change or anxiety.

All she will eat are grilled cheese sandwiches aside from liquid foods.

alfredo

(60,132 posts)
6. Thanks. Here's best wishes for your mom.
Fri Aug 7, 2020, 09:38 AM
Aug 2020

Make sure she stays hydrated and loved.

Grill cheese sounds lovely. I might have to do some today.

When I got my first Chemo, I tried to eat some french fries. I couldn't taste salt. It is horrible when nothing tastes good. I could smell the food, so I had to enjoy the smell of whatever my wife was eating. I hope she can grab a bit of joy like the smell of bacon or Italian dressing.

CatLady78

(1,041 posts)
7. Thanks
Sat Aug 8, 2020, 01:11 AM
Aug 2020

I read your thread to her to cheer her up/distract her as we are awaiting biopsy results..She winced a little at the reference to bacon so that is definitely not on even the olfactory menu .....your mashed potatoes and peas could work though.

It is a headscratcher cheffing for someone who has become averse to all flavors..I am giving her apples stewed until they are just mush..plain bread etc.

Sorry to hear about you awful experiences with chemo...What kind of cancer did you have if you don't mind my asking? And how long has it been? You seem to be doing much better which is great . I will keep an eye out for your updates..

alfredo

(60,132 posts)
8. Tongue and neck Stage three transitioning to stage four.
Sat Aug 8, 2020, 03:25 PM
Aug 2020

Squamous cell carcinoma caused by the HPV virus. That made it easier to treat. I was given a forty percent chance of survival. So far so good.

At VA they automatically send you to the shrink. That’s a nice perk for us veterans.

If you are a primary care giver, be sure to do something nice for yourself. You don’t want to burn out.

CatLady78

(1,041 posts)
9. Good luck
Sun Aug 9, 2020, 02:23 AM
Aug 2020

I hope you continue to do well. Mom was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma yesterday. We are dealing with it.
It was a bit of a shock but now we are trying to be positive. There are treatments now and I am hoping she lives a long, happy and healthy life regardless.

All the best ro to you alfredo. I will check in here off and on.

alfredo

(60,132 posts)
10. Thanks. Here's best wishes for your mom.
Sun Aug 9, 2020, 01:50 PM
Aug 2020

Do your best to keep her life normal and her fighting spirit intact.

I saw cancer as a challenge. It helped keeping my spirits high.

Let her know there is life after cancer. Be patient.

When things got bad, I ate some weed, put on good music, and slept the day away. Now I can't do the weed anymore, but music never fails me.

CatLady78

(1,041 posts)
11. Take care alfredo
Mon Aug 10, 2020, 11:10 AM
Aug 2020

I am logging off for a while. Right now I cannot stand to see these people the GOP, Fox News, Kanye, Zuckerberg etc. . An unsavory lot at the best of times....I'll be back though.

FYI your posts cheered me up and I will check back in here later. I wish you all the best. I will check for your updates. Here is wishing all the people in this forum good health.


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