Cancer Support
Related: About this forumPositive energy and helping us hold a vigil for my husbands surgery
My husband is a several years long reader and promoter of DU but doesnt post because his first language is Austrian/German and he feels he cant express himself in written English well enough to take your time. He is a strong progressive, kind and generous human being, extremely healthy mostly vegetarian eater, meditator and the love of my long life. We married last year after a loving 20 year courtship thinking paperwork didnt matter. We proved ourselves wrong. It does.
Due to him having a case of Non-Hodgkin Follicular Lymphoma for the last 5 years we live life grateful for every day. Its a slow growth cancer with a 15 to 20 year prognosis thats been monitored every six months with blood tests and yearly PET scan. Being in our 70s we really couldnt have asked for much more anyway. But during this years tests about 8 weeks ago they discovered a different cancer, an isolated small cell tumor in his left lung. While waiting for an appointment with the Pulmonary Oncologist my husband had a faint/fall that left him dazed and confused. After a couple of days I realized his behavior was growing more abnormal and convinced him to go to the ER as I thought he might have received a concussion when he fell. Surprisingly and terrifyingly they discovered a tumor in his brain that they think metastasized from the lung. Its in the left occipital lobe near the visual cortex.
So making this too long story short, we are at City of Hope awaiting neurosurgery on Friday with all its inherent risks/rewards. The competence, compassion, and nurturing of this place is amazing and if you have to go through something like this, it is worth whatever it takes to come here.
Please send healing thoughts and positive energy to this special man who has freely shared his talent for fixing or building anything, and has apprenticed many in the field of alternative energies for 40 years. We thank our DU family for your passionate adherence to the highest humanity has to offer.
Twoflower
(1,027 posts)Tanuki
(15,309 posts)Your DU family is here for you at any hour.
Wishful-Thinking
(109 posts)I read the postings here multiple times a day and felt like I didnt deserve to comment cause I didnt have long term status. But things happened that showed me this week that the compassion of strangers could add more to my life than the silence of fear.
Ocelot II
(120,815 posts)Hope the surgery goes well and with a good outcome.
LoisB
(8,639 posts)hands. When he gets better, tell him to post. Sending strength to you. Please keep us updated on his progress. Hugs.
Deuxcents
(19,694 posts)For as long as he has with you and maybe post to us. We wont mind that his spelling isnt up to his standards..we would be thrilled to hear from him. Until then, please keep us updated and well keep both of you close to our hearts. 🙏
niyad
(119,888 posts)both in light and love.
whathehell
(29,783 posts)people
(697 posts)This must be such a hard time for you two. Hope the surgery goes very, very well. Will be thinking about him and you on Friday.
IbogaProject
(3,645 posts)Good vibes for a easy recovery and regained health.
colorado_ufo
(5,926 posts)Thank you for a beautiful post. Will pray that all goes well!
Jerryatric
(2,472 posts)all my best wishes, healing thoughts, and big long distance hugs to you both.
irisblue
(34,252 posts)brer cat
(26,253 posts)Sending love and light and all the positive energy I can muster. Hoping for a great outcome.
WA-03 Democrat
(3,267 posts)To your husband and you!
applegrove
(123,111 posts)MLAA
(18,598 posts)💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
Wishful-Thinking
(109 posts)Our primary Oncologist is Ukrainian, our neurosurgeon is Chinese, the Pain specialist is from Romania, the radiation Oncologist is of Iranian descent and the Hospitalist is from India. Thank God for immigrants who are so committed to helping others.
MLAA
(18,598 posts)Mopar151
(10,177 posts)Keep on your path, fall in love again. Love is a hell of a drug!
fierywoman
(8,105 posts)No Vested Interest
(5,196 posts)DFW
(56,518 posts)And, if all goes as hoped for, tell him he is perfectly welcome to post here in German!!
There are some of us here on DU that are fluent in German, including me, and if his written English isnt up to the task, most of us will be understanding. We have a couple of regular posters whose native language is obviously not English. I sometimes have a hard time trying to figure out what they are trying to say, but I would never tell them to stop posting.
Permanut
(6,636 posts)Hope22
(2,841 posts)May his surgery be a success and have him back on his feet soon. Love to both of you. 💗💗🙏💐
orleans
(34,941 posts)and all the very best