Hoping every thing will be okay. That's a lot

Glad he's headed for the urologist STAT.

May you get the good news you seek.

Should you not get the news you want, just know that testicular cancer is one of the most curable and need not impact his life expectancy. So while I hope he is negative, the prognosis is nearly always good.

testicular cancer in 1996 and after extensive treatment he went on to win multiple Tour de France and other high profile cycling events. (Yes, his legacy is tainted by doping, but I'm citing him here because he's alive and well nearly 30 years later, and a symbol of hope and encouragement for our DU friend and their family).

Didn't stop him from winning 3 Stanley Cups in 2016, 20017, and 2023
or playing 1000 consecutive NHL games.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phil_Kessel]

And a HUG to you. I know two young men who have or I should say had, testicular cancer. One was I think 14 yrs old (now a high school Junior) and the other is a junior in college. Both have had successful treatment and are cancer free. I hope the diagnosis is different for your son but even if it isn’t, take heart in knowing that there is great and successful treatment out there for him. Keeping you and your son in my thoughts.

My step grandneice's husband had this diagnosis 20 years ago, apparently in one testicle. His children, born after his treatment (about which I regrettably have no details) are now in college, and he is around to be proud of him.

It means the world to me in this trying time. 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

And all is well

He may need to have the affected testicle removed. Make certain he is given the option of storing semen prior to undergoing chemotherapy or radiation.

If he has the means and desire he should save some. https://www.healthline.com/health/fertility/freezing-sperm

He was treated and has been clear almost 10 yrs. He assured me when he told me that his cancer responded well to treatment. I hope things go well for your son.

The waiting on results is tough. Take care.

And encouragement

Dealing with insurance etc trying to get a referral to urology.

I will keep you posted.

Reading these messages uplifts me and also gives valuable insight.

one of my friends was diagnosed with stage three testicular cancer. He’s still alive and well, 25 years later.

Sending good vibes to your son and hugs to you.

I have been navigating the insurance world. Thankfully my husband has some contacts at the University otherwise it would be many weeks more. And it’s simply not right but yet thankful he is getting in.

As soon as I know more I will update you guys.

He’s worried he’s anxious he just started a new position at work but he is maintaining.

Thanks everyone you guys uplift me.

morning at UNM Cancer Center. Surgery Nov 8. Testicle looks cancerous per ultrasound. Has to be removed. He’s pondering prosthetic (more does he do it at time of surgery or at a later date).
Right testicle appears “healthy” so this is the good news. I would prefer him to bank sperm but he’s just all over the map right now so I am letting him process.

Thanks for all the support to all my DU family.

But if it is, the best survival rates are for men diagnosed at a younger age…I’ll be keeping you and your son in my thoughts…..stay strong.

sweet little boy in kindergarten who was diagnosed with testicular cancer. I was so shocked because he was only 5. The good news is , he was treated and recovered. Please keep us posted.

And to your whole family. Cancer is scary and I hope you all take advantage of all the support groups available should he be diagnosed with TC.
One day at a time and remember to find joy wherever you can.
Take care
Hugs

I hate to reference the election but slogging along with that has been difficult.

But I have what can only mean good news.

Stage 1 Seminoma testicular cancer no spread to lymph nodes. Surgery was Nov 8 clean margins. Grueling wait til 21st ct scan that shows no spread to lymph nodes. He may have the choice of surveillance or possibly a round of chemo. Will know more when we meet with oncologist in a few weeks.

He waited way too long to even go into the ER for his first ultrasound Oct 1. We have been in a tailspin since then. The prosthetic came in last minute (night before surgery) and he decided to go with it. I think he is ok with that decision.

It has been oh so difficult. His employer just started a program to help with fertility so he has decided to bank sperm no matter what. Wise I believe.

It has meant a lot knowing you are all here thinking of us.

I know there is still a journey ahead. And I know that many stories don’t have such a positive note at this point.

Thankful for where we are and also thankful for all of you. This Thanksgiving.