Hubby just had a heart attack.
I'm headed back to the ER (which is urgent care here, since we have no hospital in this little town anymore). They'll be transferring him to a hospital in KC for catherization in a little bit. I just got all the animals fed and taken care of, and am headed out the door. I also got a message from my sis that her husband's sister (we all grew up together) just had a stroke.
Eclipse... devils comet... huge planetary alignment... Everyone stay safe. At least for me, this has not started out to be the best of days!
Could use some good thoughts sent our way, if you have any to spare! I think tonight will be the first night I've spent alone and away from hubby since we moved to this little town.
TBF
(34,126 posts)hoping your husband has a smooth recovery and sorry to hear about the other relative as well. ((hugs))
Alliepoo
(2,459 posts)And good vibes for your husband. Take care!!
gab13by13
(24,827 posts)Your husband will be in good hands in KC. I just visited KC so I know where to send those positive vibes, they are on the way.
Ocelot II
(120,433 posts)Botany
(72,355 posts)N/t
Dear_Prudence
(816 posts)My thoughts are with you during this very tough time for you and your loved ones.
Diamond_Dog
(34,501 posts)Hope both patients come through well.
brer cat
(26,126 posts)recover quickly. Stay strong and take care of yourself.
onecaliberal
(35,669 posts)ncf
(3 posts)Kansas City has some very good heart care. I know from experience. Hope everything goes well for him.
cilla4progress
(25,818 posts)in my thoughts!
MLAA
(18,570 posts)niyad
(119,536 posts)and healing for hubby and sister's SiL. Your DU family is here for you. Lean as hard as you need. huggggggs
byronius
(7,596 posts)I was healthy, worked out regularly Im a vegan, for petes sake but job stress is a real killer.
Sounds like hes past the rough part. Follow the rules, walk a lot its a long road, but stick to it. I feel better than I have in years.
sinkingfeeling
(52,962 posts)irisblue
(34,158 posts)Doodley
(10,226 posts)Hope22
(2,626 posts)Im so sorry to hear this. Be careful on the roads. Hugs and love 💗💗🙏🏼💐
cate94
(2,882 posts)CrispyQ
(38,134 posts)calimary
(84,133 posts)Green is the color of healing, new growth, and Spring.
We can keep you company from here. You wont be going through this alone.
multigraincracker
(33,957 posts)Follow doctor orders, get check ups and keep moving.
StarryNite
(10,755 posts)Sending healing thoughts to your husband and your sister's husband's sister too.
pazzyanne
(6,597 posts)Don't forget to take care of you! So easy to forget to do this in stressful times.
FailureToCommunicate
(14,313 posts)And you.
Wicked Blue
(6,607 posts)(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
TygrBright
(20,987 posts)Trueblue Texan
(2,899 posts)healing and great joy to you...
sprinkleeninow
(20,540 posts)🙏🕯🕊
live love laugh
(14,251 posts)Read the book The Magnesium Miracle.
cilla4progress
(25,818 posts)a few years ago and so glad I did!
FemDemERA
(396 posts)For you, your husband and extended family. Thats a lot of stress, so be sure to take care of yourself in all of this too, even if just to sit and breathe deeply for a few minutes every so often. Hope there is someone local to help out with animals, etc., so you can focus on your hubby.
AverageOldGuy
(1,991 posts)Getting him anywhere where he can get medical attention was the right thing to do. Urgent Care can identify heart attack, probably run and EKG to diagnose the specifics, and get him on the way to cath lab.
I'm an EMT in a volunteer rescue squad in rural Virginia. Our little local general hospital has very limited capability. For us, heart attacks; strokes; gunshots; head, neck, spinal trauma; and broken bones other than a broken arm all get helicopter to Richmond.
We are able to transmit EKG strips and patient vitals via cell phone to the Richmond or other area medical center ER; your urgent care likely could do that, which will really speed up things when he gets to the hospital.
Prayers for both of you coming for the boondocks of rural Virginia!!
And anyone else who reads this: Especially if you are over 50/55, CALL 911 with: any chest pain or anything that feels like chest pain, no matter how mild; any fall; any thing that feels funny -- slurred speech, facial droop, one arm or leg that doesn't work quite right.
We EMTs can check it out, we have the equipment, we can get you to primary care fast. Time you spend arguing with the family about calling/not calling 911 makes a lot of difference -- for example, in the case of a typical heart attack, the doc wants no more than 90 minutes "from onset to balloon" -- 90 minutes from onset of the heart attack until the doc gets a stint in place in the arteries of the heart. Anything over that causes damage to the heart muscle. The first 60 minutes of a stroke is "the golden hour" -- paramedics and helicopter crews can administer certain clot-busting drugs that will give the doc and you extra time in case of a stroke. CALL 911.
Eyeball_Kid
(7,565 posts)I had a heart attack, stroke, and triple bypass open heart surgery. I'm writing to you because I want to tell you that these things come to pass. If your husband's lucky and healthy he could recover and with some minor adjustments, come roaring back and be his normal self in a matter of months. I'm telling you that, as the subject of these kinds of traumatic events, it's difficult to have faith that there IS a slow road back to normal. And there is time to take stock of the fact that life is indeed fragile, but there are such things as resilience, persistence, humility, and optimism, and that they can all reside in the person and the family that experiences serious medical events, successful or otherwise. Please understand and know that you are not alone in the midst of your trauma. Breathe deep, draw in your spirit of optimism, and move forward with compassion, patience and fortitude. With average medical competency, your husband's medical team will succeed. Let your husband know that your love is there for him. He will never forget.
slightlv
(4,237 posts)Waiting for the cath. His enzymes have climbed since we got here. He's at 3000 right now. Oldest grandson drove me here, the youngest will let the dog outside to do her business. I'll go back home for supper duties if things copacetic here. Thank you all for the good thoughts. Love you all.
democrank
(11,250 posts)Deep breath .you both can get through this.
SleeplessinSoCal
(9,649 posts)yankee87
(2,330 posts)My deepest prayers
Wild blueberry
(7,168 posts)One step, one moment at a time. Be well.
Jay25
(417 posts)Positive thoughts/energy to you and your family.
MuseRider
(34,352 posts)St. Lukes is great and my husband had a terrific outcome at KU Med. I am certain any of them are good but just in case, there is some talk about those 2 always being really fine.
Many good wishes to all of you. Take good care of yourself too.
pandr32
(12,142 posts)You must be so worried. Please update us.
benfranklin1776
(6,567 posts)Warpy
(113,130 posts)and so do you if you both smoke: party's over, time to quit.
His care will be dedicated to preventing another, bigger heart attack. He'll complain he's taking so many pills he rattles when he walks. He'll grump about taking walks as part of his rehab. And that's if he doesn't need surgery.
Don't worry about doing all the changes at once. If he goes on a cardiac diet, you might have to learn how to cook all over again. He'll complain that low salt food tastes like cardboard. Make sure he has lemon slices and pepper, they can go a long way to helping him taste what he's eating during that first miserable month. Just take it slow.
However, tobacco's got to go, and it's got to go today. Vape pens with nicotine free juice can help. Eventually you can graduate to a flavored air device. They're not cheap, but they can help, also.
(Yes, I was a nurse and I worked in cardiac and thoracic surgery. I know the drill)
Goddessartist
(2,067 posts)and I'm still here. It'll take him time to recover. Big hugs.
LetMyPeopleVote
(154,037 posts)You and your husband will be in my prayers
Evolve Dammit
(18,459 posts)Peregrine Took
(7,497 posts)He's 81 now.
The book "Reversing Heart Disease" by Dr Dean Ornish was a tremendous help for us. He followed it to the letter and is doing very well, HIs cardiologist at the U of Chicago said so.
Good luck to you and your husband.
gademocrat7
(11,146 posts)Take care and keep us updated.
SWBTATTReg
(24,011 posts)yellerpup
(12,263 posts)I'd sit with you if I could.
slightlv
(4,237 posts)They just took him for catherization 10 minutes ago. If they find blockage they'll do a Stent then and there they said.
I've got a grandson trying to find me... he's roaming the hospital. He's my ride back home once I know david is out of the woods.
Thanks for the good thoughts!
CaptainTruth
(7,184 posts)marble falls
(61,996 posts)Klondike Kat
(843 posts)LoisB
(8,517 posts)Duncanpup
(13,657 posts)slightlv
(4,237 posts)Hubby is resting... if not completely comfortably. I'd brought my laptop for him and set it up with a desktop app to Netflix, since he said over and over TV there sucks. (gryn).
He had a 100% blockage in the right side of his heart. They put in a stent, and told me if everything goes okay tonight he can come home tomorrow. Lexy (our dog) is still looking for him... poor girl. The cats are just happy Mom's back home. Youngest grandson came over to let Lexy out to the backyard to do her business while the oldest was driving me home.
I am SO ready to catch a nap, myself... You know what I realized today? Screw Trump... family is what's important!
Thank you for being there for me today, my DU family. I truly appreciate you!
Dear_Prudence
(816 posts)of you to supply your husband with Netflix. I found two things really help with pain, love of family and distracting entertainment. You have supplied him with both. Take care.
Goddessartist
(2,067 posts)Thank you so, so much for the update! Lots of rest - it took me a few weeks or so to recover.
malaise
(277,746 posts)chowmama
(495 posts)It sounds like he got to medical care promptly, and time is everything in cardiovascular. If they're letting him go home so soon, I hope
it means there isn't much concern for permanent damage. As has been commented above, there are inevitably going to be some changes in your life, but they should be manageable.
And best of luck to your BIL's sister, too.
stage left
(3,016 posts)headed your way. I hope you two will soon be well and back together. And that sister's sister in law will be well soon, too.
SlimJimmy
(3,246 posts)But, I'll give you this. I'm recovering from open heart surgery from about a year ago. It was certainly slow going for the first five weeks or so. I wasn't even sure it had been worth it. A lot of pain, and I couldn't even get out of the chair to walk without some assistance. But, after that, and some physical therapy and slowly but surely, it got better. Small steps for sure, but small steps forward. Now, nearly a year later, I am just about back to where I was when I was walking every day and golfing. Hang in there, take it a day at a time. It will get better.
Rhiannon12866
(221,157 posts)Sending those powerful DU vibes in your husband's direction and please remember that as long as you're on DU, you're never alone... :
IbogaProject
(3,586 posts)Be thankful he survived and is getting care. I'd suggest being real careful after any stents go in. Do twice the suggested no exertion time. Stents are life savers and on average extend life, but I know some for whom the healing phase took longer. That will be a balancing act as getting moving will still be important.
slightlv
(4,237 posts)This is the same hospital where I lost my dad going thru the same procedure. Dad was about the same age as hubby is now. So scary sitting in that waiting room yes. Just called hospital and found he did ok thru the night. Will be later this afternoon b4 we know he's actually going to be released. I'm alone today, doing the drive myself. Altho after grandsons car my back will probably thank me!
ProfessorGAC
(69,656 posts)And, take care.
XanaDUer2
(13,647 posts)Nt