You need to change how you live.

Period.

K&R

It really is different for each individual, you gotta find what works for you, but there are some basics that really help get you started and keep you on track. I don't do all of the habits listed but I do quite a few, exercise and clean(er) eating being the main things for me.

It's a learning process that's for sure. It took me a while to go from over exercising and eating like an anorexic to lose the weight (over 40lbs, and I maintained it the same way for years afterward) to a healthier, more balanced approach.

Eating well really does make all the difference for me. I'm much happier and healthier now than when I was starving myself. And the thing is you really do not have to do that. It's all about getting good nutrition so you'll feel good and have the energy TO work out.

Anyway, thanks for the rec, I'm glad you liked it, Peggy.

58.5 year old male, 6 feet tall, went from 258 to 198. I move within a range - as low as 194, high as 212 - heavier in the winter, lighter in the summer.

Our approach -

My wife joined me (she lost 20), and is also maintaining it - we each have our favorite person as our support system.

We don't call it a diet - we considered it a permanent lifestyle change.

There are no off limit foods - just portion control and awareness of what we are eating and the caloric content

We took it off by joining Weight Watchers - that taught us how to count "points" and track it. I still do.

We increased our activity - the dogs get a minimum one mile walk per day...often longer.

I have kept a food log since mid 2011 - at the end of the day I just open a Google calendar entry and write down everything I ate and count it up in WW points - my goal is 30-40 points per day (1500-2000 calories, roughly).

I've not had a soft drink of any kind in 7 years - morning coffee, all other meals water - unless we have wine or beer.

Beer or wine limited to 2 days per week, and we either split a beer or have a small glass of wine for each of those two events.

Weekly weigh ins on the Wii that we have.

It sounds complicated, but it is our lifestyle now - it is easy. We both like to cook, and it is mostly fruit, veggies, grains, legumes - some seafood, very little meat.

We love the way we eat - and we always look forward to our meals, and they always taste great.

The big bonus was to my knees - I've got 2 torn ACLs - at 258, I didn't move around well at all, and thought knee replacements were imminent. Now, they feel really good...probably at least 5-10 years until the replacement.

I have a few rules but they don't involve counting or tracking. I basically eat the same things everyday, so I pretty much know the calorie content of everything I eat and don't need to count them. I don't bring fattening unhealthy processed food into the house. I will buy a candy bar at checkout though. And if I want to eat an entire pizza? I do. But I compensate for it by exercising a little more and cutting back on other things for a couple of days.

But my real saving grace is that I love to work out, I love the outdoors. I'm very active. I could eat what ever I wanted, to a point anyway, and not gain weight because I work out so much. But I just feel better when I eat right.

I've seen your food and gardening posts, they really do look yummy, NRaleighLiberal. Congrats on you and your wife's success.

Due to some kidney issues, I went on a low protein diet (with pharmacuetical grade amino acids to supplement) and because a total vegetarian...no eggs, no dairy, no meats, no nuts...
I dropped about 10 lbs and can fit in my college Landlubber jeans!

I wasn't really overweight, but the extra 10 pounds came off quickly....helping my joints, too!

This is excellent advice and I am going to start implementing it immediately!

refrigerator. I am a BIG believer in habits - good ones especially. I had never thought of eating properly as a habit.

I am tackling just one thing at a time. Right now it is breakfast. When I am absolutely positive that I have good habits on it - that I don't even have to think about it, I just eat correctly out of HABIT, then I will tackle the next good eating habit I want to develop.

to build my body up. I quit caffeine, and have quit smoking. I struggle with maintaining weight for various reasons, but since I quit smoking, I feel a HELL of a lot better. I felt a hell of a lot better, too, when I quit caffeine.

I'm not a monk - I will occasionally eat red meat, but cutting out the really bad things has worked for me so far.

walking, yoga and strength training. I ski and snowshoe in winter and kayak and swim in summer. I also play guitar and often will stand, dance and play just to get the exercise. Just keep moving. "The more you're in bed, the quicker you're dead"---Tuesdays with Morrie

When I was a teenager, I weighed 143 at my top. What a curse. But I gradually got it off by age 30 and have been 110-115 lb. ever since. Now I'm 63 y.o. and weigh 112. Here are some important things I've learned:

A healthy diet for weight management is a healthy disease-preventive diet as well. Being overweight is a risk factor for cancer and other diseases, as are alcohol and smoking.

The best diet is low in fats, sugars and salt, and high in raw plant foods. Olive oil, avocados and other "good fats" are OK but dairy should be minimal.

Organic foods are best for disease prevention. Agricultural chemicals we ingest through the food chain are a huge risk factor.

Do not eat processed foods. Period. They are filled with salt, chemicals and sugar.

Do not drink sodas. Even some fruit juices are loaded with sugar. Cut real juice with sparkling water for a healthy "soda."

Use lemons in salads and drinks. Eat grapefruit with a little maple syrup, honey or agave juice if the fruit is sour. Squeeze oranges and make your own OJ

Always have extra (undressed) salad or veg. sticks ready to go; also a light dressing (olive oil/vinegar or lemon base, add a little real maple syrup to sweeten).

Ripen fresh fruit a handful at a time daily on your windowsill. Some people don't like fresh fruit b/c it's not ripe. Also, food tastes better when it's not cold.

Have unsalted or just lightly salted nuts around for snacks.

Dress popcorn with vinegar, soy sauce and nutritional yeast.

The list goes on but these are just a few tips

It we talk about health, then we talk about lifestyle. Maintaining our weight means maintaining our health which also means maintaining out lifestyle. The bad news is, it's not easy. But the good news is it can be done.

sounds drastic but it was really packing on the pounds, even a few beers a day. Then I read the book "How not to die" on a whim and started down the path toward veganism. I still eat a little fish and cheese but no more poultry, pork and very little beef.


I not only look and feel better, but that "tummy bulge" finally went away. My only exercise is a couple of 30-minute dog walks plus yoga every day.