As an older grayish pink male I can see why some, both male and female may feel that way. So, I try to give them a break by looking at it through their eyes and let it go.
Rights for everyone is a concern of mine and I support women, best I can. Not alway perfect, but I try to see everyones point of view.

We are getting slammed hard these days and it breaks out heart.

It tends to warp the perspective. I’m sure you know how dehumanizing prejudice can be. Please stick around. Give us a hard time when it is necessary

I have always had your back.

And it's in all professions. I suppose it's what their grandparents knew as normal, but from the other genders' side.

Step lightly, it's the best advice in this day and age on a lot of things.

I was really out of sorts this morning and had just had enough. I have a court date over my bike accident next week. I am concerned that I am going to end up paying. I am concerned that I have to interact with people I do not know, which has become difficult for myself since moving up here. I am terrified that my husband, who is the sole breadwinner, will have to work harder to make up for what, if judged against me, is my fault. (As you can see... I don't fuck around when I fail at something. To paraphrase that Dos Equis commercial... when I fail, I fail all the way.) I suppose I should not have exploded here, but when you realize that the few people on here are all you have outside of your husband and a roommate who needs to be tossed over the balcony, reading such things just removes any feeling of comfort and makes one feel adrift on a stormy sea. For those who felt I was being rude or 'pissy' with my first post, well I cannot deny that aspect being in there and I apologize. Being constantly crushed by society tends to make one whiny and timid. I did not used to be this way. And, I hate it.