around you.

We need a support system for the carers. It’s exhausting taking care of someone who depends entirely on you, and if we didn’t do it, somehow society would end up paying an awful price, whether it picked up the cost or picked up the pieces.

I sympathize Koz, but have no answer.

care but don’t say so often enough. It’s part of human nature.

...after she developed bone cancer, I can say there just isn't any dedicated support system for the caregivers, other some possible government money normal people have to jump through too many hoops for.

You sadly have to create your own support system through the friends and acquaintances you make. That being said, I made some lifelong friends out of the ordeal, so there's some lasting benefits from doing it.

[some online. I know it isn't for everyone, but I have known many people who have felt better and accessed resources for various situations. If you go that route you may have to find the best one for you. Good luck and be strong.

I know you are not “there” , but DU , and this group has been , here.

Koz