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kozar

(2,850 posts)
Fri May 26, 2023, 03:10 AM May 2023

I " lost" my Mother today

To my brother . RWNJ Brother. I haven’t spoken to him in 7 years.
Today, LilBit’s Medicaid provider came here. We did our meeting, i showed him all the supplies that are piled up in this camper. That I don’t need to care for LilBit. He said” that’s a bunch of money” I said “ya think?!”
When he left I called Mom. To update her on our fight. She just whispered “ I’m at your brothers house, they flew me out here. I can’t talk, you don’t know what I’m going through since Dad died “
I kinda lost my mind then , “ oh ? I didn’t lose my wife? Oh? I had no money and a challenged daughter? Oh ? You are being flown around the country? “
Mom just said, “ I gotta block you”

I am who I am, we , as Dems, live our beliefs. We do the right things , we believe. And while doing that, we will lose, close friends, family, and online .
But , we DUrs never lost the fight.
Signed,
A tired Koz



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I " lost" my Mother today (Original Post) kozar May 2023 OP
hugggggs.I am so very sorry for all you are going through. But you are niyad May 2023 #1
Oh koz, like you need another challenge in your life. badhair77 May 2023 #2
So sad, and so unnecessary. Walleye May 2023 #3
Hang in there, kozar! pazzyanne May 2023 #4
We keep doing what it takes to keep doing what it takes. Stay strong. marble falls May 2023 #5
I am sorry that you are dealing with this. OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #6

niyad

(119,888 posts)
1. hugggggs.I am so very sorry for all you are going through. But you are
Fri May 26, 2023, 04:21 AM
May 2023

correct, we never lost the fight. Never give up.

badhair77

(4,609 posts)
2. Oh koz, like you need another challenge in your life.
Fri May 26, 2023, 04:40 AM
May 2023

I am so sorry you’re going through so much. I know you’re tired and probably feel like you can’t handle much more but you will find the strength. I know you can just by following what you’ve done so far. Sending prayers, vibes, thoughts, whatever you believe in, your way. Oh, and sending hugs, too.

pazzyanne

(6,601 posts)
4. Hang in there, kozar!
Fri May 26, 2023, 05:11 AM
May 2023

You are doing the right things! I have RWNJS of my own in my family so I understand. My youngest brother and I are the only sane ones in my family. Democrats are kind compassionate people, Republicans are not! Keep being you, and may there be blessings from the Universe in your future! Stay connected to DU. It's where sane people come together! Give LilBit a hug.

OldBaldy1701E

(6,338 posts)
6. I am sorry that you are dealing with this.
Fri May 26, 2023, 10:16 PM
May 2023

My words are not much in the way of help, but I hope you know I am sending what good vibes I have your way.

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