Mental Health Support
Related: About this forumSorry to be a downer
But cannot go on. Jaw ears hurt. I just cannot anymore. B f ranting at me. Life isn't worth it anymore
hlthe2b
(106,360 posts)If no one is immediately available to you, PLEASE call '988'. HELP IS AVAILABLE. That's right, just three digits: 988
Get the help you need and live to look back and realize that even in your worse moments, there is help and all can change.
Please!
no_hypocrisy
(48,795 posts)Get help now! Even 911. Please keep fighting!
911 may bring a police response that makes things worse.
no_hypocrisy
(48,795 posts)The police have special units for those in a crisis.
LoisB
(8,666 posts)those thoughts out of your head.
arlyellowdog
(1,429 posts)Just walk, leave. Please.
XanaDUer2
(13,872 posts)Iif i only had money i can't even afford a room
Keepthesoulalive
(585 posts)We are not judging you. We are trying to support you during this difficult time. Try to talk to someone. Make that call.
fierywoman
(8,105 posts)Keepthesoulalive
(585 posts)Physical and emotional pain can cloud your thinking. As others have said call a help line. You are special and dont let anyone take that from you.
ShazzieB
(18,670 posts)What to expect:
More info: https://988lifeline.org/talk-to-someone-now/
XanaDUer2
(13,872 posts)irisblue
(34,265 posts)XanaDUer2
(13,872 posts)I don't know what I'll do. I spent 32k so far 4 specialist tx and he hurt me. Its bankrupting me. My so called partner doesn't gaf and won't even tell me itll b ok. He's on the specialist side. Keeps saying I'll alinate the dr this dr etc when i have healthcare and want answers or have symptoms all i hear id they'll b mad I'm questioning their competence bc i told this dentist i am not comfortable w him putting pressure on my jaw and I'm shocked he pushed it..
He got this look like pita bitch and said use "moist heat" until it "settles down" her i am a week later in pain. I cannot believe this is happening. I came so far in my tx.
My fucking partner has me by the pubes and knows it. I supported him 25 yrs. Hes paying the bills n the big threat every day is I'm v cutting the money off but he won't leave when he said how much i irritate him..he abuses his RXes. Hes said he's leaving i said fine go I'm not stopping you by pleading or crying fuck u
XanaDUer2
(13,872 posts)Dental tx. I'm ducked n just have to live this life bc of money
MotownPgh
(359 posts)Does he perhaps have a life insurance policy with you as beneficiary? That could be some future peace of mind. No advice about the relationship. I'm an expert dumper.
XanaDUer2
(13,872 posts)He got his hooks in me when i was 29 traumatized by nursing my beloved mother dying of cancer for a year. I was so lost and needed someone. Hes an addict. I've really messed myself up for yrs. I'm supposedly on his 963 mo pension for ten yrs and on his bank accounts.
Any policy for a 72 yr old smoker premium is expensive
MotownPgh
(359 posts)you find a way to check if you are on it? If you are not married you may still have common rights to it.
XanaDUer2
(13,872 posts)And I have some paperwork. Once he yelled Your lucky to be on the pension!!!
I've stood by him with a lot.
murielm99
(31,436 posts)will make it worse. I know firsthand that pain distorts everything. Try to find one tiny thing that is not a part of the pain.
Your life is a gift to yourself and to us. Don't leave us.
OldBaldy1701E
(6,349 posts)I am not much better at the moment, but I can do this.
XanaDUer2
(13,872 posts)My ears hurt and face aches. I ducked myself over by bringing in two plastic things him to shove onto my jaw. I've given up. Yesterday the office staff talked to me like I'm a neurotic nut with phantom pain problems. I'm on the shit list now for "complaining" abt not comfortable having pressure on my jaw and that I'm having mild pain
They scammed my bite and according to them its all great. I'm not imagining this discomfort. 32k so fr. My condo money. I sometimes wish Id fall asleep and just die in my sleep.
OldBaldy1701E
(6,349 posts)Your doctor answers to someone, be it the owner, the founder, or the press. Use them. Write to the medical board for your area. Tell them that your complaints are falling on deaf ears because you are not rich enough to warrant any attention from them. Tell them that you feel you should contact the state agencies that apply to this situation and that you are also thinking about a federal complaint as well. Sure, they might not care in a legal sense, but today's number one threat is the social media piranha pool. Remind them that any and all complaints of an official nature are public and can be requested by anyone. And, that you are a very thorough writer.
I know this sounds silly, but I have found that the threat of the piranha pool can sometimes be useful.
I hope you are doing a bit better today.
XanaDUer2
(13,872 posts)Things were great. I had no clue this was going to happen. I assumed i would get the best of care which i had been doing.
I'm pretty screwed. Getting mild ear pain. I can't live on Tylenol.