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XanaDUer2

(13,621 posts)
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 04:25 PM Sep 23

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This message was self-deleted by its author (Original Post) XanaDUer2 Sep 23 OP
Have you considered finding out a bit more PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 23 #1
Or very supportive, if I can add my opinion Deuxcents Sep 23 #2
Feel free XanaDUer2 Sep 23 #3
I do not believe that is true Lulu KC Sep 23 #10
Thank you XanaDUer2 Sep 23 #11
Good plan n/t Lulu KC Sep 23 #14
stop listening to him Skittles Sep 23 #4
It goes to show abusers come XanaDUer2 Sep 23 #6
If your disability has been approved by the federal agency questionseverything Sep 23 #5
He's hateful XanaDUer2 Sep 23 #7
I'm sorry you're going through all this questionseverything Sep 23 #8
Everyone hear is wonderful and supportive XanaDUer2 Sep 23 #9
I'm so sorry about all that you are going through. I wish I could help. WDLAL Sep 23 #12
Yes of course XanaDUer2 Sep 23 #13

PoindexterOglethorpe

(26,607 posts)
1. Have you considered finding out a bit more
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 04:30 PM
Sep 23

about your disability and the chance of losing it? Your "partner" does not sound like a reliable source of information .

Deuxcents

(19,515 posts)
2. Or very supportive, if I can add my opinion
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 04:31 PM
Sep 23

XanaDUer2

(13,621 posts)
3. Feel free
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 04:36 PM
Sep 23

I want to move out off this state and now its you'll lose your disability within a year. Its a control move. I finally told him when he threatened cutting off bill money that that's fine, I'll call them so they start eviction, and in 30 days we can go our seperate ways finally. That's shut him up

Lulu KC

(4,011 posts)
10. I do not believe that is true
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 05:58 PM
Sep 23

I have a son on SSDI and have never heard he could not leave the state he's in. Since it's through the feds, how would the state even matter? If it were Medicaid, it would probably need a new application in a new state, but not SSDI.

I just did a quick Google search and I'm right.

Google is definitely a better friend than your guy, at this point in his life, anyway.

XanaDUer2

(13,621 posts)
11. Thank you
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 06:02 PM
Sep 23

I think this is some mind game. He sits and argues politics all day. I refuse to even listen at this point.

I want to eventually move from here and for some reason he wants to stay. Its not his home state. I didn't even listen to his stupidity.

Lulu KC

(4,011 posts)
14. Good plan n/t
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 06:59 PM
Sep 23

Skittles

(158,410 posts)
4. stop listening to him
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 04:43 PM
Sep 23

it's gibberish. he sounds like Trump

XanaDUer2

(13,621 posts)
6. It goes to show abusers come
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 04:49 PM
Sep 23

From all back grounds. Political beliefs socioeconomic classes everything.

He's 72

questionseverything

(10,054 posts)
5. If your disability has been approved by the federal agency
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 04:46 PM
Sep 23

It shouldn’t matter where in the United States you live

XanaDUer2

(13,621 posts)
7. He's hateful
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 04:52 PM
Sep 23

If i got more money id b gone. I'm supposedly on his pension. Ten yrs but I'm wondering if its worth it. I'm getting nastier to his abuse basically telling him lets part. He was scaring me that hed leave and take the money away and i got so sick of it i told him gtfo and I'm. Not standing in his way.

He felt like "packing his bags and leaving" and i said go ahead I'm not crying or begging u to stay and he was shocked.

questionseverything

(10,054 posts)
8. I'm sorry you're going through all this
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 04:55 PM
Sep 23

XanaDUer2

(13,621 posts)
9. Everyone hear is wonderful and supportive
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 04:58 PM
Sep 23

Its constant drama and i have no one to talk to other than therapist.

Thank you. Hes 72, smokes, drinks, has BE so who knows. I fantasive abt having my own quiet place eventually

WDLAL

(46 posts)
12. I'm so sorry about all that you are going through. I wish I could help.
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 06:14 PM
Sep 23

I'm praying for you and your situation, if that's ok.

XanaDUer2

(13,621 posts)
13. Yes of course
Mon Sep 23, 2024, 06:16 PM
Sep 23

Ty.

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