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FirstLight

(14,079 posts) Fri Oct 25, 2024, 09:35 PM Oct 25

I'm giving her 7 days to get out we'll see if we make it that long without somebody getting really hurt

.... I'm going to have to instacart hardware and try to somehow bolt my bedroom door. I'm not going to leave my room if I don't have to and tonight while she's sleeping I'm going to get all of my breakables and valuables out of the living room.

I came home from the doctor's completely discouraged because the bottom line is unless I'm willing to call the cops no one can help me and even then when they let her out she'll just come back here and I don't know what...

Tonight she thralled me and had me on the floor with a piece of hard sharp broken ceramic up by my cheek in my eye she also told me to go ahead and sleep tonight and see if I wake up in the morning. She said she's going to take one of the cats when she leaves because it's hers even though she'll probably kill it on her way back to georgia.

I should have known better. I should have known better than to try and love somebody who was on that many medications I should have known that she'd go psycho on me sooner or later and it was just a matter of time

I'm giving her a week to sell whatever she can to get money to get the fuck out of here. She's taking the car because I bought it for her with money from my parents estate and now I'll have to go find myself a car she's got both keys so now I'm also stranded

I doubt if I'm sleeping tonight but if I do it'll be with the one eye fucking open

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I'm giving her 7 days to get out we'll see if we make it that long without somebody getting really hurt (Original Post) FirstLight Oct 25 OP

well there's a door in your place that leads to an exit nt msongs Oct 25 #1

LEAVE. elleng Oct 25 #2

Its MY house FirstLight Oct 25 #5

It was MY house too, and when we 'split' it, I didn't get 50%, but elleng Oct 25 #6

She had neck surgery a week ago FirstLight Oct 25 #7

I think... 2naSalit Oct 25 #8

Please leave this location. FeelingBlue Oct 25 #3

Take yourself and the animals Mz Pip Oct 25 #4

I'll take steps in the morning FirstLight Oct 25 #9

I also took a video showing my neck FirstLight Oct 25 #10

I'm going to the hospital the swelling is bad FirstLight Oct 26 #11

msongs

(70,170 posts)

1. well there's a door in your place that leads to an exit nt

Reply to FirstLight (Original post)

Fri Oct 25, 2024, 09:37 PM

Oct 25

elleng

(136,043 posts)

2. LEAVE.

Reply to FirstLight (Original post)

Fri Oct 25, 2024, 09:40 PM

Oct 25

Do NOT stay there. (I left.)

FirstLight

(14,079 posts)

5. Its MY house

Reply to elleng (Reply #2)

Fri Oct 25, 2024, 09:48 PM

Oct 25

And honestly if I leave which I can't cuz she took the fucking keys to the car even if I ubered somewhere she'd kill both the cats and I'm not going to let her do that she's already said she'll kill the cats and trash the house or burn it down

elleng

(136,043 posts)

6. It was MY house too, and when we 'split' it, I didn't get 50%, but

Reply to FirstLight (Reply #5)

Fri Oct 25, 2024, 10:00 PM

Oct 25

I survived.

Sounds like police should be called in.

FirstLight

(14,079 posts)

7. She had neck surgery a week ago

Reply to elleng (Reply #6)

Fri Oct 25, 2024, 10:06 PM

Oct 25

Blames all this on the meds...

I can't send her to jail like that... Yeah im a sucker i know

Shes got nobody else either, her kids are back in GA... I was/am all she has.

2naSalit

(92,665 posts)

8. I think...

Reply to FirstLight (Reply #5)

Fri Oct 25, 2024, 10:53 PM

Oct 25

You need to call the police and have her removed to a medical facility or something, like now. If she can't control her rage, something has to change and it isn't you.

Have her removed because she is terrorizing you in your own home and threatening harm to you and your pets. And if she want to burn down your home...

You've made it to this point, of realizing you have to separate, spare yourself more harm. She won't get help if nobody makes the first move.

FeelingBlue

(758 posts)

3. Please leave this location.

Reply to FirstLight (Original post)

Fri Oct 25, 2024, 09:44 PM

Oct 25

Let go —and save your life.

And, please stay in touch with us.

Mz Pip

(27,890 posts)

4. Take yourself and the animals

Reply to FirstLight (Original post)

Fri Oct 25, 2024, 09:47 PM

Oct 25

And leave. Get the keys, or call a friend. Get out.

FirstLight

(14,079 posts)

9. I'll take steps in the morning

Reply to FirstLight (Original post)

Fri Oct 25, 2024, 10:58 PM

Oct 25

Shes asleep and I am gonna make coffee and stay up in my room I guess.

I reached out to a friend in the Bay, trying to see if she can come have my back too...

FirstLight

(14,079 posts)

10. I also took a video showing my neck

Reply to FirstLight (Reply #9)

Fri Oct 25, 2024, 11:00 PM

Oct 25

Even these posts could be my kids' evidence if she finally kills me

FirstLight

(14,079 posts)

11. I'm going to the hospital the swelling is bad

Reply to FirstLight (Original post)

Sat Oct 26, 2024, 12:50 AM

Oct 26

I took two videos, one recently after it happened and the second one a few minutes ago and I can see the difference.

Since she's got the keys I am going to see if there's any Ubers available cuz we're pretty rural. But the more I read about strangulation being the cause of most murders in domestic violence I also am understanding more about the physical damage that even the slightest bit of strangulation can cause and the swelling is not looking good so I need to go get an x-ray

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