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XanaDUer2

(13,829 posts)
Sun Oct 27, 2024, 11:01 AM Oct 27

I'm always wrong

Last edited Mon Oct 28, 2024, 07:58 AM - Edit history (4)

If i had more cash id b gone.

We were in publix yesterday. My "partner" could have got ensure and i would have paid for it. After downing 2 containers of wine, he tells me as usual he's feeling sick and can he have some of the small wine i bought myself. I gave him some to shtfu. As you all know, wine is good when you feel sick. He screamed i don't care if he's sick. I don't anymore. I'm not allowed to talk about things upsetting me.

I tell this stupid fucker last nite I'm getting up early to put in an order. He could have said buy ensure last night. I would have. The groceries came and he starts complaining i didn't wake him up to ask him what he wants. His diet changes constantly. Now he's trying to nurse his BE. Still smoking and drinking and ate a pint of ice cream last night.

I think he has cancer i don't care what his dr sez.i have no guilt. Yester day in the store in front of everyone he screams stfu and leave me alone. I wasnt even phased at this point. I want peace and quiet. Fucking asshole

ETA I hid my wine bc when i left it out last week he finished it bc insomnia. He knew it was mine. Thats how he is. Hes waddling arnd the apt now and Im ignoring him. I have to hide my snacks bc hes the kind of person wholl shove his snacks in his pie hole in 2 hrs then eat mine. He also will use the otc meds i buy myself. Like glug a bottle of pepto in a few hrs. So when he gives himself screaming diarrhea (groaning and yelling OMG), I secretly laugh knowing i have hidden otc meds i no longer share.

He ate all my gummi vitamins overnight bc they were like candy after i tried sharing w him to be nice for his health. Selfish pig

Was just informed that, due to his current health concerns, I should have bought "organic green iced tea" and not the WM brand he used to drink. I told him pour it down the sink, I don't care at this point. Remember, Mr Health smokes, drinks and just ate 5 fudgecicles today. Whoops, 6 fudgecicles. The box will be empty by midnight.

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I'm always wrong (Original Post) XanaDUer2 Oct 27 OP
I'm glad you're doing what you have to do to take care of yourself. crosinski Oct 27 #1
He saw my glass of wine XanaDUer2 Oct 27 #2
My dad and brother were drinkers. crosinski Oct 27 #3

crosinski

(562 posts)
1. I'm glad you're doing what you have to do to take care of yourself.
Sun Oct 27, 2024, 05:16 PM
Oct 27

He’s an adult and can take care of himself too, although that might come as a shock to him when you don’t step in to help him out.

XanaDUer2

(13,829 posts)
2. He saw my glass of wine
Sun Oct 27, 2024, 05:21 PM
Oct 27

And asked for it. I gave him the dregs when I was done. Yes, he's on one of his drink-booze-smoke-eat-shit health kicks.

crosinski

(562 posts)
3. My dad and brother were drinkers.
Sun Oct 27, 2024, 06:00 PM
Oct 27

They liked to get drunk and pick on me. I slowly learned to let them spin their wheels and ignore them. That was hard because alcoholics know how to push your buttons.

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