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Neoma

(10,039 posts)
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 11:56 AM Mar 2013

My mental state might get worse.

Due to being hit by a mini van. My therapist thinks I might have PTSD now... I'm a little bit afraid of cars now. As in cringing the whole time I was coming home from the hospital.

Then there's the physical recovery itself. It's going to be very frustrating. I can't get out of bed by myself.

Edit: I was on foot on a crosswalk by the way. Two hairline fractures on my right hip and a bruised finger. Full recovery expected.

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My mental state might get worse. (Original Post) Neoma Mar 2013 OP
Please look after yourself BainsBane Mar 2013 #1
Take care of yourself get the red out Mar 2013 #2
Oh no! polly7 Mar 2013 #3
Be well, and work with therapists, elleng Mar 2013 #4
i think it's natural to feel this way fizzgig Mar 2013 #5
Me too. No reason to go straight to PTSD. HereSince1628 Mar 2013 #8
I'm having a similar issue irisblue Mar 2013 #6
hang in there. mopinko Mar 2013 #7
How are you doing Neoma? BainsBane Mar 2013 #9
This message was self-deleted by its author polly7 Mar 2013 #10
Updated here. Neoma Mar 2013 #11
Update: Neoma Apr 2013 #12
I'm so glad you're feeling better BainsBane Apr 2013 #13
Update. Neoma Apr 2013 #14
Hello. hunter Apr 2013 #15
Update: Neoma Apr 2013 #16

get the red out

(13,595 posts)
2. Take care of yourself
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 12:03 PM
Mar 2013

If you have a therapist and can get to their office, go see them. Take care of mind and body.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
3. Oh no!
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 12:03 PM
Mar 2013

How traumatic, I'm so sorry, Neoma! Treat yourself gently, and just concentrate on healing physically for now. What rotten luck, I hope you're not hurting too much.

elleng

(136,184 posts)
4. Be well, and work with therapists,
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 12:11 PM
Mar 2013

physical, occupational, emotional and psychological.

We are with you, Neoma.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
5. i think it's natural to feel this way
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 12:44 PM
Mar 2013

i was in a car accident when i was a teenager and for the longest time i would cringe and grab the 'oh shit' handle if i caught a car coming out of the corner of my eye. it's been 17 or 18 years since the accident and i'm still a bit uncomfortable in the car.

take care of yourself and give yourself plenty of time to heal.

HereSince1628

(36,063 posts)
8. Me too. No reason to go straight to PTSD.
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 05:39 PM
Mar 2013

Rule of thumb in these things is the symptoms that distress you need to not be better associated with other causes--like the immediate shock of the accident, and they need to have some duration.

It may be something to watch, but I'm sort of surprised a therapist would go there. Usually they are pretty worried about laying the ground work that could lead to something factitious.

irisblue

(34,294 posts)
6. I'm having a similar issue
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 02:20 PM
Mar 2013

2 car related accidents and one near miss has really made it hard for me. I stopped driving for a year, took a bus or got a ride or walked or didn't go. Keep talking to your therapist. kind regards

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Neoma

(10,039 posts)
12. Update:
Thu Apr 4, 2013, 04:49 PM
Apr 2013

Ow! Argh, eek!

Me: MOM! Is it pain med time yet?

I'm getting stronger, but jeez whiz is this a long slow process. Physical therapist exercises are challenging and takes a lot of time. I learned that magnesium is good for constipation problems (handy advice!) and oh well Duh, I need more calcium in me right now. And potassium... And maybe some B-12.

Did I mention I got a singing telegram for my birthday from the driver that hit me with her mini van? Yeah...that was interesting.

BainsBane

(54,798 posts)
13. I'm so glad you're feeling better
Thu Apr 4, 2013, 05:22 PM
Apr 2013

That singing telegraph sounds sweet. What a nice surprise. I know how hard pain can be. Keep getting better.

Neoma

(10,039 posts)
16. Update:
Tue Apr 16, 2013, 01:03 PM
Apr 2013

I can wear jeans, sleeping on my right side is okay, and I can sit in any chair now. The doctor said he'd let me put weight now, except 3 weeks is just a precaution, in case it'd crack more if it's not fully healed.

I'm getting strong muscles from basically lifting up my entire body when I use my walker to hop. Then there's the leg exercises I have to do twice a day. Only thing I'm worried about are my hamstrings.

Now it's just an annoying waiting game.

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