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LeftInTX

(29,714 posts)
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 12:11 AM Nov 2018

Family surprise!

A few weeks ago, someone called my husband at work. He claimed to be my great grandfather's son. He is only 10 years older than me.

(My husband is a public figure so that is how he got my husband's work #. He got my husband's name from my dad's obituary)


So, my grandmother had a 1/2 brother with her father's second wife. Our parents never told us about this, but this guy knew my parents. This guy was 14 years younger than my mother.

My grandmother was born in 1911 and her brother was born in 1946.

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Family surprise! (Original Post) LeftInTX Nov 2018 OP
I found out late in my life.... chillfactor Nov 2018 #1
We found out in 2014, that one of my parternal great greatmothers survived the Armenian Genocide LeftInTX Nov 2018 #2
Ancestry.com ---- I got results of 242 second and third cousins. Count continues to rise. 3Hotdogs Nov 2018 #3
I'm assuming that is from the DNA test? LakeSuperiorView Nov 2018 #4
Yuppers. 3Hotdogs Nov 2018 #6
Wow! The Genealogist Nov 2018 #5
That's only an estimated relationship based on amount of shared DNA Spider Jerusalem Dec 2018 #7
I got cannabis_flower May 2021 #8
I got a new second cousin last week. 3Hotdogs May 2021 #9

chillfactor

(7,684 posts)
1. I found out late in my life....
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 12:29 AM
Nov 2018

that my grandfather (my mother's father) had been marries before he married my grandmother. I had no idea where this family was and I was never able to track them down.

LeftInTX

(29,714 posts)
2. We found out in 2014, that one of my parternal great greatmothers survived the Armenian Genocide
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 12:35 AM
Nov 2018

My dad thought she had died. We found her on a ship manifest. She was deported from Ellis Island.

We think she went to France, because my grandmother went there when she was deported.

For his entire life, my dad thought his dad's family had all perished.

3Hotdogs

(13,315 posts)
3. Ancestry.com ---- I got results of 242 second and third cousins. Count continues to rise.
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 08:09 AM
Nov 2018

My great grandfather, or grandmother, or both were quite randy.

 

LakeSuperiorView

(1,533 posts)
4. I'm assuming that is from the DNA test?
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 08:33 AM
Nov 2018

I have 15, that's right, 15 second and third cousins from the Ancestry DNA test. 429 fourth cousin and closer. This is two years after getting my test results. My tree, which I have been working on for 20 years, went from around 3000 to now over 11,100 in the last two years. When you start adding fifth, sixth, seventh cousins to your tree, it gets bigger fast.

The Genealogist

(4,726 posts)
5. Wow!
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 07:44 PM
Nov 2018

I just counted mine. I have 20 (twenty) in that range. My results have been up for a two or three years. However, when you go to the next level up (people in the 4th-6th cousin range) I have over a thousand.

 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
7. That's only an estimated relationship based on amount of shared DNA
Mon Dec 3, 2018, 11:38 PM
Dec 2018

if you're Ashkenazi Jewish, French Canadian or Acadian, then all those predicted second and third cousins are likely more distantly related (because those are endogamous populations).

3Hotdogs

(13,315 posts)
9. I got a new second cousin last week.
Thu May 6, 2021, 06:38 AM
May 2021

Around 1930, my uncle impregnated a woman.... sex once, and never saw him again.

She described him to her family as "..looks like James Cagney."


Yup. That was him. He could have done stand in for Cagney.

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