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Siwsan

(27,253 posts)
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 08:50 AM Jul 2022

I have gut wrenching news to share. Sweet Mittens the Kitten has crossed the Rainbow Bridge

I'm in shock. She wasn't outside at breakfast, this morning, but that's not totally unusual. I fed the rest and carried on. When I went out to start some yard work I saw something on my lawn, just off of the curb. My heart sank because the closer I got - yes, it was my baby.

I don't know if she was hit by a car or of some miscreant neighbor decided to send a message (I doubt the next door neighbor but maybe time will tell.)

Needless to say I burst into tears and then quickly found a shovel so I could dig a grave. She's buried by a rose bush, along side the garage. I put some roses in the ground with her and a marker will be made.

I tried to carry on with yard work but I can't stop crying. Maybe later. I don't know. What I do know is I don't think I can bear this pain for the 3rd time in less than a year.

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I have gut wrenching news to share. Sweet Mittens the Kitten has crossed the Rainbow Bridge (Original Post) Siwsan Jul 2022 OP
😢🕯 blm Jul 2022 #1
I'm so sorry. redwitch Jul 2022 #2
So very sorry! FalloutShelter Jul 2022 #3
I am so sorry. . I know how painful this is. Remember that she loves you still for caring for her. CurtEastPoint Jul 2022 #4
How very sad MN2theMax Jul 2022 #5
Oh no, this is devastating news. I'm so sorry to hear this. virgdem Jul 2022 #6
So sorry Desert_Leslie Jul 2022 #7
I am so sorry KarenS Jul 2022 #8
Oh, I know the feeling. TexLaProgressive Jul 2022 #9
I'm crying with you. wnylib Jul 2022 #10
I'm so sorry. nt Phoenix61 Jul 2022 #11
I feel so sorry for you. BigmanPigman Jul 2022 #12
I'm so sorry. 50 Shades Of Blue Jul 2022 #13
So very Rebl2 Jul 2022 #14
So sorry Siwsan kimbutgar Jul 2022 #15
Here's a link to the post of the last pic I took of her and shared on DU Siwsan Jul 2022 #18
I was worried it was her kimbutgar Jul 2022 #50
She was so special, and the sweetest little girl Siwsan Jul 2022 #56
All my sympathy Moostache Jul 2022 #16
So sorry. There is no pain quite like it. Spread love to your other kitties. Walleye Jul 2022 #17
I'm so sorry! Ocelot II Jul 2022 #19
I'm so sorry, I hope you can find peace knowing you did your best for her. Mozeltov Cocktail Jul 2022 #20
I m so sorry to hear of your sorrow. MLAA Jul 2022 #21
Lady Bast, please take Your Mittens gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace niyad Jul 2022 #22
Poor kitty wryter2000 Jul 2022 #23
I am so sorry. StarryNite Jul 2022 #24
I am so very sorry that you lost your sweet Mittens. FM123 Jul 2022 #25
I am so sorry. c-rational Jul 2022 #26
The deep pain will ease. It will take you awhile. Finding her as you did Polly Hennessey Jul 2022 #27
I am so sorry. peacefreak2.0 Jul 2022 #28
The heartbreak is gut wrenching..I am so sorry siwsan..I share your tears.. asiliveandbreathe Jul 2022 #29
Oh no.... I'm so sorry. Thank you for loving her and caring for her. onecaliberal Jul 2022 #30
So very sorry. sinkingfeeling Jul 2022 #31
I'm so very sorry Goddessartist Jul 2022 #32
So sorry Siwsan 2naSalit Jul 2022 #33
The sorrow of loving an animal. I am so sorry Siwsan. Fla Dem Jul 2022 #34
I'm so Sorry Siswan! MindHowYouGo Jul 2022 #35
I think that is absolutely lovely Siwsan Jul 2022 #44
I'm so sorry! abenavraham2020 Jul 2022 #36
Thank you, and welcome to DU! Siwsan Jul 2022 #46
Omg! I am so saddened go hear this! SheltieLover Jul 2022 #37
She was so very loved by you. Remember the love ❤️. Guilded Lilly Jul 2022 #38
I'm very very sorry.😿 benfranklin1776 Jul 2022 #39
it happens, the first year is very hard on kittens rampartc Jul 2022 #40
I'm so very sorry stage left Jul 2022 #41
I'm sorry nt XanaDUer2 Jul 2022 #42
I'm so sorry Klondike Kat Jul 2022 #43
Sorry to hear. Raven123 Jul 2022 #45
I'm so sorry cate94 Jul 2022 #47
Oh, I am so sorry. LoisB Jul 2022 #48
So very sorry Siswan Picaro Jul 2022 #49
Very sorry Traildogbob Jul 2022 #51
So, so sorry. It hurts every time, but sometimes worse than others. Thinking of you. Biophilic Jul 2022 #52
I'm so sorry... CaptainTruth Jul 2022 #53
Condolences, Siwsan gademocrat7 Jul 2022 #54
I am so sorry, Siwsan... slightlv Jul 2022 #55
I'm so so sorry for you and for your dear kitten. Texin Jul 2022 #57
I'm so sorry pandr32 Jul 2022 #58
I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious fur baby. revmclaren Jul 2022 #59
((((Siwsan)))) MiHale Jul 2022 #60
Oh, God, Siwsan! I'm so sorry... highplainsdem Jul 2022 #61
😭😭😭 we can do it Jul 2022 #62
I am so sorry MacKasey Jul 2022 #63
I am so so sorry. irisblue Jul 2022 #64
So sorry for this wrenching pain JudyM Jul 2022 #65
I'm so sorry, Siwsan. brer cat Jul 2022 #66
I'm sorry Siwsan. TexasTowelie Jul 2022 #67
Oh no wendyb-NC Jul 2022 #68
I am so sorry. Nt raccoon Jul 2022 #69
They leave their little paw prints all over your heart. calimary Jul 2022 #70
Siwsan, I'm so very sorry. femmedem Jul 2022 #71

virgdem

(2,204 posts)
6. Oh no, this is devastating news. I'm so sorry to hear this.
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 08:58 AM
Jul 2022

My deepest condolences to you on this sad day. RIP sweet Mittens.

Desert_Leslie

(131 posts)
7. So sorry
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 08:58 AM
Jul 2022

So so sorry. Lost my beloved cat in May to lymphoma. We're still crying now and then.

We live in Scottsdale at the edge of raw desert. In our neighborhood, no one lets their cats out because we have so much wildlife in the area -- bobcats, coyotes, and a rare mountain lion. In the 12 years we've lived in the neighborhood we have NEVER seen a cat outside a home ... because it's just too dangerous for them and they would not last long.

TexLaProgressive

(12,274 posts)
9. Oh, I know the feeling.
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 09:00 AM
Jul 2022

I have buried so many fur friends that were struck by vehicles. I can’t stand the thought of them feeding the buzzards. Others have died from disease. It is always gut wrenching. I worry about our ferals and Dearie the deer. That one has been visiting for over 3 years, showing off her fawns and insisting on a can of bird seed in her bowl.

Thank you for being such a good friend to the cats, rescues and ferals.

wnylib

(24,223 posts)
10. I'm crying with you.
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 09:01 AM
Jul 2022


For whatever it's worth, you gave her a good life for as long as you could. Some things are beyond our control.

May her brothers console you.

Siwsan

(27,253 posts)
56. She was so special, and the sweetest little girl
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 11:03 AM
Jul 2022

Early on she'd let me give her scritches. And she always very softly meowed at me. Seeing her, first thing in the morning, always made me smile. I still can't fully accept she's gone.

The weird thing is, I've never seen her anywhere near the street. She wandered from my house to the neighbors, and around my back lot. And if she was hit by a car, it was a glancing blow. What actually happened to her is going to haunt me.

Moostache

(10,135 posts)
16. All my sympathy
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 09:08 AM
Jul 2022

Never easy, and i wish i could take away the pain, but your feelings are a reflection of the impact made in Mitten's entirely too short tine with us.

niyad

(119,485 posts)
22. Lady Bast, please take Your Mittens gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 09:20 AM
Jul 2022

and comfort to our Siwsan, her heartbroken mom.

I am so very sorry. Hurting for you and crying. Your outdoor babies are part of oyr extended family.

FM123

(10,119 posts)
25. I am so very sorry that you lost your sweet Mittens.
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 09:23 AM
Jul 2022

Please accept our hugs during this very sad time

Polly Hennessey

(7,419 posts)
27. The deep pain will ease. It will take you awhile. Finding her as you did
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 09:23 AM
Jul 2022

is difficult. You gave her love and respect and you took care of her. You had her and she had you and that is a beautiful bond. I am glad you gave her roses, she deserved them. Let the tears flow because one day the smiles will emerge for Mittens the Kitten.

peacefreak2.0

(1,026 posts)
28. I am so sorry.
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 09:23 AM
Jul 2022

You showed her love and kindness and sustenance. She gave you the precious gift of her trust. Her hard life was made better because of you. ♥️🌻🕊

asiliveandbreathe

(8,203 posts)
29. The heartbreak is gut wrenching..I am so sorry siwsan..I share your tears..
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 09:25 AM
Jul 2022

I haven't been able to talk about my Penny..my dear Penny passed 12/12...I had her for 12 years..so hard...I was iin awe of you and how you overcame Sophie Stinky Toes...You are so caring, many have told me to adopt another and I just couldn't.. You have given us so much joy with your new found loveys...

I am so sorry Siwsan..hugs to Gryff, Madoc, and Arthur...

2naSalit

(92,322 posts)
33. So sorry Siwsan
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 09:40 AM
Jul 2022

I think the one of the greatest sorrows is to lose the company of a member of another species who was loved by you and who reciprocated to some degree.

Fla Dem

(25,624 posts)
34. The sorrow of loving an animal. I am so sorry Siwsan.
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 09:43 AM
Jul 2022

The same happened to a feral cat I was feeding and providing shelter for several years. She hadn't been around for a week, which was unusual, sometimes she might be gone for a coupe of days, but a week was too long. About a week later, talking to a neighbor, they said there had been a dead black cat in the yard next door to them. It was my Spooky. The neighbor did not know I had been caring for her. It broke my heart then just as yours is broken now. We do get past it, but they never leave our hearts.

MindHowYouGo

(36 posts)
35. I'm so Sorry Siswan!
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 09:45 AM
Jul 2022

Something that's helped me when I'm mourning cats that have crossed the Rainbow Bridge--I ask my cats who have passed earlier to look out for the new arrival. And when I've adopted another cat I let them know that they have fairy godmothers/godfathers looking out for them and tell them about their quirks and how much I loved them.

This bit of magical thinking keeps us all connected.

This may not appeal to you at all, but I thought I'd share.

Siwsan

(27,253 posts)
44. I think that is absolutely lovely
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 10:13 AM
Jul 2022

Her brother Spooky Jr. was waiting for her, too, along with Sophie, Boudicca and Morgan.

abenavraham2020

(7 posts)
36. I'm so sorry!
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 09:45 AM
Jul 2022

I've followed your post for a while now but have never posted before. I enjoy your post on all your kitties and am so sorry you are having to go through the loss of another! Heartfelt condolences.

Siwsan

(27,253 posts)
46. Thank you, and welcome to DU!
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 10:17 AM
Jul 2022

I know caring for ferals is always a risky thing, which is why I've rescued 8 kittens out of that population and made sure they have loving homes. I just wish I could have saved Mittens and her brother Spooky Jr.

rampartc

(5,835 posts)
40. it happens, the first year is very hard on kittens
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 09:57 AM
Jul 2022

do not blame yourself.

i am very sorry for your loss. my felions are like my children. as they get older and more affectionate and try to communicate (which sometimes begins to work) and then, what ever will happen to them when i cross the "rainbow bridge? "

Traildogbob

(9,870 posts)
51. Very sorry
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 10:50 AM
Jul 2022

Your love for all those furry family members is always obvious and a pleasure to read about as a break from all the hate and brutality. No prayers, certainly not effective it seems, but I certainly am thinking and sending healing vibes in hopes you feel it from all of us. My late wife found strength just knowing people had her on their mind as she battled cancer. I am on number 5 and 6 Labs over my adult life, and well know the love you get from them and the heartache when they leave us. That little baby was blessed to receive your love and feel it while she could. Wishing you strength and healing.

slightlv

(4,231 posts)
55. I am so sorry, Siwsan...
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 11:00 AM
Jul 2022

There are just no words to comfort you, I know. May Bast hold her fast until you're with her again. I am just so very, very sorry for you.

JudyM

(29,509 posts)
65. So sorry for this wrenching pain
Thu Jul 7, 2022, 03:38 PM
Jul 2022

She was blessed, of course, to have had your care in her life… love matters all ways…

🌹 Mittens 🌹

femmedem

(8,429 posts)
71. Siwsan, I'm so very sorry.
Fri Jul 8, 2022, 06:40 AM
Jul 2022

I think most of us who follow your posts know exactly what you're going through.
I hope it helps a little to know that you made Mitten's short life much happier than it would have been and that you've saved so many others.

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