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Siwsan

(27,011 posts)
Thu Mar 23, 2023, 10:04 AM Mar 2023

Madoc has been quite the jerk, this morning

Paw pummeling me awake up at 5:30. Ok, he made up for that with a kiss. Knocking things off of the mantel. Tipping an entire table over, scattering things across the floor, just to get to the treat jar.

Then when I reach frustration overload he does this, while in full purr mode.

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Madoc has been quite the jerk, this morning (Original Post) Siwsan Mar 2023 OP
"I'm soooooo sorry, Mom. But aren't I the most wonderful thing??" niyad Mar 2023 #1
Maybe he thinks... 2naSalit Mar 2023 #2
He's just doing his job, plus he has to make sure you still love him Walleye Mar 2023 #3
Cats, its a lifestyle. AltairIV Mar 2023 #4
Sorry mom... onecaliberal Mar 2023 #5
Tipping a table over? Oh my. wnylib Mar 2023 #6
Sometimes it's all the small actions in life... MiHale Mar 2023 #7
Ha! It sounds like the morning "ya-ya release" period - Earthrise Mar 2023 #8

2naSalit

(90,869 posts)
2. Maybe he thinks...
Thu Mar 23, 2023, 10:14 AM
Mar 2023

You forgot how special he is as the first in the bunch?

Maybe he just wants some special attention. Mikey would be a jerk if he thought I was ignoring him when he wants snuggles. I decided that when he was bad, I would attack him with snuggles and pets... seemed to have a positive effect. Maybe that's all he wanted.

I am not having him come back here, at this point. His mom had surgery yesterday and an old friend has brought her RV and is staying for a few weeks to help out at the house, feed the horse and pets. I'll check in later today to see how things are going. I was stocking up on cat food but now I'll just go visit and take it out there. They won't have to worry about buying food for Mikey for at least a month. Mikey's other mom is supposed to be going home from the hospital by today so I hope all is well.

At least Madoc seems to apologize afterward.

Walleye

(33,940 posts)
3. He's just doing his job, plus he has to make sure you still love him
Thu Mar 23, 2023, 10:20 AM
Mar 2023

Cats don’t have very long memories. Patches begs for food, I go to the kitchen and he’s like, I’m not really hungry I just need to know you still love me.

AltairIV

(586 posts)
4. Cats, its a lifestyle.
Thu Mar 23, 2023, 10:37 AM
Mar 2023

Our Gojira has performed the exact same on us. Still when they give you that "look" it is impossible to stay mad.

wnylib

(23,657 posts)
6. Tipping a table over? Oh my.
Thu Mar 23, 2023, 10:42 AM
Mar 2023

Ember gets those moods. It sometimes sounds like Ember and Madoc were cut from the same cloth. But she has never tipped over a table (yet, anyway).

Ember does these things less often now, partly because she is mellowing as she ages, but also because I realized that my reaction seemed to encourage her to act out for attention. Even if I didn't say anything to her, if I sighed or if my body language showed annoyance, it seemed to give her satisfaction. It's as if it wasn't just attention that she wanted, but attention that caused me discomfort or frustration. I might be reading this wrong, or putting too much psychology into it, but it seemed like she was engaging in a power display of one upmanship. I'm the one who decides feeding time, gets the food, does the grooming (brushing her), comes and goes at will while she stays inside. So she seemed to be trying to take me down a bit by asserting herself in ways that annoyed me.

So, I started laughing when she knocked things down. I patted her head and then walked away like it was nothing. Cleaned it up later (if it was safe and reasonable to wait), and generally treated the knock it down habit as either amusing or insignificant.

She has toned it down quite a bit. Saves the knocking things down act for when she is especially annoyed, like if I'm late in filling her dish.





MiHale

(10,479 posts)
7. Sometimes it's all the small actions in life...
Thu Mar 23, 2023, 10:46 AM
Mar 2023

that leads you to a beautiful moment. You captured that moment with this picture. May I dare say it’s one of the best of any of your cat portraits? The dark background with the green blanket frames Madoc perfectly.

Good morning, Siwsan

Earthrise

(15,614 posts)
8. Ha! It sounds like the morning "ya-ya release" period -
Thu Mar 23, 2023, 03:42 PM
Mar 2023

A friend said he took his dog for a walk when the dog got restless to get his "ya-ya's" out.

My cat Daniel does pretty much the same thing every morning! Even if his food and water bowls are full, his litter box is okay; he has the company of our dog and windows to look out of to keep watch for the neighbor's cat (!) in his yard - he still loudly demands I get up.

He follows me into the bathroom and participates in tooth brushing. He's there when I let the dog out and back in. Then I must add a few kernels of food to his full bowl to show I'm paying close attention to the food supply.

After all this, he sprints up and down the hallway, climbs his scratching post, and jumps off a few times - until he gets his ya-ya's out. At that point, I'm so wide awake I can't possibly go back to sleep, and he jumps on a comfy chair and takes a nap.

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