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revmclaren

(2,613 posts)
Fri Jul 7, 2023, 10:55 AM Jul 2023

Update on Lily cat...

Last edited Fri Jul 7, 2023, 11:46 AM - Edit history (1)

Took her in to get stitches out but as we feared, the stitches wouldn't hold. Since the stitches didn't take the wound from the biopsy wont heal. She's eating but having issues with defecating so giving her pumpkin to help. She is definitely slowing down.

Having to clean area twice a day with antibiotic solution. Pain meds and antibiotics twice a day. So very sad. She really chose me to be her human and this is heartbreaking. But we'll give her all the love and attention she needs until till it's her time. Probably this will be very soon.

I'll have to be the one to make the decision. I don't want her to suffer. She is starting to seek out places to be alone so I know the time is nearing.

My sister bought a pet stroller for her and the boys so I'll take her out for a walk this evening when it cools down.




Took this a few minutes ago. She's had pain meds and is resting.

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Update on Lily cat... (Original Post) revmclaren Jul 2023 OP
I am so sorry. The paw prints our pets place in hearts bring joy and pain irisblue Jul 2023 #1
That they do. revmclaren Jul 2023 #10
Who is the moron god who thought aging and death was a good idea???? So sorry for Lily and you... Karadeniz Jul 2023 #2
Cats and dogs should live longer than humans. revmclaren Jul 2023 #3
I'm sorry. Peaceful vibes. onecaliberal Jul 2023 #4
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2023 #9
Sending hugs and vibes for best possible outcome, an easy crossing for your niyad Jul 2023 #5
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2023 #8
You are doing all you can for her until she lets you know... 3catwoman3 Jul 2023 #6
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2023 #7
I'm very sorry. I know how hard your decision will be. sinkingfeeling Jul 2023 #11
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2023 #17
It sounds like you've done all you can for her. barbtries Jul 2023 #12
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2023 #18
I am very sorry about Lily. I will hope for a miracle or a peaceful transition. Sending hugs. LoisB Jul 2023 #13
... revmclaren Jul 2023 #14
So sorry... wishing you both the best. CaptainTruth Jul 2023 #15
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2023 #16
Sending all of my love to you. This part of Love is so hard. Peace to both of you. Goddessartist Jul 2023 #19
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2023 #20
They need you to love them enough to let go blm Jul 2023 #21
sorry ShepKat Jul 2023 #22
I'm so sorry. Sending healing vibes to Lily. virgdem Jul 2023 #23
It is so hard. mgardener Jul 2023 #24
I'm sorry she's going through this MustLoveBeagles Jul 2023 #25
Pain meds always knocked my cats out for a few hours Warpy Jul 2023 #26
I'm so sorry nt XanaDUer2 Jul 2023 #27
This Veterinary Dermatology site lists factors affecting poor wound healing including cancer meds Donkees Jul 2023 #28
K&R Blue Owl Jul 2023 #29

niyad

(118,038 posts)
5. Sending hugs and vibes for best possible outcome, an easy crossing for your
Fri Jul 7, 2023, 11:32 AM
Jul 2023

precious Lily, and comfort for you in your grief.

3catwoman3

(25,020 posts)
6. You are doing all you can for her until she lets you know...
Fri Jul 7, 2023, 11:33 AM
Jul 2023

…that it’s time to stop. Hugs to you and to Lily.

barbtries

(29,425 posts)
12. It sounds like you've done all you can for her.
Fri Jul 7, 2023, 11:39 AM
Jul 2023

You can rest easy knowing you made her time as good as humanly possible.

I'm sorry Lily cat is not healing well.

ShepKat

(409 posts)
22. sorry
Fri Jul 7, 2023, 12:20 PM
Jul 2023

I can't keep a suffering animal alive for my sake. My babies counted on me to do the right thing and they were put down before it got bad. It ripped me apart but they were counting on me.

Warpy

(112,779 posts)
26. Pain meds always knocked my cats out for a few hours
Fri Jul 7, 2023, 01:29 PM
Jul 2023

so there's nothing dire there. I always knew my cats were nearing the end, they'd turn into total lap fungus during their last good day, their way of saying goodbye to their food source and playmate.

When Lily loses her interest in food, you'll know. Avoiding food is also a human last ditch strategy to starve a cancer. It doesn't work, but it is what it is.

Poor kitty.

Donkees

(32,048 posts)
28. This Veterinary Dermatology site lists factors affecting poor wound healing including cancer meds
Fri Jul 7, 2023, 03:35 PM
Jul 2023

and mentions treatment therapy to improve healing in those cases (starting around page 7 under Medications ) It also includes info on Vit A Therapy.

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/epdf/10.1111/vde.13032

Sending this in the hope it might offer some relief.

All best wishes.



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