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Siwsan

(27,298 posts)
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 08:59 AM Aug 2023

I had to bury another outdoor fur baby, this morning.

Hit by a car, right in front of my house and right up next to the curb. The damage was bad but from the tail, I think it was Lush. I'm pretty sure he was Carys' dad.

I'll probably know if it was him, for sure, if he doesn't turn up for dinner.

I dug the grave close to the house in the Day Lily garden. I take heart in thinking that maybe my house is surrounded by Feline Guardian Angels.

Certainly not the best start to my day.

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I had to bury another outdoor fur baby, this morning. (Original Post) Siwsan Aug 2023 OP
I'm so sorry. KarenS Aug 2023 #1
Very sad, Siwsan. brer cat Aug 2023 #2
It is the hardest part of caring for a feral community. Blessings and comfort to you, Siwsan. n/t TygrBright Aug 2023 #3
Oh NO! I'm so sorry for whatever furbaby it was! CousinIT Aug 2023 #4
And you are THEIR Guardian Angel. Thank you spooky3 Aug 2023 #5
I'll bet you're right about having feline guardian angels !!! Karadeniz Aug 2023 #6
I'm so sorry, Siwsan. I know the pain.... slightlv Aug 2023 #7
I'm so very sorry. StarryNite Aug 2023 #8
I am sending you hugs. You are a rock, there for the kitties and cats to lean on in joyful times MLAA Aug 2023 #9
My heart goes out to you. Hope22 Aug 2023 #10
always llashram Aug 2023 #11
(((hugs))) and thank you for being there for all those fur babies who have no one else... samnsara Aug 2023 #12
condolences Jean Genie Aug 2023 #13
So sorry to hear this. I know that it is wnylib Aug 2023 #14
I'm so sorry... CaptainTruth Aug 2023 #15
Condolences. 2naSalit Aug 2023 #16
So very sorry for your loss. virgdem Aug 2023 #17
Thank you godsentme Aug 2023 #18
So very sorry montanacowboy Aug 2023 #19
Sending huggggggs and vibes. Lady Bast thanks you for caring for Her little niyad Aug 2023 #20
Oh, Siwan, I'm so sorry about your sad news! summer_in_TX Aug 2023 #21

slightlv

(4,341 posts)
7. I'm so sorry, Siwsan. I know the pain....
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 09:50 AM
Aug 2023

even when it happens to one that's not one of yours. I just did the same for a neighborhood wanderer two weeks ago. Broke my heart; I have such a soft spot for orange tabbies, anyway.

This situation is why, when moving to a slightly larger house 4 blocks from our first in this city, and upon seeing the youngling ferals sprawled out in the middle of the street, hubby and I stopped the car and swooped up all three and took them home to add to our group. Even with them, I now have 9 indoor cats, and a dog the size of a pony. But they were just so sweet and street idiots; and the cars raced up and down the street all the time. We just couldn't stand the thought of anything happening to them. Taking care of them is hard, now that our bodies aren't as strong as they once were. But in the deepest depths of depression to which I've sunk at times, they keep me grounded and are my reason for rising each day. They give me more comfort than they'll know. And of course, I spoil them rotten.

The storms over the weekend destroyed the roof of the catio... so we have major work to rebuild and expand it once the ground dries out a bit. We're trying to do it on the cheap, after having an extra $2000 come out of our account for house insurance renewal this month. But they're a priority. Thank goodness hubby finally realized I was serious when I said "love me... love my cats!"

I'll say the same little prayer for your lost little one, that I said for lost orange tabby. May Bast guide his feet gently and swiftly across the Rainbow Bridge. To play in sunshine and wait on the one who'll love him.

{{hugs}}

MLAA

(18,612 posts)
9. I am sending you hugs. You are a rock, there for the kitties and cats to lean on in joyful times
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 10:38 AM
Aug 2023

and sorrowful times.

samnsara

(18,282 posts)
12. (((hugs))) and thank you for being there for all those fur babies who have no one else...
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 10:41 AM
Aug 2023

...to love them...

Jean Genie

(409 posts)
13. condolences
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 10:42 AM
Aug 2023

So sorry. May he connect with friends and family, and frolic forever at the Rainbow Bridge.

wnylib

(24,419 posts)
14. So sorry to hear this. I know that it is
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 10:43 AM
Aug 2023

very difficult and painful for you to feel loss again, since you have experienced it so often. I wish you strength in coping, and consolation with the ones you have with you, indoors and out.

The hardest part of caring and loving is when we lose those we care about. Yet the love of those still with us, and the good memories of those we lose, can also be healing.

Love and hugs for you and all the loved ones in your life.



CaptainTruth

(7,224 posts)
15. I'm so sorry...
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 10:53 AM
Aug 2023

I know how horrible that is.

I'll never forget the time a driver, going WAY too fast for a 25 mph residential street, hit a cat in front of my house. I ran to it & held it & petted it as it died in my hands. That was 20-some years ago & I still get tears in my eyes when I think about it.

I know that pain & I'm so sorry that happened to that poor kitty & you today.

Sometimes I think cats are angels that come to earth & bless us for a while.

2naSalit

(92,766 posts)
16. Condolences.
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 11:23 AM
Aug 2023

They all touch our hearts in one way or another and finding such a situation is a hard way to start the day, indeed.

virgdem

(2,206 posts)
17. So very sorry for your loss.
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 11:25 AM
Aug 2023

Thank you for all you do for the kitties. You are truly a Guardian Angel.

niyad

(120,015 posts)
20. Sending huggggggs and vibes. Lady Bast thanks you for caring for Her little
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 07:48 PM
Aug 2023

ones. What an awful start to this week.

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