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Saoirse9

(3,799 posts)
Thu Aug 24, 2023, 05:10 PM Aug 2023

Euthanasia for my beloved beagle Petey

Monday after our Petey was deathly sick all night our vet told us that he has a large tumor on his liver. They gave us two antiemetics and an antibiotic. So he's not vomiting anymore and after a day or so he seemed to return to normal. He's 13 years old.

The vet says we don't have to put him down now, but I know we will soon. Here's my worry. Our Jack died in 2015 from Lymphoma. He took a turn for the worse on a Friday night. Our vet back then had Saturday hours but we had a very long 12 hours between when his illness became painful and the vet's office opened.

For when Petey's time is up, is it reasonable of me to ask the vet for a serious pain killer to tide Petey over until we can get him to the vet when they open? I can't stand the thought of him suffering all night like our Jack did.

Hoping some DU pet lovers can offer some advice.

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Euthanasia for my beloved beagle Petey (Original Post) Saoirse9 Aug 2023 OP
There are some vets that provide the service Mr.Bill Aug 2023 #1
I haven't asked my vet yet Saoirse9 Aug 2023 #3
Make the call. MOMFUDSKI Aug 2023 #2
Do you think the vet would be willing Saoirse9 Aug 2023 #7
Yes. Vets love animals. MOMFUDSKI Aug 2023 #10
Thank you Saoirse9 Aug 2023 #15
I believe in giving them a peaceful exit in my arms blm Aug 2023 #4
What a beautiful sentiment Deuxcents Aug 2023 #8
I am going to discuss this with the vet also, once I hear back Saoirse9 Aug 2023 #16
I am very sorry about Petey. Hugs. LoisB Aug 2023 #5
I have 2 13 year old dogs, I can't bring myself to think of this, good luck in your decision. dem4decades Aug 2023 #6
Ask for the sedative and explain why you might need it. I'm so sorry for Petey and you. sinkingfeeling Aug 2023 #9
Oh that is hard I am so sorry Saoirse9 Aug 2023 #11
Okay I have emailed the doctor Saoirse9 Aug 2023 #13
I think they'll say yes Unwind Your Mind Aug 2023 #17
He's 13 Saoirse9 Aug 2023 #18
I'm glad he feels better today Unwind Your Mind Aug 2023 #19
Our last dog Jack Saoirse9 Aug 2023 #20
I'm so sorry nt XanaDUer2 Aug 2023 #12
Sending you and Petey hugs. MLAA Aug 2023 #14
I have the sedative Saoirse9 Aug 2023 #21
Here is hoping that you will not need it, that your beloved Petey crosses gently. niyad Aug 2023 #22
You're kind Saoirse9 Aug 2023 #23

Mr.Bill

(24,790 posts)
1. There are some vets that provide the service
Thu Aug 24, 2023, 05:15 PM
Aug 2023

in your home. See if your vet can refer you to someone who does that.

Sorry to hear about your Beagle.

Saoirse9

(3,799 posts)
3. I haven't asked my vet yet
Thu Aug 24, 2023, 05:16 PM
Aug 2023

but I have looked into at home euthanasia. Because of where we are it would be prohibitively expensive. We are pretty remote. But you're right, I should ask the vet.

 

MOMFUDSKI

(7,080 posts)
2. Make the call.
Thu Aug 24, 2023, 05:15 PM
Aug 2023

That way you will feel you did the absolute best for your beloved pet. I have been thru it 3x and it is SO HARD. Take care of yourself thru this. And give little Petey a pat for me.

Saoirse9

(3,799 posts)
7. Do you think the vet would be willing
Thu Aug 24, 2023, 05:24 PM
Aug 2023

to give me a sedative so we can make him comfortable until the vet opens?

Saoirse9

(3,799 posts)
15. Thank you
Thu Aug 24, 2023, 06:51 PM
Aug 2023

for some reason I needed permission I don't know what is wrong with me I am usually so decisive.

blm

(113,820 posts)
4. I believe in giving them a peaceful exit in my arms
Thu Aug 24, 2023, 05:18 PM
Aug 2023

before they are in constant pain. I’d rather being in my arms and feeling comfort and loved as the best way to send them to their forever sleep. Pain tends to erase those good feelings.

sinkingfeeling

(52,993 posts)
9. Ask for the sedative and explain why you might need it. I'm so sorry for Petey and you.
Thu Aug 24, 2023, 05:33 PM
Aug 2023

I lost my Sugar suddenly when a tumor on his liver ruptured one morning. He couldn't stand nor walk and yelped when I lifted him into the car to rush to the vet's. I had to let him go. He was almost 16, a cancer survivor, and an amputee. From the first sign something was wrong until we released him from pain was less than two hours.

Hugs to you and your beloved puppy.

Saoirse9

(3,799 posts)
11. Oh that is hard I am so sorry
Thu Aug 24, 2023, 05:57 PM
Aug 2023

I can't decide which would be worse. Losing a loved pet suddenly like you did, or watching as they fade away.

Thanks I will ask the vet for a sedative.

Saoirse9

(3,799 posts)
13. Okay I have emailed the doctor
Thu Aug 24, 2023, 06:25 PM
Aug 2023

They are a very busy practice and they can take their time replying. This way I don't have to keep them on the phone on a busy day.

I hope he says yes otherwise we may end up putting him down way before he gets to be in pain.

Unwind Your Mind

(2,143 posts)
17. I think they'll say yes
Fri Aug 25, 2023, 01:21 AM
Aug 2023

Think of it as a hospice tool. They don’t want him to suffer either.

Hugs to Petey. I’m sorry, I know how hard it is

Saoirse9

(3,799 posts)
18. He's 13
Fri Aug 25, 2023, 07:49 AM
Aug 2023

I will be okay with it as long as he doesn’t suffer. If I can get that worry soothed I can deal with losing him.

Right now after his awful night on Sunday he’s back to his old self. Sharing frozen mango chunks with me, coming up for a hug, asking for a piece of my dinner.

The way he is right now it would be hard to put him down. On the other hand I don’t want to leave it until he’s in pain.

Just a tough decision.

Unwind Your Mind

(2,143 posts)
19. I'm glad he feels better today
Fri Aug 25, 2023, 09:46 AM
Aug 2023

We just went through this with my sisters 16yo beagle. Not knowing when you should do it is tough. Mine have always been emergencies but I definitely can sympathize.

Just hold him at the end and you will have loved him the best you can

Saoirse9

(3,799 posts)
20. Our last dog Jack
Fri Aug 25, 2023, 11:20 AM
Aug 2023

Was an emergency but the vet didn’t open for 12 hours. That was awful. I feel like I have a little more peace of mind now.

niyad

(119,909 posts)
22. Here is hoping that you will not need it, that your beloved Petey crosses gently.
Fri Aug 25, 2023, 07:01 PM
Aug 2023

Last edited Fri Aug 25, 2023, 07:35 PM - Edit history (1)

Those of us owned by furries are holding you all in light.

Saoirse9

(3,799 posts)
23. You're kind
Fri Aug 25, 2023, 07:09 PM
Aug 2023

I can see that his breathing is different. He's alert and his appetite is great. But I see little signs even with medication that he's fading.

I knew I could count on DU. Thank you.

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