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What did you do with your pet's ashes? (Original Post) Demovictory9 Oct 2023 OP
Our mostly indoor cat had a favorite spot to sun herself just at the edge of the canopy of a dwarf RockRaven Oct 2023 #1
Thank you for sharing. I had planned to spread the ashes somewhere Demovictory9 Oct 2023 #2
On the fireplace mantle next to my wife Duncanpup Oct 2023 #3
Thank you for sharing Demovictory9 Oct 2023 #4
Hugs over your loss. Duncanpup Oct 2023 #7
Tony, our cat, is in a memorial box. Behind the Aegis Oct 2023 #5
The pet funeral home had that box..box with place for pets picture Demovictory9 Oct 2023 #6
In my nightstand waiting to be buried with me. GPV Oct 2023 #8
Thanks for sharing Demovictory9 Oct 2023 #9
It was hard financially, but both of them were cremated alone. I couldn't bear the thought that they GPV Oct 2023 #11
I paid extra for the "private" cremation too. $225 vs $95!!! Demovictory9 Oct 2023 #19
The animal shelter in my county Mr.Bill Oct 2023 #29
I keep both bamagal62 Oct 2023 #10
Thanks for sharing Demovictory9 Oct 2023 #15
I buried Boudicca's ashes with her best friend, Sophie Siwsan Oct 2023 #12
I got the wooden box, did not get a plaque. Paid extra for a lil jewelry thing Demovictory9 Oct 2023 #16
My cats (four of them, long lived, and happy lives), all are in our own PET cemetery, SWBTATTReg Oct 2023 #13
Sounds like a lovely place to walk to and back Demovictory9 Oct 2023 #17
I have them, all 12 cedar boxes. My instructions for my death include my sinkingfeeling Oct 2023 #14
Great plan! You have had a lot of pets. Demovictory9 Oct 2023 #18
Plant a dogwood msdogi Oct 2023 #20
That's a great way to honor your pets Demovictory9 Oct 2023 #22
One of our dog's ashes are in a sealed wooden box. Duppers Oct 2023 #21
When the vet offers that option, it's in partnership with pet memorial business Demovictory9 Oct 2023 #23
I've had them for over 3 years. milestogo Oct 2023 #24
The memorial place put a bit of my cat's ashes inside a pendant thingy. Maybe you could do both Demovictory9 Oct 2023 #25
Thats a good idea. milestogo Oct 2023 #26
I got a whole back of stuff from the memorial place..paw prints, ashes, pendants, clay seed thing Demovictory9 Oct 2023 #27
That's nice. milestogo Oct 2023 #28

RockRaven

(16,283 posts)
1. Our mostly indoor cat had a favorite spot to sun herself just at the edge of the canopy of a dwarf
Wed Oct 4, 2023, 02:51 AM
Oct 2023

fruit tree in our backyard garden. We dug a extra deep hole there, put in the ashes, then some dirt, and then planted some bulbs. Eventually those bulbs.might go kaput, but in the meantime her flowers grow/bloom every year in her spot.

Demovictory9

(33,759 posts)
2. Thank you for sharing. I had planned to spread the ashes somewhere
Wed Oct 4, 2023, 02:57 AM
Oct 2023

But pet funeral home was chock full of urns..sized from teeny tiny (smaller than a cigarette lighter) to big.

Made me wonder how many keep the ashes around, like on a mantle

Behind the Aegis

(54,861 posts)
5. Tony, our cat, is in a memorial box.
Wed Oct 4, 2023, 03:07 AM
Oct 2023

We did the same with Zatanna, but we special ordered one which has her pictures and name on it (Amazon). With Voodoo, we placed his cremains in his favorite toy, Sex Bomb, a toy he used to hump then placed it inside a glass case.

Demovictory9

(33,759 posts)
6. The pet funeral home had that box..box with place for pets picture
Wed Oct 4, 2023, 03:12 AM
Oct 2023

They had a staggering array of ways to memorialize ...more than exist for humans.

Thanks for sharing

GPV

(73,041 posts)
11. It was hard financially, but both of them were cremated alone. I couldn't bear the thought that they
Wed Oct 4, 2023, 04:52 AM
Oct 2023

would get split up between other pet owners rather than come home completely.

Demovictory9

(33,759 posts)
19. I paid extra for the "private" cremation too. $225 vs $95!!!
Wed Oct 4, 2023, 12:01 PM
Oct 2023

Its weird that "communal" is even an option

Mr.Bill

(24,798 posts)
29. The animal shelter in my county
Mon Oct 9, 2023, 04:08 PM
Oct 2023

cremated our dog with a guarantee of not co-mingling her ashes for $25. That was about 14 years ago. I don't know if they still offer that service.

I still have the ashes. Next week we are moving to what I expect to be our last home and I will plant a rose bush with her ashes mixed into the soil.

Siwsan

(27,296 posts)
12. I buried Boudicca's ashes with her best friend, Sophie
Wed Oct 4, 2023, 05:20 AM
Oct 2023

When I received Morgan's ashes, they were in a beautiful, carved wood box. There was also a lovely plaque with her name and paw prints. Those are kept in a place of honor.

Demovictory9

(33,759 posts)
16. I got the wooden box, did not get a plaque. Paid extra for a lil jewelry thing
Wed Oct 4, 2023, 11:56 AM
Oct 2023

Which the pet memorial person placed some of the ashes inside.

Thanks for sharing. I remember when Morgan passed. 😔

SWBTATTReg

(24,116 posts)
13. My cats (four of them, long lived, and happy lives), all are in our own PET cemetery,
Wed Oct 4, 2023, 05:43 AM
Oct 2023

on my land, next to my parent's old place (now my sister's place). They all have markers (homemade) too. Located on a long gravel road, and amidst the trees along the edge of a pasture, it's a very nice view/spot (and we're the only ones on this road). I go walking down the gravel road quite a bit, w/ the dogs (3 of them), and we'll go there along on our journey, and then back to the house, about a 1/4-mile walk...a very nice walk in the Ozarks.

Even though it's been years, I miss them all. But, it helps to have a spot where I can reflect on them and their memories. I even have some made of wire full sized deer, standing guard.

Demovictory9

(33,759 posts)
17. Sounds like a lovely place to walk to and back
Wed Oct 4, 2023, 11:58 AM
Oct 2023

We buried our pets at home when i was a kid. No land for that now.

Thanks for sharing

sinkingfeeling

(53,003 posts)
14. I have them, all 12 cedar boxes. My instructions for my death include my
Wed Oct 4, 2023, 09:29 AM
Oct 2023

cremation and that all of my pets' and my ashes be buried together.

msdogi

(430 posts)
20. Plant a dogwood
Wed Oct 4, 2023, 01:17 PM
Oct 2023

The best dogs got their own tree, box buried there. 3 great Danes, and a wonderful Ridgeback mix, all rescues.
my last Dane is on the mantel, next to my husband. Boxes will stay with their trees when I move.
The husband got two dogwoods, one in front and one in back.
Very special time when their trees each bloom.

Duppers

(28,246 posts)
21. One of our dog's ashes are in a sealed wooden box.
Thu Oct 5, 2023, 01:54 AM
Oct 2023

With her name craved in a brass plate. They sits in our bookshelf collecting dust & keeping memories.
That option was offered to us by the vet who put her down.

Sending you my sincere condolences on the loss of your dear kitty.

Please tell us her name if you care to share.

Angel kitty.🕯️



Demovictory9

(33,759 posts)
23. When the vet offers that option, it's in partnership with pet memorial business
Thu Oct 5, 2023, 03:20 AM
Oct 2023

My cat, Luna, died at home so I drove her directly to the business.

Thanks for sharing

milestogo

(17,863 posts)
24. I've had them for over 3 years.
Sat Oct 7, 2023, 04:02 PM
Oct 2023

I'm planning to scatter them at a state park where I took him camping, but I don't know if I'm ready yet. I'm sure about the place, I'm just not sure I'm ready to let go.

Demovictory9

(33,759 posts)
25. The memorial place put a bit of my cat's ashes inside a pendant thingy. Maybe you could do both
Sat Oct 7, 2023, 05:05 PM
Oct 2023

Spread ashes and keep a tiny bit.

Thanks for sharing

milestogo

(17,863 posts)
26. Thats a good idea.
Sat Oct 7, 2023, 05:11 PM
Oct 2023

I don't think I can ever let go of all of him.

I have a clay pawprint from the previous dog, and that's really nice. Its something tangible.

Demovictory9

(33,759 posts)
27. I got a whole back of stuff from the memorial place..paw prints, ashes, pendants, clay seed thing
Sat Oct 7, 2023, 05:22 PM
Oct 2023

To plant ( I assume has ashes in it too) , sympathy cards, lil wooden heart. I haven't unpacked the bag yet.

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