Those folks do not deserve pets imo.

to stay in the room with your pet for some people. My father can't. He adores his cats and treats them really well but it rips him apart when they have to go. I stayed with all three of my cats when I put them down and it was really, really hard. The last one I found a home euthanasia vet and it was the best thing I ever did.

Also, a lot of vets aren't good about explaining it or helping people deal with it. The first cat I had to put down the vet was a complete dick.

Several years ago, I flew my middle child down from law school in Iowa to say goodbye to my beardie. I picked my middle child up at the airport and we drove to the vet's office. It was nice to see my bearded collie close his eyes with his head in my child's lap.

This year I sat with my oldest at the vet's office as he said goodbye to his beardie. The beardie knew that I was there and had me pet him while he had his head in my oldest child's lap. We were there for almost 2 hours before the vet gave the first shot to start the process

These pets are family members and they deserve to be with their loved ones at the end.

It’s among the hardest things I’ve ever done, but I never considered not being there. My favorite pet died, unexpectedly, while staying at the vet overnight. That was more than 45 years ago, and it still bothers me that she died, in a cage, all alone.

For many years and many very loved pets, I have chosen to arrange home euthanasia
and even allow the body to remain for a short time after death so that the other animals
share in the grief and loss.

To choose euthanasia is the one of hardest things we ever do. It really is easier for both
our beloved animal and for ourselves as well.

There are vets who specialize in home euthanasia and will help you know when the time
is right. I have used Lap Of Love. They have vets around the country.

furbabies being able to know, and to grieve.

As a side note, when their human dies before them, it is important for the babies to see the body, if at all possible. They will grieve, but they will not be looking for their human. I absolutely HATED the movie, "Hatchi", for that very reason.

is very good and they have excellent online resources on grieving, even on the effect on your other pets. The initial phone screening and counseling are very good.

We were very fortunate that one of our former vets retired and went to work for them. Along with us and two of his cat friends on his beloved screen porch, he had a familiar face taking care of him.

Thank you for mentioning this organization and welcome to DU.
We have a wonderful Lap of Love vet in our area.who has supported
us through through three difficult deaths of beloved pets. She guided us
through the last stressful months of decline and helped us know when it was time.

We could call her any time even in the middle of the night for advice
when we were in crisis. She was with us every step of the way supporting
us with both emotional and clinical perspective making a very difficult time
a little easier.

My only hope is that when it's my turn to cross, they'll all be waiting for me on the other side. It won't be heaven without them. I don't care what anybody says.

— including the rescues that couldn’t make it.

The connection was real. I’ve never regretted it, not once.

I have discussed this with everyone I know who has a pet. You have to comfort your baby. I have had to let go dozens of my babies over my life. Horses, cats, dogs, cows and goats.

My vets are truly selfless and kind. They nurture the beloved pet and the devastated parent. I wanted to be a vet, but ended up a biologist because I just didn't think I could end a life even when there was no recourse.

furchildren down. They used the same mobile vet (two different events), one of the most compassionate and caring human beings my friends had ever met. Their precious babies were held close in their arms as they took their last breaths, being told how much they were loved. Both said it was one of the most profound experiences of their lives.

During covid, another friend's dog was clearly ready to go, but my friend was freaked. Because of covid, she would not be able to be with her dog, which would have been unbearable. Prayers were answered, her beloved companion passed peacefully in her arms at home.

All of my previous babies died in my arms, at home, knowing they were, and are, loved.

I have avoided this group because I just have no coping skills when it comes to pet illnes/end.

And yet, I am there right now so forced myself here.

I held my last dog as she went. I will do it again. It will break me for months if not years. It is the worst part of life.

we know it won't be too long...the entire family will be there with him. They all want to.