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I've noticed that lately, emotional stress tires me out more than it used to. Your experience? (Original Post) raccoon May 2024 OP
Yes, and the fatigue just adds to the emotional distress Walleye May 2024 #1
A vicious cycle Redleg May 2024 #4
Same here. Irish_Dem May 2024 #2
Yes! MOMFUDSKI May 2024 #3
im 73 3/4 and my 40 something 2nd cousin... samnsara May 2024 #12
Yes, indeed. Easterncedar May 2024 #5
My experience SweetT May 2024 #6
yes,,,, KarenS May 2024 #7
same here..no violent shows and NO movies with dogs in them... samnsara May 2024 #10
It not only tires me out more now, I feel physically ill more often when stressed out. Ziggysmom May 2024 #8
oh yes!!! I have instructed hubs to NOT share any bad news with me esp if he was involved.. samnsara May 2024 #9
See a nutritionist and get some steps in LuvLoogie May 2024 #11
As I age, I'm less and less stressed. NNadir May 2024 #13
That is how I feel too and I have a favorite meme I tell myself. llmart May 2024 #15
Turned 74 about 5 weeks ago, and I'm in the same camp. ShazzieB May 2024 #20
I can't tell Faux pas May 2024 #14
It is debilitating....l Hope22 May 2024 #16
I agree.... FarPoint May 2024 #17
I very often feel stressed by the ongoing political and geopolitical events. They seem perpetual at this point. Texin May 2024 #18
Yep. I used to have a reputation for "being cool under pressure" on my job. Midnight Writer May 2024 #19
Me too XanaDUer2 May 2024 #21

Redleg

(5,950 posts)
4. A vicious cycle
Thu May 2, 2024, 07:47 AM
May 2024

A lot of the comfort foods that people like to eat when feeling distressed can also interfere with functional coping with stress.

samnsara

(18,081 posts)
12. im 73 3/4 and my 40 something 2nd cousin...
Thu May 2, 2024, 08:59 AM
May 2024

...is telling me shes feeling that emotional burnout already. I think it would be hard to be young these days. I worry about my grand daughters dating and having health care.

 

SweetT

(58 posts)
6. My experience
Thu May 2, 2024, 08:04 AM
May 2024

is that stress knocks out those who care and feel compassion, those who are affected by the suffering and dishonesty in the world. My solution is to remind myself NO ONE knows what is happening and we are all confused to the point of fear. So I ignore it. I tell myself "it will be alright". I feel much better now.

KarenS

(4,478 posts)
7. yes,,,,
Thu May 2, 2024, 08:25 AM
May 2024

I'm 74 and have chronic insomnia plus a chronic illness. I quit watching the news a few years ago and generally read the title of news articles online to determine if I can stand reading it. I am very selective about what pictures to see and videos to watch. I watch 'slice of life' kinds on series or movies,,,, don't want to see violence of any sort.

samnsara

(18,081 posts)
10. same here..no violent shows and NO movies with dogs in them...
Thu May 2, 2024, 08:56 AM
May 2024

..cuz we all know how those turn out.

If I get to sit in one place and coil my baskets and watch Ozzie and Harriet all day Im fine.

Ziggysmom

(3,503 posts)
8. It not only tires me out more now, I feel physically ill more often when stressed out.
Thu May 2, 2024, 08:29 AM
May 2024

More frequent headaches and higher blood pressure occurs more often today.

samnsara

(18,081 posts)
9. oh yes!!! I have instructed hubs to NOT share any bad news with me esp if he was involved..
Thu May 2, 2024, 08:54 AM
May 2024

...as he has a way of irritating people. I also have severely limited my time from the tv news and I consider my weekly craft class at the sr center as my Mental Health time. I check my phone maybe once an hour to get any breaking news ( Im hoping for news of the Trump plane going down over the Pacific).

LuvLoogie

(7,412 posts)
11. See a nutritionist and get some steps in
Thu May 2, 2024, 08:57 AM
May 2024

on a regular basis. Get a check up if you haven't in a while. It will help to let your love flow and think clearly.

NNadir

(34,076 posts)
13. As I age, I'm less and less stressed.
Thu May 2, 2024, 09:03 AM
May 2024

To paraphrase (or repeat as best I can from memory) my heroine Eleanor Roosevelt, "You gain strength when you face fear. You can say I have lived through that thing; I can face the next thing that comes along."

This, to me, is the best part of having lived a long time. I have a great deal of experience at surviving what seemed intractable and terrifying.

llmart

(16,137 posts)
15. That is how I feel too and I have a favorite meme I tell myself.
Thu May 2, 2024, 09:11 AM
May 2024

If I start thinking too much about what I initially think is a problem I say, "this too shall pass". If you've lived long enough you have a lot of experiences to look back on and reflect that somehow you got through them and are still standing. Getting ready to turn 75 soon.

ShazzieB

(17,950 posts)
20. Turned 74 about 5 weeks ago, and I'm in the same camp.
Thu May 2, 2024, 02:00 PM
May 2024

In my case, it's life experience together with the fact that my depression and anxiety are under better control with medication than than they ever were in the past. I still have my ups and downs, but they're more like little bumps and dips in the road than the roller coaster ride to hell I was on at other times in my life.

Being free from the stress of having to go to a job every day helps, too. It's wonderful not having to worry about pleasing anyone but myself and my very undemanding husband.

Hope22

(2,375 posts)
16. It is debilitating....l
Thu May 2, 2024, 09:18 AM
May 2024

Mind body fatigue is a vicious cycle. Just forced myself to the yoga mat today and that seems to help. The threat of violence in November is real. We have been abused emotionally by TSF and he continues. Time will tell. In the meantime I try to move and if that isn’t possible I listen to healing meditations. Take care. You are not alone!🙏🏼💗

FarPoint

(13,280 posts)
17. I agree....
Thu May 2, 2024, 09:29 AM
May 2024

even little stressors issues but me on "hold" so to speak... I relate it to always having to be on my guard socially/publicly as we can't seem to trust the normal things... Even our phones bring in stressors with scammers, as do our computers... Driving on the highway, look out for road rage and very stupid/careless drivers....fast food has NO customer service and prices are ridiculous....

I could go on....The tRump MAGA administration created this loss from normal social interaction, honor, truth and kindness is a rare experience now...

Texin

(2,625 posts)
18. I very often feel stressed by the ongoing political and geopolitical events. They seem perpetual at this point.
Thu May 2, 2024, 10:02 AM
May 2024

The is emotionally and physically tiring. I I find myself dreading the future.

Midnight Writer

(22,641 posts)
19. Yep. I used to have a reputation for "being cool under pressure" on my job.
Thu May 2, 2024, 12:51 PM
May 2024

Nowadays, long retired, even relatively little things can throw me. Sometimes I just want to go back to bed and pull the blankets over my head (and sometimes I do).

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