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Sun Jun 23, 2024, 12:44 PM Jun 2024

The Baby Boomers Are Arriving in Montana

In the 1950s and ’60s, when televisions had three channels, the “Davy Crockett” series about the fearless frontiersman was so popular that Disney sold 5,000 imitation coonskin caps a day. I wore one of those caps for several summers. My wife, Kristy, didn’t wear a Polly Crockett cap—same coonskin design made of faux white fur—but we were both fans of Laura Ingalls Wilder’s books and the “Little House on the Prairie” series based on them. Later we read Norman Maclean’s “A River Runs Through It,” John McPhee’s “Coming Into the Country” and Cheryl Strayed’s “Wild.” As retirement loomed, our inner John Muir and the mountains were calling and we had to go.

We wound up in a real-estate office in northwestern Montana, where we introduced ourselves to Nichole, the agent on duty. We were from Omaha and curious about moving to the mountains to “get away from it all.” Nichole helped us focus. Get away from what all? If we were escaping humanity, how far from humanity did we want to live? Just us and Leonardo DiCaprio’s character in “The Revenant”?

Also, we were a two-headed client called a couple. I daydreamed about a log cabin on 40 acres of wilderness with internet courtesy of Elon Musk’s Starlink. Kristy wanted a place near a charming mountain town offering more amenities than a gas station. An airport within an hour or so might be nice. Groceries. Medical and dental care. Somewhere our adult sons and daughter might like to vacation, even though their parents live there.

(snip)

Hiking the trails, we soon met other graybeards and their sturdy partners, all of whom must scroll the same feeds: “Ten Affordable Mountain Towns for Retirement!” I thought we were rediscovering Thoreau’s wilderness, but I soon realized we were part of a gray invasion that began long before the pandemic. We were simply the latest wave of silver seniors in pursuit of Rousseau’s nature and outdoor sports. Forest bathing! We met legions of other elderly long-haul hikers and bikers and climbers and white-water rafters, including the odd octogenarian daredevils who still ski down black diamonds. They don’t want to die on the golf course or the pickleball court, or, worse, in a hospital bed. They want to go in a backcountry avalanche.

The idea is to die outside with your hiking boots on. Stay on the trail, on the road, on the mountain, on the bike, in the canoe, on the white-water raft. Go outside every day, even if your knee or your ankle or your shoulder hurts, and once outside push your declining limits. At 80, let’s say, you push a little too hard at the wrong time. You come around a bend in the trail through the cedars and on the right you see two cute bear cubs and on the left an 800-pound mama grizzly, and just like that you’ve managed to die outside with your boots on.


Mr. Dooling is a novelist.

https://www.wsj.com/articles/the-baby-boomers-are-arriving-in-montana-cde2f16d?st=b3lp6rk8g5vkp08&reflink=desktopwebshare_permalink

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The Baby Boomers Are Arriving in Montana (Original Post) question everything Jun 2024 OP
I hope they flip it to blue. Nt spooky3 Jun 2024 #1
In my mind I see us doing this and then slipping down an ordinary pass and having to be medivacd flying_wahini Jun 2024 #2
BEEN there elleng Jun 2024 #3
I want to feed the bears. cbabe Jun 2024 #4
in the above described situation... ret5hd Jun 2024 #5
Yup. That's the idea. cbabe Jun 2024 #6
You're too late. CrispyQ Jun 2024 #9
Exceptfor the part where that would get them killed too. 2naSalit Jun 2024 #10
Been there, done that. willamette Jun 2024 #7
My husband and I spent a coupld of weeks in Montana back in 2018. ShazzieB Jun 2024 #8

flying_wahini

(8,006 posts)
2. In my mind I see us doing this and then slipping down an ordinary pass and having to be medivacd
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 12:54 PM
Jun 2024

to a not too local hospital. Medical facilities are way up on my list. A couple of real restaurants and a couple of bars would be nice, too. I get it tho, Kelowna British Columbia is where I’m looking.

ret5hd

(21,320 posts)
5. in the above described situation...
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 02:09 PM
Jun 2024

you would.

Then the bear would say “kinda stringy…but it was ok. waiter…bill please.”

willamette

(182 posts)
7. Been there, done that.
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 03:11 PM
Jun 2024

After 18 years, the Pine Bark beetles, drought, noxious weeds (houndstongue, spotted knapweed, leafy spurge --- I'm looking at you), and forest fires, leaving Montana felt just as good as coming to it had originally. From seven months of hard winter, and 5 months of poor skiing, to just 5 months of not so bad winter --- heaven. Plus, we have water now.

ShazzieB

(18,641 posts)
8. My husband and I spent a coupld of weeks in Montana back in 2018.
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 03:12 PM
Jun 2024

We were about a week into what was supposed to be a road trip all over the American west when our transmission went out between Bozeman and Yellowstone NP. Had the car towed back to Bozeman and proceeded to wait...and wait...and wait for the replacement to arrive.

In the meantime, we got a rental car and took several trips back and forth to Yellowstone and checked out some state parks in Montana. Would have gone to Glacier NP, but there were forest fires up that way at the time (not wildfires, but enough to spoil the air quality as well as the magnificent views), so we opted out.

I actually loved Bozeman in some ways. The area is beautiful, and people couldn't have been nicer. I wouldn't mind visiting Montana again, but do I want to live there? Nope.

Why? I am just not a small town person and have no interest in living in a small town or a rural area. Montana is huge and very spread out, and it's mostly small towns and rural areas. I know a lot of people are drawn to that, but it's just not my thing. I can certainly see the appeal for those who are looking for lots of open space, great scenery, and opportunities for outdoor adventures. I'm just not one of those people. God bless those who are!

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