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kimbutgar

(23,254 posts)
Sat Jul 6, 2013, 09:09 PM Jul 2013

The dismaying thing about growing old as a women is that men no longer look at you as someone

They want to fuck but as the women they look at as mother figure or the old lady they'll help cross the street. When you're an older women you become invisible as a sex object. I got to say I like being anonymous now. I always had a nice figure until menopause still slim in a middle aged way. I can see how ex models and actresses lose their minds when they get old. They were so used to being worshipped for their looks. They never grew into their sense of self. I 'm actually comfortable growing old. Everyday is a new adventure.

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The dismaying thing about growing old as a women is that men no longer look at you as someone (Original Post) kimbutgar Jul 2013 OP
Hmm...I think you might be surprised... Phentex Jul 2013 #1
57 kimbutgar Jul 2013 #2
I don't think that's old... Phentex Jul 2013 #3
I love being invisible! PasadenaTrudy Aug 2013 #4
I'm glad frankly ... abakan May 2014 #5
I just saw this reply libodem Jul 2014 #6
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2014 #7

Phentex

(16,500 posts)
3. I don't think that's old...
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 06:55 AM
Jul 2013

yeah, I get the part about feeling more invisible and I like that myself.

abakan

(1,913 posts)
5. I'm glad frankly ...
Sat May 31, 2014, 06:16 PM
May 2014

I don't have to think or worry about that crap anymore. I never did pay much attention to begin with. This way I can do what I want, say what I want and live where I want and I don't need a male for anything but to work on my house.

BTW most men who want to fuck, don't know how and are not worth the trouble.

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