to be an oozing mass of white male entitlement.

and I love Lori's response sad though that it needed saying at all. In some cases it is the start to understanding for some.

Thanks, ism.

an outstanding and enlightening read....

It's incredibly hard for white people to understand that they are surrounded by white privilege all the time, because it's essentially invisible to them.

I've recently become aware that I am the beneficiary of older white lady privilege, the kind the means when I get stopped for some minor traffic violation (speeding or not stopping full at a stop sign) I always get a warning, never a ticket, even when someone else (say a black man) would probably get one. Or even my young adult white sons.

I have on rare occasion been witness to incidents along the lines of what Lori Lakin Hutcherson has described. I've never had to live with such stuff. I have had the experience of being the first woman in a job formerly held only by men, and that wasn't terrific, although it was not the hell that some women in that sort of situation experience.

…child for WP.

Fantastic reply-letter. Hope as many White people as possible will be able to read it.

The entire article is well worth reading. Thank you for sharing it here ism! Here's a small part that struck me:

10. Six years ago, I started a Facebook page that has grown into a website called Good Black News because I was shocked to find there were no sites dedicated solely to publishing the positive things black people do. (And let me explain here how biased the coverage of mainstream media is in case you don’t already have a clue – as I curate, I can’t tell you how often I have to swap out a story’s photo to make it as positive as the content. Photos published of black folks in mainstream media are very often sullen or angry-looking. Even when it’s a positive story! I also have to constantly alter headlines to 1) include a person’s name and not have it just be “Black Man Wins Settlement” or “Carnegie Hall Gets 1st Black Board Member” or 2) rephrase it from a subtle subjugator like “ABC taps Viola Davis as Series Lead” to “Viola Davis Lands Lead on ABC Show” as is done for say, Jennifer Aniston or Steven Spielberg.) I also receive a fair amount of highly offensive racist trolling. I don’t even respond. I block and delete ASAP. The point here is – not having to rewrite stories, headlines or swap photos while being trolled by racists when all you’re trying to do on a daily basis is promote positivity and share stories of hope and achievement and justice – that is white privilege.

https://goodblacknews.org/2016/07/14/editorial-what-i-said-when-my-white-friend-asked-for-my-black-opinion-on-white-privilege/

so very true.......all of it.

I can't imagine being as shallow as the person doing the asking, is this person blind, deaf, and dumb.

Thanks for posting your response it is thorough and detailed to make the point and I agree with you it is pervasive, not occasional, the white privileged, and yes, I am as sad and angry as you are but I still am only discriminated from not being rich enough, not for automatically being questioned and dismissed before anyone knows my name and I have been aware of it since I first attended
school, and saw how the teachers behaved to some students.

And please keep up the good fight

I did post in that thread that this one was here.