African American
Related: About this forumThe best piece on "white privilege" I've read.
This is an excellent explanation, with 10 powerful examples drawn from painful memories. Written in response to a rather snotty request for information about the topic by, of course, a white person. The first example:
1. When I was three, my family moved into an upper-middle class, all-white neighborhood. We had a big backyard, so my parents built a pool. Not the only pool on the block, but the only one neighborhood boys started throwing rocks into. White boys.
One day my mom IDd one as the boy from across the street, went to his house, told his mother and fortunately, his mother believed mine. My mom not only got an apology, but also had that boy jump in our pool and retrieve every single rock. No more rocks after that. Then Mom even invited him to come over to swim sometime if he asked permission. Everyone became friends.
This one has a happy ending because my mom was and is badass about matters like these, but I hope you can see that the white privilege in this situation is being able to move into a nice neighborhood and be accepted not harassed, made to feel unwelcome, or prone to acts of vandalism and hostility.
http://everydayfeminism.com/2016/08/told-white-friend-black-opinion/
athena
(4,187 posts)Thanks for posting that. The part about the stuffed animal was especially poignant.
As I was reading the article, I was thinking that a lot of this stuff is about empathy. We as a culture do not value empathy enough. Too many white people think, "Well, I didn't do anything bad to a black person, so racism is not my problem." But it is our problem. (I'm white.) It's everybody's problem. It's impossible to live in the midst of a racist society without being sullied by it. I get so angry when white people declare that they're not racist, as if they lived in a separate universe. If we all had more empathy in our hearts, the world would be a much better place in so many ways.
aikoaiko
(34,204 posts)thanks for posting