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SaschaHM

(2,897 posts)
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 10:44 AM Jun 2017

AF-am Group: Are people really going to bat for Bill Maher on DU?

The need to anti-Trump and embrace every anti-trumpian figures does not excuse "house n*gger".

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AF-am Group: Are people really going to bat for Bill Maher on DU? (Original Post) SaschaHM Jun 2017 OP
No way! brer cat Jun 2017 #1
I really hope not, but probably true. Am deeply ashamed. bettyellen Jun 2017 #2
how old are you guys? jodymarie aimee Jun 2017 #3
How old are you? SaschaHM Jun 2017 #18
the point is that is NOT serious jodymarie aimee Jun 2017 #40
but do black people see them as colorless? kwassa Jun 2017 #41
My black best friend, 75 jodymarie aimee Jun 2017 #44
"We're colorless and need to stop this white/Black stuff" Yet you tout your 'Black best friend' lib87 Jun 2017 #45
Don't tell black people what to think about racism. kwassa Jun 2017 #46
Did you really just say "you know better" than people complaining about racist remarks? bettyellen Jun 2017 #48
He has been jehop61 Jun 2017 #4
Yes. lib87 Jun 2017 #5
Yeah, being anti-Donny isn't enough for me to excuse his bigotry. rogue emissary Jun 2017 #6
My great grandmother on my mother's father's side was a black African. Binkie The Clown Jun 2017 #7
Which "people" are you referring to? Quayblue Jun 2017 #9
People like me who have ancestors that were discriminated against. Binkie The Clown Jun 2017 #11
Sure. Nt Quayblue Jun 2017 #13
You have more patience than I do. SaschaHM Jun 2017 #15
Lol! lib87 Jun 2017 #16
I consider myself pretty damned stupid if I called them hypocrites. LanternWaste Jun 2017 #50
Point taken. Clearly I was wrong. My apologies for any offense I may have given. n/t Binkie The Clown Jun 2017 #53
Why would you want to use the word ? ciaobaby Jun 2017 #28
I don't want to. It's offense. My point is, it's offensive no matter who uses it. n/t Binkie The Clown Jun 2017 #29
Agreed. ciaobaby Jun 2017 #32
Well I've been called it in my life JustAnotherGen Jun 2017 #35
Unless you are viewed as a black or mixed race person by the people around you, pnwmom Jun 2017 #37
so it's all black people's fault. kwassa Jun 2017 #42
I didn't say that, or imply that. Binkie The Clown Jun 2017 #43
Bill Maher can do no wrong with some folks Quayblue Jun 2017 #8
Now it is Black people's fault for white people using the n-word y'all lib87 Jun 2017 #10
Seriously!! Quayblue Jun 2017 #12
And not only that but apparently it's okay because Maher donated to Obama!! Number23 Jun 2017 #55
He's been disgusting for a long time snpsmom Jun 2017 #14
He's a comedian rock Jun 2017 #17
OMG? REALLY? I HAD NO FUCKING IDEA? La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2017 #20
Great answer rock Jun 2017 #22
Lioness, please use a "warning emoji" on your posts leftofcool Jun 2017 #56
Lack of humor in both statement and context LanternWaste Jun 2017 #51
Yes, they are. These people are shitty fucking allies to black people. La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2017 #19
Yep. Allies in name only one could say. lib87 Jun 2017 #25
I haven't seen any threads supporting him The Polack MSgt Jun 2017 #21
GD is full of thread and subthread. one titled 'we need bill maher..." La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2017 #24
Yeah, on my phone I just look at my subscriptions The Polack MSgt Jun 2017 #26
it's a shitshow here. La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2017 #27
Could not agree with you more. ciaobaby Jun 2017 #30
Partially my fault- sorry guys but they piss me off. Such lame excuses. bettyellen Jun 2017 #49
I'm old fashioned radical noodle Jun 2017 #23
One of his defenders said I wasn't POC enough to object to Maher's use of the word stevenleser Jun 2017 #31
What gall. n/t pnwmom Jun 2017 #39
Deplorable! emulatorloo Jun 2017 #52
Not me. I never could stand him. sinkingfeeling Jun 2017 #33
Same here. He's a jerk. Next he'll call women the c.word and the excuses will fly. elehhhhna Jun 2017 #36
Sticks and stones... Rollo Jun 2017 #34
Thank goodness for this haven. The obtuseness of some progressives -- pnwmom Jun 2017 #38
Absolutely. wildeyed Jun 2017 #47
Am I going to bat for him? PragmaticLiberal Jun 2017 #54
What then was he going for? LanternWaste Jun 2017 #57
I'll explain. PragmaticLiberal Jun 2017 #58
 

jodymarie aimee

(3,975 posts)
3. how old are you guys?
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 10:54 AM
Jun 2017

Lenny Bruce, Carlin....Maher is genius and gave over a Million $$ to Obama...He is brilliant and I remind you, a Comedian.

SaschaHM

(2,897 posts)
18. How old are you?
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 12:47 PM
Jun 2017

Seriously. Your excuse for Af-am democrats having an issue w/ something is "old white men did it and this one gave a black man some money"?

 

jodymarie aimee

(3,975 posts)
40. the point is that is NOT serious
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 08:52 PM
Jun 2017

Maher is a brilliant comedian/satirist. As were Mort Sahl, Smother Bros, Carlin, Lenny Bruce, I see them as colorless....I am 66 and know better than to freak out about comedy. All this black white shit...we are all brothers.

 

jodymarie aimee

(3,975 posts)
44. My black best friend, 75
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 04:19 AM
Jun 2017

thinks Maher is hilarious. Thought comment was nothing to freak out about. Let the Rs do the scrapping, we have better things to do, such as reclaim 1000+ seats in this country.

lib87

(535 posts)
45. "We're colorless and need to stop this white/Black stuff" Yet you tout your 'Black best friend'
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 10:03 AM
Jun 2017

As a prop for your argument against AA anger about racism in a AA thread about racism. Then say we Black folk need to focus on better things than racism that affects us because you know what's best for Black folk,

The peak entitlement!

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
46. Don't tell black people what to think about racism.
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 02:13 PM
Jun 2017

It isn't up to you or your black friend.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
48. Did you really just say "you know better" than people complaining about racist remarks?
Mon Jun 5, 2017, 01:07 AM
Jun 2017

Maybe you need to unpack that and sit with it a while?
I've never seen so much patronizing bullshit written on one topic.

jehop61

(1,735 posts)
4. He has been
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 11:23 AM
Jun 2017

Weirder and stranger over the last few months. Not really funny anymore. This was insulting.

lib87

(535 posts)
5. Yes.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 11:42 AM
Jun 2017

White allies defending the use of bill maher using n****r because they like his show and viewpoints aka racism lite. It is not a surprise and yet still disgusting to read.


rogue emissary

(3,218 posts)
6. Yeah, being anti-Donny isn't enough for me to excuse his bigotry.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 11:42 AM
Jun 2017

Especially, how Islamaphobic his rants and guest have been in the last few years. Even his DU supporters acknowledge it and excuse it.


Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
7. My great grandmother on my mother's father's side was a black African.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 11:54 AM
Jun 2017

The rest of me is Irish, French, and Scandinavian.

Does that give me enough black blood to allow me to use the word freely?

Frankly, if people don't want to hear a word, then they should stop using the word themselves.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
11. People like me who have ancestors that were discriminated against.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 12:07 PM
Jun 2017

And I'm including my Irish blood in that as well.

Does my Irish blood grant me the right to call other Irish by racist, insulting names? No.
Does my little bit of black blood, grant me the right to call others by racist insulting names? No.

How Irish do I have to be before I'm allowed to use racist slurs toward Irish?
How black do I have to be before I'm allowed to use racist slurs toward blacks?

I think ALL racist slurs are wrong, and never to be tolerated. But I'm calling out the hypocrisy of anyone who both uses a word, AND condemns its use.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
50. I consider myself pretty damned stupid if I called them hypocrites.
Mon Jun 5, 2017, 11:58 AM
Jun 2017

"I'm calling out the hypocrisy of anyone who both uses a word, AND condemns its use..."

I remember a wonderful evening about twenty years ago. One of my closest friends had just finished his enlistment duty in the Marines and he invited me to a party he was throwing with a lot of other Marines. These guys were pretty nice, and called each other "jarhead" all evening long. I got pretty drunk and wound up using the term myself. As politely as marine can, they dissuaded me from ever using the term again, telling me they had earned the right to use it, while I hadn't.

I consider myself pretty damned stupid if I called them hypocrites for their own use of it among themselves; but then again, I don't pretend to be oppressed because I choose freely to avoid particular word usages.

JustAnotherGen

(33,785 posts)
35. Well I've been called it in my life
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 02:13 PM
Jun 2017

By angry ugly white people many times.

If I want to write a book about Highland cooking traditions and call it N-Word I should be able to make a profit off of something designed to hurt me.

We got your point - you came into the Af AM Group to chastise us
It's a message board - you participated . . .

Now you know what an American who is black is thinking. You won't change me.

As a matter of fact - I'm going to steal an idea.

After I make millions off of the book from other black people in on the joke I'm going to launch a morning show called - CPT.

It will air at noon and be the highest rated morning show ever!

pnwmom

(109,630 posts)
37. Unless you are viewed as a black or mixed race person by the people around you,
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 05:04 PM
Jun 2017

(doubtful since you are only 1/8 black) AND unless you only use that word in the company of black people who accept you as one of them, and your use of the word, then no. You shouldn't be using the word freely.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
43. I didn't say that, or imply that.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 11:07 PM
Jun 2017

You are correct though, about the forum. It's meant to be your safe space, not mine. I apologize for any offense. None was intended.

Quayblue

(1,045 posts)
8. Bill Maher can do no wrong with some folks
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 11:56 AM
Jun 2017

I noticed his lslamophobia years ago so this comes as no surprise to me.

lib87

(535 posts)
10. Now it is Black people's fault for white people using the n-word y'all
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 12:06 PM
Jun 2017

Funny how no one uses the same rationale with gay people and gay slurs.

The racism lite outing continues.

Quayblue

(1,045 posts)
12. Seriously!!
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 12:09 PM
Jun 2017

Grown ass man can't control himself so the blame is to be placed on other "people".

Number23

(24,544 posts)
55. And not only that but apparently it's okay because Maher donated to Obama!!
Wed Jun 21, 2017, 10:15 PM
Jun 2017

What in the EVER LOVING fuck??! Why did I come back to this slice of hell??!

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
20. OMG? REALLY? I HAD NO FUCKING IDEA?
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 01:09 PM
Jun 2017

we are all so dumb here. thank you for enlightening us. what would we do without you?

leftofcool

(19,460 posts)
56. Lioness, please use a "warning emoji" on your posts
Sat Jun 24, 2017, 11:28 PM
Jun 2017

I keep having to clean up the coffee spit on my monitor.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
51. Lack of humor in both statement and context
Mon Jun 5, 2017, 12:01 PM
Jun 2017

"What's the problem?"

Lack of humor in both statement and context. Doesn't take an above average mind to perceive what is grossly obvious.

<cue the disingenuous who will allege it was funny because their many, many black friends told them so...>

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
19. Yes, they are. These people are shitty fucking allies to black people.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 01:07 PM
Jun 2017

Shitty fucking people.

lib87

(535 posts)
25. Yep. Allies in name only one could say.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 01:30 PM
Jun 2017

Dictate how a marginalized group should feel about racial slurs and jokes directed toward them? That's racist but since they vote (D), have a black friend/partner/past partner/colleague/neighbor/ancestor by rape it's not? C'mon now!

The Polack MSgt

(13,451 posts)
21. I haven't seen any threads supporting him
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 01:12 PM
Jun 2017

But there probably will be a few soon.

Sometimes he's funny. This time he was an ass.

I believe he's racist, because the thought that what he said was acceptable didnt come from a vacuum.

I've argued this point repeatedly on DU, doing racist things means you are racist.

But whether it's a thread about voting for trump or random questionable acts on social media, there are always folks willing to say that doing racist shit doesn't mean that they are racist.

I say that defending and down playing racism is also a racist act. But what do I know.
Peace

The Polack MSgt

(13,451 posts)
26. Yeah, on my phone I just look at my subscriptions
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 01:35 PM
Jun 2017

Fired up the laptop and looked at GD - yep I was wrong.

 

ciaobaby

(1,000 posts)
30. Could not agree with you more.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 01:45 PM
Jun 2017

I am white and I bet you 99% of the support for Maher is from white people. It is depressing and sad and makes me angry to be lumped in the same category. This site has reached a new low.
My question to all defending Maher is why would they ever want or feel the need to use this historically racist term. No answers yet.

radical noodle

(8,803 posts)
23. I'm old fashioned
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 01:24 PM
Jun 2017

I don't like the n-word coming out of anyone's mouth. I was taught it was a disgusting slur and I'm not going to stop feeling that way at my age, even if it's a comedian who gave 1 million dollars to Obama. There's just a limit for me and that's one of them.

 

elehhhhna

(32,076 posts)
36. Same here. He's a jerk. Next he'll call women the c.word and the excuses will fly.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 02:57 PM
Jun 2017

Disgusting.

Rollo

(2,559 posts)
34. Sticks and stones...
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 02:01 PM
Jun 2017

I figure a member of a race or ethnicity gets a mulligan for using self-deprecating racial slurs... But it's not something I approve of when members of other races or ethnicities use them, especially if it's in a hostile context.

I've seen blacks use the n-word among themselves, and mostly it appears to be a sort of a bonding experience. If talking like that is a right, then they've earned it.

Similarly for other races and ethnicities, using slurs directed at their own.

Unfortunately I'm of such a mixed European ancestry I can't claim any one nationality other than American. And the n-word has never been part of my vocabulary, and never will be. When someone not of a certain race or ethnicity uses a racial slur directed at members of other races or ethnicity, my response, if any, is usually, "I don't use that word." They usually get the message and stop using it, at least with me.

I do recall back in the 70's a black friend of mine going on and on about how great a certain hair product was, that was/is called "Afro-Sheen". After a while I quipped, "Oh yes, that's great, and I use 'Honky-Glow''. He doubled over with laughter.

I also recall a movement to ban from public schools the use of Mark Twain's great novel, "Huckleberry Finn" because of its use of the n-word. I have mixed feelings about that, because the novel was revolutionary for its time showing the trials and tribulations of a black man in the antebellum South, as a real person with feelings and emotions. It is, in fact, great literature. At the same time, I can see a big problem if children of today were required to recite passages containing the n-word. It likely would be very hurtful to their classmates of African-American heritage, and also bad if it legitimized, in a child's mind, use of the word in a hostile context.

pnwmom

(109,630 posts)
38. Thank goodness for this haven. The obtuseness of some progressives --
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 05:12 PM
Jun 2017

if that's what it is -- floors me.

I wish I could apologize for all the idiots who share my skin color.

PragmaticLiberal

(915 posts)
54. Am I going to bat for him?
Mon Jun 5, 2017, 01:40 PM
Jun 2017

I think I understand what he going for from a comedic viewpoint.

Doesn't mean it was funny. I just understand the context.

The real issue is it might give an excuse for people who I think are genuinely racist (don't think that's Maher) to say anything.

Not that they don't say it now...but you get my point.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
57. What then was he going for?
Mon Jun 26, 2017, 01:34 PM
Jun 2017

"I think I understand what he going for from a comedic viewpoint..."

What precisely then was he going for; and what was the relevant context you allege to understand?

PragmaticLiberal

(915 posts)
58. I'll explain.
Mon Jun 26, 2017, 04:03 PM
Jun 2017






Perhaps seeing it in text will help:


“Adults dress up for Halloween, they don’t do that in Nebraska?” Maher asked.

“It’s frowned upon,” Sasse replied. “We don’t do that quite as much.”

“I gotta get to Nebraska more,” Maher said.

“You’re welcome; we’d love to have you work in the fields with us,” Sasse joked.

“Work in the fields,” Maher scoffed. “Senator, I’m a house nigger.”

“You still working in the fields out there, huh?” Maher said.

“Yeah,” Sasse said. “We want our kids to suffer.”




Now do I think he should have said it? Nope.

I just understand what he was going for from a comedic standpoint.

Obviously it backfired because rather than get "laughs" he got shock/outrage.


Hopefully he'll learn from this experience.




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