That particular statement turns up on my FB wall occasionally, although I try to keep these folks' feeds hidden. It really burns me up to see it.

It's really great that your sister found a good husband. So often abused spouses aren't able to break away and later form a healthy relationship.

A healthy marriage looked like.

But I found a solid marriage, my youngest sister and younger brother as well. We are fine

Unfortunately my oldest sister won't speak to us - what with the white genocide we're committing (my wife is Asian) and the fact that I refused to stop talking to her children even though I WAS TOLD THAT I WAS NEVER TO SPEAK TO THEM!!!1!!1!

Her hubby's convinced that femnazis are stealing the righteous power from white men.

My oldest brother died in prison serving 25 - life as a three time loser.

So, a mixed bag really

Then she went on to find someone good and caring... this is a good end to that.

Thanks MSgt.

I was overseas for most of their marriage, and I occasionally daydream that if I was part of their everyday lives rather than so far away, that I could've helped.

Then I recall every interaction I had with that POS and think - NAH I would've beaten that man at least to 3/4 dead.

It' hard to recover a career with that on your record

I know you would have stood for your sister and yes you may have been able to get her out sooner. To many lives are destroyed in situations like this. I am glad yours was not. Your sister made the right choice and that was to get the hell out....and happy now.

I was in an abusive marriage myself, few knew because I did not talk about it. Yet I got out as well.

Best to you and yours, MSgt.