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cilla4progress

(25,901 posts)
Mon Jan 24, 2022, 08:48 PM Jan 2022

I just shockingly came across some old writings of mine

on a backup drive.

They are quite personal; deal with inner demons, family, and other relationships.

I'm not sure if I do - or don't - want my daughter (or husband) to discover these some day, perhaps after I'm gone. Likely no one - other than me - will ever look at them again.

Save or toss?

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I just shockingly came across some old writings of mine (Original Post) cilla4progress Jan 2022 OP
If they have artistic value, and don't say things you really don't want said ... keep (nt) Hugh_Lebowski Jan 2022 #1
Keep & revisit periodically. SheltieLover Jan 2022 #2
save and encrypt lapfog_1 Jan 2022 #3
If, when written, these writings helped you work out some "demons" and these demons are in2herbs Jan 2022 #4
Bury those demons from the past ItsjustMe Jan 2022 #5
Perhaps you could update to today Doc Sportello Jan 2022 #6
Whenever I build a new computer I transfer all my old files over to it. hunter Jan 2022 #7
Wow - great stories cilla4progress Jan 2022 #8
Save for posterity bucolic_frolic May 2022 #9

lapfog_1

(30,143 posts)
3. save and encrypt
Mon Jan 24, 2022, 08:52 PM
Jan 2022

you can always decide later what to do.

And, should someone find them before you decide, the decision will still be yours.

in2herbs

(3,119 posts)
4. If, when written, these writings helped you work out some "demons" and these demons are
Mon Jan 24, 2022, 08:59 PM
Jan 2022

no longer creating the issues in your life that resulted in these writings, I vote to toss them. You are no longer that person, no reason to hold on to the past that you've moved on from.

Doc Sportello

(7,962 posts)
6. Perhaps you could update to today
Mon Jan 24, 2022, 10:10 PM
Jan 2022

It might be useful as a therapeutic. Also, it might form a narrative you could have an independent editor or fellow writer take a look at, with a nom de plume if you don't want to reveal yourself. As someone else said, you could encrypt them and decide later if you want to give the key to them.

hunter

(38,921 posts)
7. Whenever I build a new computer I transfer all my old files over to it.
Sat Jan 29, 2022, 11:13 AM
Jan 2022

I've been doing that since the late 'seventies.

There's a lot of demons hiding out in those files.

As a young adult I was a magnet for trouble and had a few partners in crime, including a sort-of girlfriend. I broke up with her by jumping out of her moving car. That was after she assaulted a guy in San Francisco. It was that kind of relationship.

Somewhere around 1984 I started to get my head together and decided I'd try to live a normal life and by 1986 I'd deleted most of the crazy stuff from my files, especially references to my ex.

I may or may not have been paranoid at the time that the feds were going to seize my computers and ruin our lives. Paranoia is sometimes a component of my mental illness.

Looking back, most of the dumpster diving mischief I got into was pretty mild and I sometimes wish I still had those files. What was painful then isn't so painful now and I'm sort of curious about what was going on in my head at the time.

cilla4progress

(25,901 posts)
8. Wow - great stories
Sat Jan 29, 2022, 11:15 AM
Jan 2022

Thanks!

I only deleted what I thought could be harmful.

Some day maybe the kid will come across these and know a little more about what went on inside her mom!

bucolic_frolic

(46,973 posts)
9. Save for posterity
Fri May 6, 2022, 03:20 PM
May 2022

You're probably a better writer and those are more interesting than some of the top 10 bestsellers. I'm reading one from about 2011. This is by a major major author. I'm amazed at how the characters are so brilliant - "brilliant" - and have the most astute observations, but the reader has to think twice about it and it's still not precise, and despite the top of the world elites in the book it is all accomplished with prose pitched at a 9th grade reading level. The exposition is pedantically slow. THIS sells tens of millions?

I think I'm going to write. It's not how the author writes, it's the audience it's pitched at. The demographics.

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