Dunno. Just cant get into it.

I've spent the better part of the past year almost exclusively playing Titanfall. i generally play as the female pilot, never really thought about it although at the beginning maybe I thought they would do better on wallrunning. i realize now there is likely no difference.

But now I'm used to it. Maybe there are some dudes who get upset at being effectively killed by "a chick" but I've never noticed a difference. That game moves so fast I dont pay attn to the pilot gender anyway.

When first I started Destiny I considered having as my motto: "You just got killed by a 'chick'". My ulterior motive being that my last name is Chick and I've found amusing ways to exploit the name like that over the years. That said, upon reflection, I get waved at bunches (I am not sure how even to wave back btw) and now I am wondering if all that waving has more to do with my running Destiny females instead of my actually doing something useful like killing the bad-guys or luring the bad-guys out for lower level characters to kill.

You are right about Destiny being repetitive but I am expecting things to open up a bit. They have added "The Dark Below" expansion, which adds 3 more tough missions and a few more that I seem to be glitched from playing. I've heard rumor that an entire new game is to be added to this one, supposedly doubling the content. That said, I am after this 'incident' seriously thinking about getting out of MMOs and heading back to some old Bethesda games that I like.

In the meantime, though, I'm completely addicted to Titanfall- and I'm usually a) Not big on multiplayer online stuff and b) the guy who really likes the detailed, thought-provoking, interesting narrative videogame type stuff (the Mass Effect- at least until the end- and Bioshock series spring to mind)

Titanfall, in case you hadn't heard, has almost ZERO narrative content- ridiculously so- I mean, there's a "story" there, sort of, but no one pays any attention to it. It's all about the gameplay.

But good god, the gameplay is addictive.

edited to add: Yes, by playing as female you are probably getting hit on. C'est La Vie, I guess.

Windstorm going on outside right now preventing me from doing some chores that need doing. Instead I've been hangin out online, first DU then Discussionist (ugh). I've played all of the Mass Effects and all of the Bio-Shocks. Liked Bio-Shock better because Mass Effect kept feeling like a poor quality HALO storyline. Liked the last Bio-shock best because of Lizabeth, hated that game because of the ending! I am thinking of replaying Fall-Out New Vegas. Loved both Fall Outs I played, Loved Elder Scrolls Oblivion and Skyrim too. I have in mind a suggestion I wish to make to both Bungie and Bethesda for a mash-up but I am never sure if that is just my manic/depression issue talking or not.

The thing with me about playing female characters is that any character one plays in an RPG is pretty much stylized. To my eyes the females look cooler. Don't get me wrong, I love me some Master Chief and I'd not want him looking like Cortana but years of slogging through RPGs looking at the backside of muscle-bound guys got old. In real life I don't look at guys backsides so transitioning to female characters was the way to go.

Maybe I am gay but don't know it! In Destiny my female characters look HOT. More than once I have seen other female players pause to take a look while running past. One time I bumped into another female player that had my exact same look, same race, same hair style and had the same weapon load out. We had great fun calling each other "TRAMP!" before heading out to defend the galaxy. In Destiny, Male characters look silly, all muscle bound with their chests sticking out. If looking like Conan was my only option I'd have dumped Destiny on day one!

After posting this I am heading over to you-tube to take a look at Titanfall. you got me curious now. I can't really afford it today but maybe next month you might see noobie 'female' titan driver chknltl fighting the good fight...if that's what you guys do over in Titanfall.

That 98% of female toons are played by male gamers. Well we will never know the true percentage, it is high from what I have seen.
I play SWGEmu, which I consider one of the most female friendly games and in my guild there are a number of men and women who play female and male toons and nothing is said about it because for us it's normal.
I have always wondered about the "wanting to see something more attractive" reason, never understood it. I play half and half, I just wanted to see what it was like to game with a female toon.
All in all I have experienced no issues, I expect that in other games that are more "hardcore" the experience would be different.
GIRL... guy in real life
No girls on the internet...
These are things I have seen over the years in different games, so what is going on?
It's a very complex issue and I don't know how to help you other than say, Play it your way.

Now you got me wondering how many of those 'male' characters, (toons as you call them) are played by female players. Well my bottom line for posting this is in the learning aspect. I've been beating myself up since the 'incident' and was seriously considering not going back to that game. There were those glitch reasons I mentioned above AND I am still not fully comfortable playing in an MMO but the very thought of accidentally traumatizing a child through my own ignorance just bothers the hell out of me! Your wisdom helps here uriel1972, thank you for it.

Looking at your one of your posts above I have to agree with the 'ridiculous musclebound' look. In my game I play bothans. They are about half the height of an average human and slender. I think I did this just for the difference from the average game ie: World of Warcraft.
Ah well.

I go out of my way in MMOs to Make the ugliest male characters possible so people leave me alone. I usually play gnomes or dwarves though.

I am waiting on Camelot Unchained and will go Tuatha Dé Danann, most likely Luchorpán.

I also have been playing with the same group of old people since the start of warhammer online and non of us really ever has any problems. The rule of thumb is that if someone is playing a female toon just assume they are a G.I.R.L.

I had all but forgot my OP here. If I knew when I started Destiny what I know now, I would have gone with male toons. If ever I play in another MMO, I'll definitely do just that! I'll likely be changing my Destiny name to 'Mr.Chknltl54' soon because it is easier than starting over with new characters.

Btw, am I correct in assuming (generally speaking), that two numbers often listed after a person's name reveals their year of birth? With the kid, his name was similar to 'OverTaxed 67' so I assumed he was an older gamer, possibly a Republican.

But usually it's someone wanting a name somebody has already chosen and is adding on a number to make it different. There could well be 66 other "Overtaxed's" out there.

female avatars is ancient in gaming, from the Queen chess piece on, as an early example. gender and race being different than your own is par for the course in games. whole hobbies circulate on the assumption of wearing different masks, and exploring that, like roleplaying games and simming.

it's been there from the start of anthropomorphized video game characters, too. honestly i can't remember anyone, besides easily weirded-out pre-teen children, freaking out over Ms. Pac-Man, Samus from Metroid, Alis from Phantasy Star, Blaze from Streets of Rage, and on and on. growing up on arcades no one (openly) freaked out over a male playing Storm or Dazzler, or Marge or Lisa, on four-player X-Men or Simpsons, or Chun Li or Cammy in Street Fighter. (and females who grew up playing video games are quite familiar with playing male avatars without anyone batting an eye.)

MMOs don't change anything about this dynamic except the humanized element that the avatar talks back.

it's a pre-teen child. in those horrible awkward years. who probably doesn't get out enough.

don't over think it and relax.

not strange at all. all of my toons/avatars in the MMORPG's i've played have been female. reaction from other players has been mixed. everything from "ohmigawd a girl, let me give you free stuff," to wondering if i'm gay. eh, i do it because even when i played the old school paper and dice rpgs, i always would genderbend. it's called role playing for a reason.

the best was when i played final fantasy 11 online. the guild i played with took almost 3 years to figure out i was not a real female. after that, they made it an initiation ritual for new members, seeing how long it took for them to figure out that i was really a guy... good times.

play who you want, how you want, and what you want.