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Related: About this forumWhy making clergy mandatory reporters won't solve the Catholic abuse crisis
From the article:
Finally, its not often that a priest can identify who is confessing to him. A penitent could find a priest who does not know him and confess in a confessional box where there is an opaque screen between him and the priest, which would ensure anonymity.
To read more:
https://religionnews.com/2019/01/14/why-making-clergy-mandatory-reporters-wont-solve-the-catholic-abuse-crisis/
No matter the institution, predators will continue to prey, and even more unfortunate, institutions will continue to cover up the crimes committed by members of the institutions.
Voltaire2
(14,703 posts)guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Obviously not, but noting how difficult it is to change human behavior, and the behavior of a dangerous few, is not sweeping anything under the rug. It is identifying barriers.
Voltaire2
(14,703 posts)has for decades, probably for centuries, deliberately protected its pedophile clergy. That has to stop. And every bit of institutional knowledge of who has done what needs to be turned over to the relevant local authorities.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)But this behavior, sexual predation, is a human behavioral characteristic.
Voltaire2
(14,703 posts)Is anyone claiming that the rcc is the sole source of pedophelia?
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)My point is, how do we change behavior to make this predation unacceptable?
And I confess that I have no idea.
The ever-present conflict between expressed ideals and actual behavior.
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)But you post an opinion that says mandatory reporting requirements wont work, and you try to give the RCC a pass by saying it happens everywhere anyway.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)A failed repeat that ignores actual human behavior that exists everywhere.
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)Nobody is saying you have to be a priest to rape children. It just makes it a lot easier when you have a built in support network. Meanwhile you think that support network cant do anything about it because its just human behavior. Thats pretty fucked up.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)And in families, the source of much predation, the family often covers it up.
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)From your own OP no less.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Ignore it at your peril.
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)That is why it is called reality. Because it actually happens.
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)niyad
(119,899 posts)Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)They enabled the priests and actively engaged in the cover up and now you are posting an opinion that forcing them to do what they have refused to do themselves just wont work so why bother.
Child rape apologia has no place here. Not anywhere else for that matter.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)But you prefer to argue this straw man instead.
I suggested, here and in other posts, that this behavior is seen in every institution.
So the actual point is, how do we change human behavior?
Do you have an idea about this, or would you prefer to build with straw?
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)Either religion bears some of the responsibility for this epidemic of child rape or it doesnt.
So far youve made it quite clear that it doesnt. If you want to walk that shit back, be my guest. Somehow I think you wont.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Something that I have said numerous times.
Keep building with the straw. It is quite inexpensive.
From my original post:
Perhaps you missed it?
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)Then when the same solution is implemented for the RCC, you think its a bad idea.
Very telling that.
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)Very telling that.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)That you prefer to ascribe motivation to others so you can attack a position that was never taken.
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)Calling people in this group intolerant?
11th commandment?
What should that tell us, Gil?
What pattern of behavior can we derive from that, Gil. Or is judgement the sole purview of the self-righteous?
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Some people. Some is not synonymous with all.
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)Im quite aware its only certain types of posters, just like you admit. Thats the whole point of your hate.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Cuthbert Allgood
(5,170 posts)I mean, if it's not going to change anything, what's the point?
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)I was in my career.
I do not know how to stop predation, or if it can be stopped. I feel that the author's point is that there is no easy solution to this, NOT to excuse it.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)EVERYONE who has information about a possible instance of abuse should be required to report it.
Do you agree? Do you agree that there should be NO EXCEPTIONS, not even when a clergy member receives that information in a confessional session?
I bet you won't answer, because you know your answer is deplorable.
Eko
(8,489 posts)On a side note wouldn't someone have a legal responsibility to report it or is the clergy exempt from that law?
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)The law in the US is clear, as is the evasion of that law that some in the RCC engaged in.
Eko
(8,489 posts)guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)I will answer in order.
Eko
(8,489 posts)So whats the law?? Thinking about it I did block you for a while.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)There is no state where predation is legal, and many types of individuals are legally required to report it.
It varies on a state by state basis.
Eko
(8,489 posts)But Im not on here all day every day and I certainly don't follow all of your posts. "many types of individuals are legally required to report it. " is the clergy exempt from this?
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)I was surprised to read this when I researched it before, but who is covered by mandatory reporting laws varies.
My wife and I are volunteer leaders in a youth organization. We had to undergo a background check.
But to your question about clergy:
most states' statutes regarding child abuse do not classify clergy as mandated reporters. In the Midwest, only Illinois currently includes clergy as those professionals specifically mandated to report known or suspected instances of child abuse or neglect. With a recent amendment to the Abused and Neglected Child Reporting Act, Illinois joins approximately 21 states in making clergy mandated reporters. The statute does not specify whether the information must have come through a confession, counseling session or through a third party.
https://www.isba.org/committees/minorities/newsletter/2004/03/illinoisclergyasmandatedreporters
Surprised? I was.
Not really. I'm outright disgusted. And do you think this is ok??
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)And why this is not a national issue escapes me.
Eko
(8,489 posts)but how can you think laws for 2 different types of people is ok or right?
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Why is sexual violence not governed by national law?
And I admit that I have no idea how we stop predators from preying.
Do you?
Eko
(8,489 posts)Answer it and we can proceed.
Eko
(8,489 posts)guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Not 50 different standards.
Eko
(8,489 posts)The national standard could also exempt clergy. Do you think that would be ok?
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)marylandblue
(12,344 posts)But all 50 states have a mandatory reporting law. They just vary in certain particulars. The expectations for clergy are sure to change with recent revelations.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Illinois is the exception in the Midwest in mandating clergy as required reporters.
marylandblue
(12,344 posts)guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)SNAP, the organization of survivors, is part of this conversation.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)But never priests, because they enjoy religious privilege.
Religious privilege helps protect abusers, and endangers children.
And you are A-OK with that, evidently.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)I posted about Illinois law that specifically mandates reporting by clergy. So your first point is factually incorrect. Requirements vary by state.
As to your ending, that is your framing and unsupported by anything that I have actually posted. But setting up a straw man and arguing with it is your right.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)The mandatory reporter law in Illinois specifically excludes confessional-revealed situations, in accordance with Catholic religious dogma.
THAT is what makes the abuse problem WORSE, gil. And you are defending it. No straw needed. You have to own this disgusting shit with your constant, steadfast support of religious privilege.
https://www.isba.org/committees/minorities/newsletter/2004/03/illinoisclergyasmandatedreporters
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)But, as the article notes, and as I argue, the mere existence of a law does not stop criminal behavior.
And again, more straw as you construct your preferred opponent.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)State, here and now, that you don't believe information received in confessional should be excluded from mandatory reporting laws.
If you can state that, I will retract what I have said.
Ball's in your court now.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)And the, much harder, change human behavior.
The solution is there for you.
Ball's in your court now.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)The religious privilege that YOU defend.
YOU are helping make it so we can't change the law.
YOU won't help me change the law.
This is a ridiculous attempt at reframing and you very well know it, because you've been caught admitting you support exceptions for clergy being mandated reporters.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Civil rights were extended by people who advocated for change.
The organization SNAP is trying to change the laws.
I have marched for abortion rights, and in front of clinics to defend patients.
Have you?
trotsky
(49,533 posts)THAT'S the question.
You don't get to dodge that.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)And you avoided what I said.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Demonstrating excellent copy and paste skills.
But I will not answer any "question" based on mis-framing. That tactic would earn you a failed grade in any debate class.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)You failed the test.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)You don't. You embrace it and wish to perpetuate it.
Which one of us has truly failed, gil?
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)trotsky
(49,533 posts)If you don't support religious exceptions for mandatory reporting laws, then just state so. I asked you to. Specifically. But you have refused to answer.
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)That explains much.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)I asked you a very straightforward question.
Your refusal to answer is itself an answer, and that's the substantiation.
You can dispute my evidence by simply answering the question.
But you won't, because you know how deplorable your stance is on this issue.
You believe clergy should be able to exempt information from mandatory reporting laws.
If I'm wrong, say so. And as I have previously stated, I'll retract my claim.
Ball's still in your court, gil. Try another weasely trick if you want - you aren't fooling anyone.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Especially when a person makes a direct claim, and says asking for proof is a trick.
Good one, but it would fail in a debate class.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)You won't, because you can't.
QED
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Will you?
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Answer the question, and engage in dialog.
I'm trying. Why won't you reciprocate?
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)It is also called a failure in actual debate.
You made a claim that you will not provide evidence for.
A claim that this article constitutes an example of rape apologia.
It is that simple.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Do you support exempting information received in confessional from mandatory reporting laws?
Yes or no.
I can answer the question. I answer No. I do NOT support exemptions for information received in confessional.
If this were a "have you stopped beating" question, I wouldn't want to answer it either.
But I did.
Now engage in this "actual dialog" you always CLAIM you want, and answer the question.
I'll bet you a million dollars you won't.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Shall I also bet a million figurative dollars that your claim will never be answered?
trotsky
(49,533 posts)I'll accept your payment in the form of gold bars or gemstones.
Why won't you answer my question? Answer it and I promise I'll answer ANYTHING you ask in return.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Something.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)I won proof that you want information received in a confessional booth exempted from mandatory reporting laws.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Why won't you?
trotsky
(49,533 posts)I bet I know why you won't.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)It would be SO EASY for you to shut me completely up. Makes one really wonder why you won't do it.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Are you ashamed of your answer? That's what I think.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)I rescind any claim that this article is an example of rape apologia.
I never made such a claim, but I rescind it anyway.
NOW will you answer my question?
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)Probably not such good news for the RCC.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Predators engage in their behavior even thought it is illegal. Other than being caught, and incarcerated, how does anyone stop these predators?
And stop them before the prey?
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)Zero tolerance for child rapists on the payroll
Loss of retirement
No paid legal defense for those accused
Zero tolerance for those who fail to report
Turning over all relevant records to law enforcement
Report known child rapists to law enforcement
Establish transparency rules that lets the public know how many have been accused and what was done about it
The RCC could have been doing lots of things, but they havent. And now that the authorities have no choice but to start taking action directly, your only answer is it wont work.
Very telling that.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Yes, this might be a partial solution for one institution, but what about families?
The larger question is how do we stop predation in every setting?
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)marylandblue
(12,344 posts)The Catholic Church is unique in many ways, so it may require special handling. Certainly your OP is suggesting that, since only Catholics have confession.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)He also told the sinner to go and sin no more. But predators see confession as wiping the slate clear, only to blacken it again.
marylandblue
(12,344 posts)everyone else confesses directly to God.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)trotsky
(49,533 posts)You need to explain why, when an adult learns about the sexual abuse of a child, they SHOULDN'T have to report it to the authorities simply because they are part of the RCC's hierarchy.
Explain.
Now.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Right now.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Defend that shit, gil. You have its stink all over you.
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)Because you obviously didnt understand it.
It aint talking about everywhere, Gil.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Of course, that's been a common defense of it, because it also serves the purpose of ignoring the specific features about the Catholic Church that make the problem WORSE.
Instead of talking about those features and how to deal with it, g demands answers on how to stop the sexual abuse of children EVERYWHERE RIGHT NOW. When you can't propose something on the spot, then you need to stop talking about the abuse done by the church.
Classic gil.
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)marylandblue
(12,344 posts)Really, there is just an entirely different set of tools that would be needed and that are mostly not related to religion.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)The victims suffer in the same way.
Are families the incubators for abusers?
tulipsandroses
(6,211 posts)Anyone that has the awesome responsibility of children in their care needs to be a mandatory reporter.
Period! I didn't even read the article to come to that conclusion. No excuses.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)It shocked me when I read it.
tulipsandroses
(6,211 posts)Therefore I'm already skewed in that direction. I've had to make the call myself to CPS or call one of our social workers to come to the unit to speak with a client that does not feel safe to return home.
I'm really not shocked after reading the article. Reason has never been the strong point of some religious folks.
I work on the detox unit. We had a guy last year- Confessed to molesting his grand daughter he left in hand cuffs- He came to detox then he went to jail. Its a no brainer for me. I would guess that the church knows of abusers outside of confessions as well. They need to be Mandated reporters and not look the other way like they have been doing all these years and move these monsters around.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)In my over 30 years as a Union Representative, I told people that if they admitted criminal behavior to me, I was mandated to report it.
I dealt with one client in that entire time who had admitted in a plea deal to molesting a family member. The client was placed in a non-pay status pending removal.
I interviewed the client, and the client's spouse separately during the process. My impression of the client, who I did not know, was that he exhibited no emotion when describing the situation. Almost as if the situation was separate from him.
When interviewing his spouse, she explained that the family really needed the income and for that reason only, they were staying together. I gave her information on family counseling resources, and strongly suggested that she and the victim make use of them.
My job was to represent the client and enforce his contractual rights, which I did, but even thought he was returned to work, it made me very uncomfortable. What a horrible situation for a family to be in, where the victim and parent were financial and emotional hostages.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)That's pretty disgusting.
The Genealogist
(4,736 posts)And so, what, we just throw our hands up in the air and say "oh well?"
The RCC has set itself up as a moral arbiter for the people of the world. Further, its catechism states "outside the Church there is no salvation.
The RCC It is hardly just another institution.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)the point is how do we stop it.
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)trotsky
(49,533 posts)But it isn't.
You DON'T want people discussing the sex abuse scandals of the RCC and how its dogma enables the abusers and perpetuates the abuse.
You CAN'T STAND people talking about that, here in the Religion forum.
So instead you're trying to pretend there's nothing unique about the RCC's abuse scandal, that abuse is everywhere, and everyone needs to shut up about it unless they can solve the abuse problem universally.
That is despicable, gil. You should be ashamed of yourself.
rurallib
(63,196 posts)from someone with experience.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)because of religious privilege.
For the RCC and those who defend it, like guillaumeb, their dogma is more important than stopping the rape of children. Period.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Why do you keep going to bat for this organization and its abusers?
Disgusting.
MineralMan
(147,575 posts)Exempting one group of people from the mandatory reporting law does have a definite impact. If almost everyone involved with people who interact with children is a mandated reporter, the exempt group makes no sense at all. My state exempts priests and other clergy members, too.
No, it won't "solve the Catholic abuse problem," but it could and would help to reduce the number of crimes against children that go unreported. I strongly favor making ALL people who work in areas where they come into contact with people who are around children be mandatory reporters, including clergy.
There should be no exemptions for one group on the basis of religion. Period. In fact, religion should never be a cause to exempt anyone from any legal responsibility.
Nothing will stop all instances of child sexual abuse. Mandatory reporters, however, do reduce the number of instances and help law enforcement find offenders.
Make the clergy mandatory reporters. Just do it!
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Making clergy mandatory reporters won't SOLVE the problem.
But if it can bring just ONE predator to justice that would have otherwise escaped it, it could save a child.
Isn't that worth it?
guillaumeb, and other defenders of the RCC's policies, don't think so.
MineralMan
(147,575 posts)It works to help find and prosecute sex offenders who prey on children. Why would anyone not support such a thing?
The article at the link in the OP is nothing more than an apologia for the RCC's insistence that its priests be exempted from laws everyone else has to follow.
Disgustingly illogical, in my opinion.
Anything that helps reduce the number of children who are harmed by sexual abusers is a good thing. Anything that allows such abuse to continue is a bad thing. Pretty simple, I think.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Simple. They believe that religious privilege is more important that stopping even ONE child from being abused.
MineralMan
(147,575 posts)on the RCC, though, doesn't it?
trotsky
(49,533 posts)That's been true for a number of things lately concerning the RCC.
MineralMan
(147,575 posts)other churches, really. When enough people abandon the RCC for other denominations, it will reform or die. I suspect it will do the latter, but very slowly. I suggest an ELCA Lutheran church to such people. The actual liturgy won't seem that unfamiliar, but the attitudes are distinctly different.
ETA: One cautionary note for RCC leavers who choose an ELCA church as a replacement: You'll find women as pastors in many such churches. They're very good that that job, too. Give them a chance and you'll see why the RCC is stupid and misogynistic to bar women from pastoral roles. It will open your eyes.
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)The reality is it would save many children and it just isn't that hard to figure out it's a much safer environment for children where child rapists know they will be turned into the cops if discovered vs the RCC sweeping it under the rug like they have for centuries.
But yeah, we can't save those children because whatabout all the others.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)rather than talk about the specific issues with religions that make the problem unique or more troublesome.
zipplewrath
(16,692 posts)A Roman Catholic priest will feel governed by Cannon Law, not civil law and as such won't violate his oath despite changing of the laws.
If there is something to be changed in Cannon Law, it is at least that clergy that confess these things are not covered by the oath. That would address the vast majority of abuse within the Roman Catholic Church.
And, yes, priests generally know who the penitent is when it is another member of the clergy.
If there is something that should be mandatory, it should be that absolution should be contingent upon self reporting of the crime.
The church teaches that there are steps to forgiveness and one of those is admitting the sin. Another is committing to not sinning again. And the last step is something akin the the alcoholic anonymous "amends" thing. I've often thought that a simple solution to all of this is merely to insist that the penitent go and self report to the police in order to receive absolution.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)In one past article, I argued this point, and in another article, noted that RCC Canon Law is a problem.
https://www.democraticunderground.com/1218293149
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)Who is arguing all the RCC needs to do to regain credibility is to be more transparent in showing how effective they are in dealing with child rape accusations.
So it looks like you are at least 2 for 2 in cheering on child rape apologists, Gil. Good job.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)As if we needed more.
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)While yours is to regurgitate and defend it.
And yes, Gil. We do need more at least so long as the child rape apologists continue to rush to the defense of child rapists and their enablers. Very telling you'd think otherwise.
MineralMan
(147,575 posts)This kind of cannon can sometimes be used to enforce Canon Law:
Like this:
zipplewrath
(16,692 posts)Well, there is precedent for that!
MineralMan
(147,575 posts)Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)...so I guess why bother?
I can't believe I'm seeing this shit on DU.
guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)And that is not conducive to actual dialogue when some prefer to frame others in this way.
Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)guillaumeb
(42,649 posts)Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)I mean, it's kinda hard to top the part where you sided with the Church over children.
Major Nikon
(36,900 posts)trotsky
(49,533 posts)Helping to keep abusers from getting caught, why that's just good church policy.