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brooklynite

(96,882 posts)
Fri Mar 1, 2019, 11:35 AM Mar 2019

Rather than wrestle a girl in the state championship, this high schooler forfeited

Washington Post

To Brendan Johnston, it was a simple choice. The 18-year-old senior wrestler from The Classical Academy in Colorado had never competed against a girl, and faced with the option to do so and potentially move one round closer to his goal of winning a state wrestling title, he instead decided to forfeit.

For one of the two would-be female opponents Johnston refused to face in the Colorado State Wrestling Championships last weekend, it was a frustrating outcome. She said she understood and respected his decision, but questioned why any wrestler, of any gender, would decide to forfeit in a state tournament after making it so far. Johnston cited personal and religious beliefs for not wanting to wrestle a girl.

“My whole thing is that I’m not a girl wrestler, I’m just a wrestler,” said Jaslynn Gallegos, a senior at Skyview High School. “So it kind of doesn’t hurt my feelings, but I do kind of take it to heart.”

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“There is something that I really do find problematic about the idea of wrestling with a girl, and a part of that does come from my faith and my belief,” said Johnston, who is Christian. “And a part of that does come from how I was raised to treat women as well as maybe from different experiences and things.”
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Croney

(4,923 posts)
1. I think the F word he's using is just an excuse.
Fri Mar 1, 2019, 11:42 AM
Mar 2019

It's not faith but FEAR. Fear of getting beat by a girl. Fear of being teased. Fear of being laughed at. Just plain old fear.

MineralMan

(147,576 posts)
2. "Thou shalt not wrestle with girls. It is abomination and anathema to the Lord thy God."
Fri Mar 1, 2019, 11:42 AM
Mar 2019

That's the real 11th Commandment, I understand, but there wasn't room on the stone tablets, so it got left off.

I suspect young Mr. Johnston was afraid that his Johnson would react in some embarrassing way during the match. That, rather than his religious beliefs, might be one of the reasons for his decision. Fear of losing to a girl, perhaps, played a role as well.

gtar100

(4,192 posts)
9. It was likely on that third tablet that Moses accidentally dropped
Fri Mar 1, 2019, 01:50 PM
Mar 2019

on the way back down the mountain. See documentary:



underpants

(186,640 posts)
3. God. The hell wrestlers go through in a season
Fri Mar 1, 2019, 11:46 AM
Mar 2019

I’d think being so close to a lifetime goal/title would ..... oh never mind.

Had a few friends in high school who wrestled. Watching them in that sweat box and barely eating anything was brutal to just watch.

Cartoonist

(7,530 posts)
5. I was on the wrestling team in high school
Fri Mar 1, 2019, 11:55 AM
Mar 2019

This was way before Title IX.
I had a bad record, only one win. I think I was still a believer then. I was still shaped by my Catholic upbringing. I would have found nothing objectionable to wrestling a girl.

I can't think of any teaching that would have caused me pause. I think the previous posters are closer to the truth.

procon

(15,805 posts)
8. He says he was raised to treat women well...
Fri Mar 1, 2019, 01:21 PM
Mar 2019

does that include endorsing her right to body autonomy? He wont engage in a traditionally male sport that now allows physical contact with female athletes, so what other activities does he consider inappropriate for women?

Darwin was right, it really boils down to survival of the fittest in brawn and brains, or maybe the motto of the TV show, Survivor says it best; “Outwit, Outplay, Outlast”.

MineralMan

(147,576 posts)
13. And here's the girl: Angel Rios, the first girl to place in
Fri Mar 1, 2019, 03:01 PM
Mar 2019

the Colorado State Wrestling championship. She came in fourth in the 106 lb. class. The boy who forfeited against her also forfeited to another girl earlier in the match, Jaslynn Gallegos, who also reached the podium in her weight class. So, a double-whammy.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
16. Sports segregation comes 100% down to men not wanting to be beaten by girls
Sat Mar 2, 2019, 12:27 AM
Mar 2019

There's no other reason for it.

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