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Related: About this forumRather than wrestle a girl in the state championship, this high schooler forfeited
Washington PostTo Brendan Johnston, it was a simple choice. The 18-year-old senior wrestler from The Classical Academy in Colorado had never competed against a girl, and faced with the option to do so and potentially move one round closer to his goal of winning a state wrestling title, he instead decided to forfeit.
For one of the two would-be female opponents Johnston refused to face in the Colorado State Wrestling Championships last weekend, it was a frustrating outcome. She said she understood and respected his decision, but questioned why any wrestler, of any gender, would decide to forfeit in a state tournament after making it so far. Johnston cited personal and religious beliefs for not wanting to wrestle a girl.
My whole thing is that Im not a girl wrestler, Im just a wrestler, said Jaslynn Gallegos, a senior at Skyview High School. So it kind of doesnt hurt my feelings, but I do kind of take it to heart.
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There is something that I really do find problematic about the idea of wrestling with a girl, and a part of that does come from my faith and my belief, said Johnston, who is Christian. And a part of that does come from how I was raised to treat women as well as maybe from different experiences and things.
Croney
(4,923 posts)It's not faith but FEAR. Fear of getting beat by a girl. Fear of being teased. Fear of being laughed at. Just plain old fear.
MineralMan
(147,576 posts)That's the real 11th Commandment, I understand, but there wasn't room on the stone tablets, so it got left off.
I suspect young Mr. Johnston was afraid that his Johnson would react in some embarrassing way during the match. That, rather than his religious beliefs, might be one of the reasons for his decision. Fear of losing to a girl, perhaps, played a role as well.
gtar100
(4,192 posts)on the way back down the mountain. See documentary:
MineralMan
(147,576 posts)underpants
(186,640 posts)Id think being so close to a lifetime goal/title would ..... oh never mind.
Had a few friends in high school who wrestled. Watching them in that sweat box and barely eating anything was brutal to just watch.
Alpeduez21
(1,861 posts)to excuse terrible behavior and decision making.
littlemissmartypants
(25,483 posts)Cartoonist
(7,530 posts)This was way before Title IX.
I had a bad record, only one win. I think I was still a believer then. I was still shaped by my Catholic upbringing. I would have found nothing objectionable to wrestling a girl.
I can't think of any teaching that would have caused me pause. I think the previous posters are closer to the truth.
ExciteBike66
(2,640 posts)procon
(15,805 posts)does that include endorsing her right to body autonomy? He wont engage in a traditionally male sport that now allows physical contact with female athletes, so what other activities does he consider inappropriate for women?
Darwin was right, it really boils down to survival of the fittest in brawn and brains, or maybe the motto of the TV show, Survivor says it best; Outwit, Outplay, Outlast.
Voltaire2
(14,703 posts)unmentionable body parts.
MineralMan
(147,576 posts)that a singlet just can't hide.
Voltaire2
(14,703 posts)MineralMan
(147,576 posts)the Colorado State Wrestling championship. She came in fourth in the 106 lb. class. The boy who forfeited against her also forfeited to another girl earlier in the match, Jaslynn Gallegos, who also reached the podium in her weight class. So, a double-whammy.
Voltaire2
(14,703 posts)his ass whipped by a girl.
Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)There's no other reason for it.