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Jumping on the Whataboutism Bandwagon (Original Post) MineralMan Mar 2019 OP
Consistent with a pattern. trotsky Mar 2019 #1
Misframing. guillaumeb Mar 2019 #4
... Major Nikon Mar 2019 #7
Thanks for that wonderful explanation. trotsky Mar 2019 #10
And when called on the whataboutism the next tactic is gaslighting Major Nikon Mar 2019 #9
Someone is working overtime to gaslight everyone into believing their fallacy isn't a fallacy Major Nikon Mar 2019 #2
Misframing. guillaumeb Mar 2019 #5
... Major Nikon Mar 2019 #6
I've solved that problem for my part... NeoGreen Mar 2019 #16
I don't really see it as a problem Major Nikon Mar 2019 #17
It's more like an ear-worm to me... NeoGreen Mar 2019 #18
This should do it Major Nikon Mar 2019 #20
Ouch... NeoGreen Mar 2019 #21
It is very basic. guillaumeb Mar 2019 #3
... Major Nikon Mar 2019 #8
lol tymorial Apr 2019 #76
Again? And Again? And Again? MineralMan Mar 2019 #11
Please explain why simplicable.com is a better source on this than Merriam Webster. trotsky Mar 2019 #12
I know! I know! MineralMan Mar 2019 #14
Gladly: guillaumeb Mar 2019 #26
Huh? trotsky Apr 2019 #27
Amazing? Definitely. eom guillaumeb Apr 2019 #29
And nobody said you denied guilt. marylandblue Apr 2019 #30
Your claim about my supposed position lacks something. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #31
I can't show you what isn't there. marylandblue Apr 2019 #32
Sexual abuse is criminal behavior. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #33
Evidence for which assertion? The one you didn't answer before? marylandblue Apr 2019 #34
Again, that depends on a number of factors. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #40
Again, you're not answering the question. trotsky Apr 2019 #41
You have an agenda. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #46
Tu Quoque? MineralMan Apr 2019 #47
Observation. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #49
I see. Again and again, I see... MineralMan Apr 2019 #53
Actually studying the issue is so much harder than making an assertion. Correct? guillaumeb Apr 2019 #55
Still no answer. MineralMan Apr 2019 #57
No, not the answer you prefer. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #58
ONCE AGAIN trotsky Apr 2019 #70
"No puppet. No puppet. You're the puppet." trotsky Apr 2019 #48
Yes, it is. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #50
I'm glad you can admit your response was pathetic. trotsky Apr 2019 #51
Question? guillaumeb Apr 2019 #52
No it wasn't. trotsky Apr 2019 #54
Certainly. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #56
Still no answer. trotsky Apr 2019 #59
I have not seen enough actual information to answer. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #60
Then that would be a "no" answer. trotsky Apr 2019 #61
Did you read my response? guillaumeb Apr 2019 #62
You mean your evasion? Yes, I read it. trotsky Apr 2019 #63
Provide a comparison to justify the assertion. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #64
Just did. trotsky Apr 2019 #65
Make an appointment with an optometrist. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #66
You're the one who said you couldn't see something. trotsky Apr 2019 #67
The optometrist might be able to help you find those assertions that you made about my posts. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #68
Now you're mixing up your threads. trotsky Apr 2019 #69
Actually, it was a question, because your answer is unknown marylandblue Apr 2019 #72
At least you mentioned some specifics marylandblue Apr 2019 #71
As I have pointed out in previous posts, guillaumeb Apr 2019 #73
So your answer is "no?" marylandblue Apr 2019 #74
My answer is still that, lacking specific statistical information, guillaumeb Apr 2019 #75
You said there were many factors. marylandblue Apr 2019 #77
But, the scale and scope of the RCC's scandal is hugely larger. MineralMan Apr 2019 #78
Yes, it seems larger. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #81
Irrelevant MineralMan Apr 2019 #82
The point. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #83
Still irrelevant. MineralMan Apr 2019 #84
A large scandal in a large organization is much worse than in a small organization marylandblue Apr 2019 #85
Yes, it is worse in that way. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #86
No. The human "family" is not a family and is not an organization marylandblue Apr 2019 #87
All human organizations are comprised of? guillaumeb Apr 2019 #88
Can we get off this logical contradiction already. marylandblue Apr 2019 #89
What about when an organization has its own power structure and "legal system"... trotsky Apr 2019 #93
It makes those who shielded the abusers complicit. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #95
But it suggests, perhaps, that an organization should not be allowed to have such a structure. marylandblue Apr 2019 #96
Many have taken steps. guillaumeb Apr 2019 #97
In time? Many places have had these measures for decades. marylandblue Apr 2019 #98
According to some we can't even take the steps that are already working with other organizations Major Nikon Apr 2019 #99
Which makes the scandal worse. trotsky Apr 2019 #100
Yeah, just be sure not to hit your kids in the face while beating them Major Nikon Apr 2019 #94
Global coverups Lordquinton Apr 2019 #91
You are attempting to re-frame and distract. trotsky Apr 2019 #92
You're doing it again. trotsky Apr 2019 #35
But whutabout Chinese atheists? Major Nikon Apr 2019 #36
How long does he get to play this damn game while trying to pretend he's the real victim? trotsky Apr 2019 #37
Until everyone here puts him on ignore Major Nikon Apr 2019 #38
On the other hand, I think he's here less and less often. MineralMan Apr 2019 #39
His XX/XY sexist/transphobic thread was pretty bad. trotsky Apr 2019 #42
Well it certainly demonstrated that he doesn't understand genetics. MineralMan Apr 2019 #43
That's just it, there has been no growth, no learning, nothing. trotsky Apr 2019 #44
Well, there it is, I guess. MineralMan Apr 2019 #45
Kinda shocking you'd get even one Major Nikon Apr 2019 #90
He's good at it, that's for sure. Mariana Apr 2019 #80
Without having seen all the posts in question, I've got a working assumption: Pope George Ringo II Mar 2019 #13
Congratulations, you do not need to read the posts in question. trotsky Mar 2019 #15
My hat's off to those of you who suffer through trying to correct the irredeemable. Pope George Ringo II Mar 2019 #25
Ha, there is no correction possible. He's made that quite clear. trotsky Apr 2019 #28
It's so bad, WEC is... NeoGreen Mar 2019 #19
Some people build castles in the sky. Pope George Ringo II Mar 2019 #23
Eventually, it must come to this: MineralMan Mar 2019 #22
Let's look at the good news, though Pope George Ringo II Mar 2019 #24
I always thought Whataboutism was a pivot in a conversation so you don't answer the question mitch96 Apr 2019 #79
A beam, a mote, an eye and the confused I sanatanadharma Apr 2019 #101
I get it, but this mostly does not compute in Western philosophy. marylandblue Apr 2019 #102
Kick... NeoGreen Jun 2019 #103
:shrug: As Expected. MineralMan Jun 2019 #104
Well, when a current thread is the subject of numerous examples, guillaumeb Jun 2019 #105
Whatabout the whataboutist poster? Major Nikon Jun 2019 #106

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
1. Consistent with a pattern.
Fri Mar 29, 2019, 09:08 AM
Mar 2019

Some people don't like to see religion critically discussed in the ONE place on DU it is allowed.

That's really what it boils down to.

Major Nikon

(36,899 posts)
9. And when called on the whataboutism the next tactic is gaslighting
Fri Mar 29, 2019, 09:40 AM
Mar 2019

As we must believe the admission of repetition isn't really repetition and explicitly stated intent really isn't intent.


Major Nikon

(36,899 posts)
2. Someone is working overtime to gaslight everyone into believing their fallacy isn't a fallacy
Fri Mar 29, 2019, 09:11 AM
Mar 2019

That person has already said the reason they are shitposting the Religion group with threads about China is because it's a response to all the threads about the RCC's culture of child rape which makes them feel bad.

At some point the repetition becomes the intellectual equivalent of a small child beating on a drum.

NeoGreen

(4,033 posts)
16. I've solved that problem for my part...
Fri Mar 29, 2019, 12:44 PM
Mar 2019

...the DU 'Ignore' feature is a wonderful thing, and presumably built for just this sort of problem, Gas-lighting and engaging in deliberately perfidious discussion.

NeoGreen

(4,033 posts)
18. It's more like an ear-worm to me...
Fri Mar 29, 2019, 12:49 PM
Mar 2019

...the same off-key tune, over and over again.

Sometimes, you gotta play some Carl Orff Carmina Burana really, really loud to get rid of it.


guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
3. It is very basic.
Fri Mar 29, 2019, 09:30 AM
Mar 2019
Why Whataboutism is a Fallacy

Whataboutism suggests that two wrongs make a right.

If we accept whataboutism arguments, then nothing can be deemed wrong, as long as we can think of examples of things that are worse.



https://simplicable.com/new/whataboutism

And that is why many of these claims of whataboutism are invorrect.

MineralMan

(147,334 posts)
14. I know! I know!
Fri Mar 29, 2019, 12:06 PM
Mar 2019

'Cause it said what he wanted to say, sort of, but didn't really. But it sounded right, see...

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
26. Gladly:
Fri Mar 29, 2019, 04:03 PM
Mar 2019

What About 'Whataboutism'?
If everyone is guilty of something, is no one guilty of anything?


The tactic behind whataboutism has been around for a long time. Rhetoricians generally consider it to be a form of tu quoque, which means "you too" in Latin and involves charging your accuser with whatever it is you've just been accused of rather than refuting the truth of the accusation made against you.

Tu quoque is considered to be a logical fallacy, because whether or not the original accuser is likewise guilty of an offense has no bearing on the truth value of the original accusation.


https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/whataboutism-origin-meaning

No one here is arguing that there is no guilt. But if, while admitting that the accusation is correct, one states that the behavior is not limited to the accused organization, and that the behavior is seen in other organizations, one is making a comment about the universality of the behavior, and the cover up.

Your own link defeated you.



trotsky

(49,533 posts)
27. Huh?
Mon Apr 1, 2019, 07:32 AM
Apr 2019

Are we reading the same text?

It actually refutes you.

I am amazed at your ability to ignore reality.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
30. And nobody said you denied guilt.
Mon Apr 1, 2019, 11:29 AM
Apr 2019

That's just a straw dog. You used whataboutism to deny the more specific claim: that the RCC scandal is worse than other, similar scandals.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
31. Your claim about my supposed position lacks something.
Mon Apr 1, 2019, 07:34 PM
Apr 2019

Specifically, citations from my own actual posts.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
32. I can't show you what isn't there.
Mon Apr 1, 2019, 08:39 PM
Apr 2019

You never addressed the claim that the RCC scandal is worse than others, except by pointing to other scandals and claiming that the same thing happens "everywhere" else. If you were willing to discuss specific facts instead of just posting links and ignoring all distinctions, I might be able to find something, even though I am terrible at searching DU.

If you would like to explicitly claim that the RCC scandal is, or is it not worse than other similar scandal, now is your chance.

Please don't post links to other scandals, other people's make mentions Chinese re-education camps (unless they have been sexually abusing children there for the last 100 years), turn the question back on me (my opinion is clear), or make reference to any supposed human "universals."

It either is worse or it isn't.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
33. Sexual abuse is criminal behavior.
Mon Apr 1, 2019, 08:42 PM
Apr 2019

All sexual abuse is criminal behavior.

So how does one, or can one, rank which types of sexual abuse are worse?

But you did admit that there is no evidence for the assertion.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
34. Evidence for which assertion? The one you didn't answer before?
Mon Apr 1, 2019, 09:14 PM
Apr 2019

and didn't answer here? Yes you don't answer the question. In this case, you just answered with another question. I incorporate by reference every post you have ever made on this subject and none of them answer. Sorry I can't link them all.

The question is about the size and scope of this particular scandal as awhole, not any individual act of abuse. With that clarification, do you think it is worse than other institutional sexual abuse scandals or not. Yes or no? Use any specific criteria you think relevant, except "human behavior" in general which is meaningless, since some institutions have sexual abuse scandals and some don't.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
40. Again, that depends on a number of factors.
Tue Apr 2, 2019, 04:32 PM
Apr 2019

The RCC is a very large organization.

So the question becomes, does abuse of children occur at a higher rate in the RCC than it does in society at large?

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
41. Again, you're not answering the question.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 07:47 AM
Apr 2019

This isn't about the abuse, it's about the entire scandal, which includes the institutional cover-up. Why do you keep trying to change the topic? Oh wait, I know. Because you know goddamn well that the scandal IS worse in the RCC, and that's why you refuse to discuss it. It's all about focusing on "abuse" and pointing out that "everyone does it" and it's just a problem with "society" and the church is no different.

Everyone can see your agenda, g. Plainly and clearly.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
49. Observation.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 11:48 AM
Apr 2019

But the question is a leading question.

If anyone wishes to compare rates at which children are abused, and do so by comparing where the abuse takes place, that would be different.

But the original question was an opinion framed as a question.

MineralMan

(147,334 posts)
53. I see. Again and again, I see...
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 11:58 AM
Apr 2019

So, why don't you go and make that comparison, using valid data. When you do, bring it back here, OK?

Feh!

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
55. Actually studying the issue is so much harder than making an assertion. Correct?
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 12:01 PM
Apr 2019

And it is far easier to simply assert that this organization is the worst. Saves much time and energy.

But many might question the thinking, the agenda, behind the unsubstantiated assertion.

Others, who share the agenda, will accept the unsubstantiated assertion as proof because it validates their own agenda.

MineralMan

(147,334 posts)
57. Still no answer.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 12:04 PM
Apr 2019

Never mind, Monsieur B. Just never mind...

This is the Religion Group. We talk about things in relation to religion here. Whataboutism that gets off that track is off-topic, frankly.

So, just never mind.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
58. No, not the answer you prefer.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 12:06 PM
Apr 2019

And given that your posts make your own position quite clear, I understand.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
70. ONCE AGAIN
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 02:29 PM
Apr 2019

This isn't about the rates of abuse. I understand why you desperately want that to be the issue.

It's about the overall scandal. The extent of the abuse, coverup, and protection of the abusers.

You've never once acknowledged the difference. Perhaps you can't "see" it.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
50. Yes, it is.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 11:50 AM
Apr 2019

And it is one reason that very little real discussion takes place in this group.

The agenda overpowers all else.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
51. I'm glad you can admit your response was pathetic.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 11:52 AM
Apr 2019

Try answering the question instead of attacking me. Surprise me by acting like a decent human being.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
54. No it wasn't.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 12:01 PM
Apr 2019
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=311239

The question is about the size and scope of this particular scandal as awhole, not any individual act of abuse. With that clarification, do you think it is worse than other institutional sexual abuse scandals or not. Yes or no? Use any specific criteria you think relevant, except "human behavior" in general which is meaningless, since some institutions have sexual abuse scandals and some don't.


Answer the question.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
56. Certainly.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 12:03 PM
Apr 2019

Actually studying the issue is so much harder than making an assertion. Correct?

And it is far easier to simply assert that this organization is the worst. Saves much time and energy.

But many might question the thinking, the agenda, behind the unsubstantiated assertion.

Others, who share the agenda, will accept the unsubstantiated assertion as proof because it validates their own agenda.

And yes, it is an assertion framed as a qurestion.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
59. Still no answer.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 12:06 PM
Apr 2019
do you think it is worse than other institutional sexual abuse scandals or not. Yes or no?

YES or NO, g.

You weren't asked if this was "the worst" (YOUR false claim). Just answer, or further cement why no one would ever take you seriously.

I bet I know which option you'll pick though. All to defend religious privilege.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
60. I have not seen enough actual information to answer.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 12:11 PM
Apr 2019

Actual statistical studies.

The things that scientists use to arrive at logical conclusions.

The things that are missing from this assertion.

And it might help if you know that "worse than other...etc" is essentially synonymous with "worst" in that it is implied by the original, unsubstantiated assertion.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
61. Then that would be a "no" answer.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 01:04 PM
Apr 2019

You haven't seen enough to indicate that the RCC sex abuse scandal is any worse than any other abuse scandal.

Is that a correct or incorrect statement?

Try answering a question for once to prove you are actually interested in discussion and not just obfuscation and insults.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
62. Did you read my response?
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 01:25 PM
Apr 2019

Provide statistical information to support the unsubstantiated assertion.

Otherwise, you are asking for validation of an unsubstantiated assertion that you perhaps share.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
63. You mean your evasion? Yes, I read it.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 01:41 PM
Apr 2019
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catholic_Church_sex_abuse_cases_in_the_United_States#Scope_and_nature_of_the_problem

And here's info about the scandal in the Boy Scouts: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boy_Scouts_of_America_sex_abuse_cases

A cursory read of them both exposes the RCC scandal as orders of magnitude larger. Plus there's the continued cover up and protection of abusers and their enablers in the RCC, and everything else that has been pointed out to you hundreds of times.

But somehow, you still haven't seen enough data to suggest the RCC's abuse scandal is any worse than any other institution's. Despicable. Go ahead and keep your blinders on - that way, you can defend religious privilege and never let any facts challenge you.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
64. Provide a comparison to justify the assertion.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 01:43 PM
Apr 2019

Provide statistical information to support the unsubstantiated assertion.

Otherwise, you are asking for validation of an unsubstantiated assertion that you perhaps share.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
67. You're the one who said you couldn't see something.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 02:05 PM
Apr 2019

Why would I be the one who needs to see an optometrist? What a strange thing to say.

But maybe you're right, g. A global organization with thousands of documented abusers, and unknown tens or maybe hundreds of thousands of victims, that has a DOCUMENTED and PROVEN history of protecting and enabling abusers, silencing victims, and shielding those responsible for the coverup is really no worse than any other sex abuse scandal. Sure, that's the ticket.

You go on believing what you need to, g. Anything to protect religious privilege. Victims aren't fooled, though. Neither are unbiased people. Your ("former&quot church has a serious problem. That you continue to cover for it is despicable.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
68. The optometrist might be able to help you find those assertions that you made about my posts.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 02:07 PM
Apr 2019

Happy searching.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
69. Now you're mixing up your threads.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 02:14 PM
Apr 2019

It's happened before.

Let me know if you want to answer the question that was posed to you.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
72. Actually, it was a question, because your answer is unknown
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 08:54 PM
Apr 2019

It's a yes or no question. You can say no. But it would be good if you answered instead of questioning the question.

I realize it depends on many factors and we may lack certain statistics, nonetheless it can be answered qualitatively. But what's the point of doing that if you just find different ways not to give an answer.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
71. At least you mentioned some specifics
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 08:32 PM
Apr 2019

Last edited Wed Apr 3, 2019, 09:19 PM - Edit history (1)

Why is it so hard to get even that far? Yes the RCC is very large. It's one of the largest and most influential institutions in the world. The RCC operates in almost every country in the world and in thousands of towns across America. That automatically magnifies everything. Comes with the territory of being big and important.

As.for statistics on frequency, there probably isn't anything reliable, but that's not the only issue.

It's not just the absolute frequency, but the pervasiveness. It's clear that a lot of people knew what was going. There were networks of priests who signalled their victims to each other. The church ran it's own treatment centers that themselves became network centers for further crimes. And bishops knew this was occurring. I am not aware of any other similar scandal that had this level of coordination among abusers and their protectors. Are you?

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
73. As I have pointed out in previous posts,
Thu Apr 4, 2019, 12:59 PM
Apr 2019

the institutional behavior exhibited by the RCC is remarkably similar that that exhibited by school districts, the Boy Scouts, Universities, and the armed forces.

There is an institutional tendency to cover up criminal behavior by members.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
77. You said there were many factors.
Thu Apr 4, 2019, 01:23 PM
Apr 2019

Many of them are not amenable to statistical analysis but require making qualitative judgements about the actions of individuals and their institutions. Are you unwilling to make such judgements?

Are you unwilling to say that voter suppression may have been worse in Georgia than Florida or Texas or Michigan even though we have no way of knowing how many votes were actually suppressed? Are you unwilling to say that Trump is a worse President than Bush I even though we can't compare them statistically?

When considering which Democrat to vote for in the primary, do you count up how many mistakes they made per year and choose the one with the fewest?

MineralMan

(147,334 posts)
78. But, the scale and scope of the RCC's scandal is hugely larger.
Thu Apr 4, 2019, 01:50 PM
Apr 2019

For that reason, alone, it is worse. In Pennsylvania alone, hundreds of priests and thousands of victims have been identified. Very few days go by without a news story about some priest being charged with child sexual abuse. Far fewer news stories about, say, scout leaders show up in Google searches, although there are some of those, too.

I don't remember any stories about hundreds of scout leaders in a single state being named as child sexual abusers.

Scope. It matters. How many RCC priests are there? Between 35,000 and 40,000, according to this:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Priest_shortage_in_the_Catholic_Church#North_America

How many sexual abuse cases for the boy scouts? About 1200 in the US between 1965 and 1985, according to this:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boy_Scouts_of_America#Sex_abuse_cases

How many for the RCC? Well, there were that many, at least, just in Pennsylvania.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
83. The point.
Thu Apr 4, 2019, 04:37 PM
Apr 2019

One might expect that, the larger the group of people, the proportionately larger the number of people who behave badly.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
85. A large scandal in a large organization is much worse than in a small organization
Thu Apr 4, 2019, 06:52 PM
Apr 2019

It touches many more lives, gets more headlines, creates a larger problem, on and on down the list.

Trump's corruption may be no worse than any other New York real estate developer or mobster. But once he become the head of the US Government, it suddenly became a problem for the entire world.

Would you seriously argue that you spent as much time in your life worrying about John Gotti as you do now about Trump?

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
86. Yes, it is worse in that way.
Thu Apr 4, 2019, 08:45 PM
Apr 2019

But the largest "organization" is the human family. And that is where most abuse starts.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
87. No. The human "family" is not a family and is not an organization
Thu Apr 4, 2019, 09:03 PM
Apr 2019

Once again, you zoom out on the details. And you were doing so well on details for a few seconds. This is just the beginning of a detailed analysis.

Large and powerful means you matter more. What the United States does matters more than what Lichtenstein does. Both are countries, but they are not the same. We can't go onto the next step until you recognize that a large organization is held to a different standard simply because it is large.

This is manifestly true and it is apparent everywhere. It's something you need to admit.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
88. All human organizations are comprised of?
Thu Apr 4, 2019, 09:35 PM
Apr 2019

And no organization of which I am aware sees child abuse as normal. It is aberrant behavior.

Large and powerful has more global impact, but predation is predation no matter where the predator exists.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
89. Can we get off this logical contradiction already.
Thu Apr 4, 2019, 09:50 PM
Apr 2019

All humans are compromised of atoms. So what? What can we deduce about human behavior about this fact?

Predation is predation no matter where it exist. Therefore praying mantises are tigers?

And after claiming that abuse is universal, all 7.5 billion people in earth form a family and an organization, you turn that around and say " No organization I am aware of sees child abuse as normal." What about actual abusive families? That's literally what they teach their children, and the children believe it. Are families now not relevant after you said so many times "What about families?"

And if all things are all other things and all are all alike and we are all one big organization, amd no organization approves of sexual abuse, consider the ritual sex abuse practices of the Sambia People of New Guinea.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sambia_people

What about the Sambia people?

How about the Becheve Tribe of Africa? Humans will be humans. Institutions will be institutions, right? So why are we not selling our 10-year old daughters into sex slavery? I really can't tell if this is worse than my local school district because I don't have any statistics on how many children get abused this way in Africa. Or here.
https://www.thedailybeast.com/child-brides-in-africa-are-advertised-on-facebook-and-sold-to-old-men?ref=home

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
93. What about when an organization has its own power structure and "legal system"...
Fri Apr 5, 2019, 11:00 AM
Apr 2019

and shields the predators from secular authorities?

Does that make an abuse scandal worse, or is it the same as when no such power structure exists?

Hahah, silly me, you won't answer that.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
96. But it suggests, perhaps, that an organization should not be allowed to have such a structure.
Fri Apr 5, 2019, 06:45 PM
Apr 2019

And many organizations don't. Many such organizations have taken steps to ensure the number of abusers that work for them is much less than the average for the general population, respond rapidly and appropriately when an abuser is found, and informed the public of actions taken to instill confidence in the institution. Boy Scouts of America, for example.

Why can't the holy church be at least as proactive as a bunch of campers?

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
98. In time? Many places have had these measures for decades.
Sat Apr 6, 2019, 05:34 PM
Apr 2019

Last edited Sat Apr 6, 2019, 06:09 PM - Edit history (1)

How long do we have to wait to figure this out?

Major Nikon

(36,899 posts)
99. According to some we can't even take the steps that are already working with other organizations
Sat Apr 6, 2019, 06:08 PM
Apr 2019

So instead of listening to child welfare organizations we must consult with the RCC and their child rape apologists on what is to be done about their epidemic of child rape.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
100. Which makes the scandal worse.
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 07:32 AM
Apr 2019

Makes it bigger, increases the number of victims, and denies justice.

Worse. Why can't you admit this?

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
35. You're doing it again.
Tue Apr 2, 2019, 09:47 AM
Apr 2019

marylandblue didn't ask you for an opinion on "types of sexual abuse" - which is the question you decided to answer.

You were asked if "the RCC scandal is, or is .. not worse than other similar scandal(s)".

The *scandal*, not the abuse.

Recall that the the scandal includes the abuse AND its cover-up and subsequent behavior.

Answer the question, g.

I bet you won't, though. Because you are not interested in actual discussion - you just want to control what is discussed.

Major Nikon

(36,899 posts)
36. But whutabout Chinese atheists?
Tue Apr 2, 2019, 10:02 AM
Apr 2019

Diverters gonna divert. As usual, religion gets all the credit for anything good any religionist does, but never gets the blame for any bad any religionist does, even when the religious organization enables and precipitates the evil.

Definition provided for thems who prefer to misframe rather than discuss...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apologia

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
37. How long does he get to play this damn game while trying to pretend he's the real victim?
Tue Apr 2, 2019, 10:10 AM
Apr 2019

Getting real sick of this. Even the enjoyment of seeing every thread of his end in failure is fading.

Major Nikon

(36,899 posts)
38. Until everyone here puts him on ignore
Tue Apr 2, 2019, 10:59 AM
Apr 2019

All we are really doing is feeding a troll and while that is amusing for a while, eventually the luster starts to dull.

MineralMan

(147,334 posts)
39. On the other hand, I think he's here less and less often.
Tue Apr 2, 2019, 11:58 AM
Apr 2019

And when here, he doesn't stay long. Some days, he doesn't post at all. Personally, I'm for countering the posts as rationally as possible and leaving it at that, pretty much.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
42. His XX/XY sexist/transphobic thread was pretty bad.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 07:54 AM
Apr 2019

LOTS of people took him to the woodshed on that one. Seems like a lot of his threads end in trainwrecks, but the really major wrecks cause him to run away and lick his wounds for a bit.

MineralMan

(147,334 posts)
43. Well it certainly demonstrated that he doesn't understand genetics.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 09:03 AM
Apr 2019

Sometimes I'm sympathetic to that DUer. Sometimes I try to point out errors in his thinking, in hopes that he'll understand.

Sometimes.

It hasn't worked very well, I'm afraid.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
44. That's just it, there has been no growth, no learning, nothing.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 09:15 AM
Apr 2019

He still insists he gets to define atheism for atheists.

He still insists on reframing the Catholic abuse scandal as ONLY being about the abuse and not the coverup.

He still insists that religion can only motivate people to do good things. When they do bad things, they're just being human.

I've only ever gotten one apology from him when he blatantly misstated what I had claimed. It took at least a dozen attempts, linking him directly to the posts proving he was wrong, before he finally relented.

MineralMan

(147,334 posts)
45. Well, there it is, I guess.
Wed Apr 3, 2019, 09:30 AM
Apr 2019
Il a des idées fixes. (He has fixed ideas.)

There are a couple of people on DU who are fixed on the horrors of circumcision. From time to time, they introduce a thread about that topic in another forum. There used to be a couple of people like that on the old CompuServe Religion and Politics forums, too. I don't know - maybe they're the same people. The point is that there was no point in discussing the issue with them. It was impossible to make any headway in getting them to discuss it in any sort of rational way.

Religion is even more of an idée fixe, and has even more people who will argue endlessly with no possibility of change. Fortunately, there are other people around who like to discuss religion from a more flexible perspective. There will always be those in any such discussion, though, who will persist and argue with broken logic and fixed ideas. There's no way around that, I'm afraid.

It's tempting, sometimes, to use ridicule and other tactics with people like that. I know that I fall victim to that temptation at at times. It's hard to resist. But, it will not change anything, and especially will not unfix someone ideas if they are rigid in their thinking.

So, there it is, I guess.

Major Nikon

(36,899 posts)
90. Kinda shocking you'd get even one
Thu Apr 4, 2019, 10:05 PM
Apr 2019

The usual response he gives when caught fucking up is gaslighting ad nauseum.

Mariana

(14,965 posts)
80. He's good at it, that's for sure.
Thu Apr 4, 2019, 03:32 PM
Apr 2019

He's very good at staying on the right side of the rules. Given that, he probably gets to play this damn game, while trying to pretend he's the real victim, as long as he wants to.

Pope George Ringo II

(1,896 posts)
13. Without having seen all the posts in question, I've got a working assumption:
Fri Mar 29, 2019, 10:56 AM
Mar 2019

The group laughingstock has been having the kind of week that would make Wile E. Coyote say, "At least I'm not that guy."

Pope George Ringo II

(1,896 posts)
25. My hat's off to those of you who suffer through trying to correct the irredeemable.
Fri Mar 29, 2019, 03:23 PM
Mar 2019

But he's just so...failed. On so many levels it's downright painful.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
28. Ha, there is no correction possible. He's made that quite clear.
Mon Apr 1, 2019, 07:48 AM
Apr 2019

I prefer to keep letting him be an example of his faith. It really illustrates how dishonesty, hatred, and hypocrisy are such key features of religion.

Pope George Ringo II

(1,896 posts)
23. Some people build castles in the sky.
Fri Mar 29, 2019, 03:18 PM
Mar 2019

He builds trainloads of flaming dumpsters in the sky. Then crashes them into each other. I wouldn't actually blame WEC for staying clear.

Pope George Ringo II

(1,896 posts)
24. Let's look at the good news, though
Fri Mar 29, 2019, 03:19 PM
Mar 2019

Acmedefinitions.com and Acmereligiousnews.com are doing a thriving business.

mitch96

(14,595 posts)
79. I always thought Whataboutism was a pivot in a conversation so you don't answer the question
Thu Apr 4, 2019, 03:18 PM
Apr 2019

Kellyann Conjob is a master at this.
Statement x.. replies with a close quote to statement x and then "what about" Y??? never answering statement x...
m

sanatanadharma

(4,071 posts)
101. A beam, a mote, an eye and the confused I
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 08:57 AM
Apr 2019

Generally speaking, I (many years mostly lurking here), ask what about the problem of egotism?

For what do I act, speak (also action) and defend?
Do I for ego or other me, go into words, action and self-justification?
Who gains from a sub-chain of 'you-no you' whataboutism wanderings of names?

Who is asking the question? Who is the I behind the eyes; consciousness and observant of this changing lifetime?
What is the conscious-knower, the constant "I "watching the comings and goings of the inconstant me (*) and mine(*)?

Fill in the * blanks with your own experience of one's self seeing the changing being (kid-adult), and the over-time changing knowledge-interest-desires of the doer we all call I; who similarly asks what about the silly and sad stuff stored as mine until it is tossed as no-longer me?

As a result of my religion, I have no need to convince, nor answer, nor even return to logged-in status. No one need respond to this ego.
Discuss, disgust, disabuse, as you desire. Wring out my wrong, my rant has run out.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
105. Well, when a current thread is the subject of numerous examples,
Wed Jun 5, 2019, 05:45 PM
Jun 2019

and the motivation is to trash a thread that some few see as contrary to what these same few see as the proper purpose of the Group, whataboutism is to be expected.

Ironic that the first responder to that thread engaged in whataboutism.

Major Nikon

(36,899 posts)
106. Whatabout the whataboutist poster?
Wed Jun 5, 2019, 08:42 PM
Jun 2019

Whose whataboutism is the town freak show, yet still can’t get any traction pointing his whatabout finger at everyone else.

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