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Digit

(6,163 posts)
Mon Sep 24, 2012, 03:41 PM Sep 2012

Okay guys and gals, I have a second interview coming up!

I have been stuck in this $8.50.hr call center job since April. It tough to go from $15/hr to half that, and it is half since they never give 40 hrs.
Plus commuting 19 miles each way eats up the little amount I DO make..... it has been a rough road. But you do what you have to do to survive and since my unemployment had ended I had no other choice.

The job I am interviewing for is a contract position but at least pays $13/hr and is 5 miles closer to home. I passed the test in Word, Excel and typing test and the staffing agency now says the employer wants to interview me.
Please, if you can send good vibes, white light or positive energy Thursday morning to assist in getting the job I would really appreciate it!

Thank you!


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Okay guys and gals, I have a second interview coming up! (Original Post) Digit Sep 2012 OP
Best wishes and strong energy coming to you. yellerpup Sep 2012 #1
Thank you yellerpup Digit Sep 2012 #6
No doubt that you can do this. yellerpup Sep 2012 #11
Thank you, that helps me to put it in the right perspective Digit Sep 2012 #13
Good vibes. obxhead Sep 2012 #2
Oh thanks for reminding me! Digit Sep 2012 #7
Somewhere ... Why Syzygy Sep 2012 #20
You got it! Habibi Sep 2012 #3
Will do! Digit Sep 2012 #8
Great! Good vibes on the way! OneGrassRoot Sep 2012 #4
Thank you OGR Digit Sep 2012 #9
WOO HOO!!!! Howler Sep 2012 #5
Hiya Howler, thank you for the cheerleading! Digit Sep 2012 #10
TOMORROW! Its Tommarow!!!! Howler Sep 2012 #25
Whoops, I did not see this in time! Digit Sep 2012 #27
Sending Vibes kimmerspixelated Sep 2012 #12
You are too funny Kimmers! Digit Sep 2012 #14
No Problem, Best Wishes! kimmerspixelated Sep 2012 #15
Laughter is always good. davsand Sep 2012 #18
Oh, Yeah! kimmerspixelated Sep 2012 #23
My extended family has horrified a couple of funeral homes over the years. davsand Sep 2012 #24
Hope this manifests Tsiyu Sep 2012 #16
Sending good thoughts your way BanzaiBonnie Sep 2012 #17
OHHHH YEAH!!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations~~~!!!!!! Tumbulu Sep 2012 #19
It went as well as can be expected Digit Sep 2012 #28
Sending Reiki PADemD Sep 2012 #21
Thank you for the good luck wishes Digit Sep 2012 #29
more good vibes headed your way! magical thyme Sep 2012 #22
...it may be the "something better" at this point Digit Sep 2012 #30
Its Today!!!!! Howler Sep 2012 #26
Howler, OMG girl! Digit Sep 2012 #31
(((HUG))) Howler Sep 2012 #32
Howler, this is for you...hope you like it Digit Sep 2012 #35
OOOOO! I love IT!!!!!! Howler Sep 2012 #37
I am glad you liked it Digit Sep 2012 #41
Update Digit Sep 2012 #33
It's outrageous that the staffing agency lied to you! Habibi Sep 2012 #34
I am not entirely sure the agency knew Digit Sep 2012 #36
Sending For You Too Habibi!!! Howler Sep 2012 #39
Thank you both! Habibi Sep 2012 #42
Oh Dear. Howler Sep 2012 #38
I plan on asking the agency if there are any other openings where I may fit in Digit Sep 2012 #40
How is it going Digit? Tumbulu Oct 2012 #43
I am still putting out resumes and looking for new opportunities Digit Oct 2012 #44
Oh you are welcome Tumbulu Oct 2012 #46
That is very sweet of you Digit Oct 2012 #48
I'm throwing in my sendin ... Howler Oct 2012 #47
Awww shucks Digit Oct 2012 #49
ooooh noooo....well this was the dress rehearsal magical thyme Oct 2012 #45

yellerpup

(12,263 posts)
1. Best wishes and strong energy coming to you.
Mon Sep 24, 2012, 03:52 PM
Sep 2012

I'll be thinking of you on Thursday morning. Go get it!

yellerpup

(12,263 posts)
11. No doubt that you can do this.
Mon Sep 24, 2012, 08:29 PM
Sep 2012

You passed the tests and now they just want to see if you will fit in. Remember also, they need to be a good fit for you. Check them out and if you want the job, don't forget to ask for it. Strength!

Digit

(6,163 posts)
13. Thank you, that helps me to put it in the right perspective
Mon Sep 24, 2012, 10:05 PM
Sep 2012

The right mindset is important.

Yes, strength!
Thank you!

 

obxhead

(8,434 posts)
2. Good vibes.
Mon Sep 24, 2012, 03:56 PM
Sep 2012

Do you have someone you can do practice interviews with?

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
What is your strong suit?
What is your weakest skill?

You know, all those questions you need to be able to answer smoothly and confidently.

Good vibes your way though. Hope you get it. I'm in a very similar situation. Only my drive is 60 miles 1 way

Digit

(6,163 posts)
7. Oh thanks for reminding me!
Mon Sep 24, 2012, 07:28 PM
Sep 2012

Sometimes those questions trip me up so I will need to have some ready answers!

Weakest skill and where I see myself in 5 years are tough to answer.
In 5 years I would like to be retired although I don't know if that will ever happen.
This is a contract job and is supposed to be long term.
Weakest skill is a tricky one, damned if you do, damned if you don't.

Your commute is quite a distance....I think I will stop complaining!

I do appreciate the good vibes so thank you, thank you, thank you!

Why Syzygy

(18,928 posts)
20. Somewhere ...
Tue Sep 25, 2012, 12:31 AM
Sep 2012

I once read that the best way to answer the "weakest" question is to turn some form of virtue into the weakness.
For example, depending on the job, "I just never want to give up until I've done the very best. So I make myself
finish after it's been done right". I'm not explaining it well. Whatever the weakness, go ahead and tell them
what you do about it/how you handle it so it won't be a *problem*. google might turn up better answers for that.

Digit

(6,163 posts)
9. Thank you OGR
Mon Sep 24, 2012, 07:31 PM
Sep 2012

You think that removing some of the clutter from my life is allowing new things in?

Thank you for the good vibes!

Howler

(4,225 posts)
5. WOO HOO!!!!
Mon Sep 24, 2012, 05:03 PM
Sep 2012

Go Digit!!!! You are in like Flynn!!!!! I'm so lighting some incense (Nog Champa) and sending LIGHT!!!!!!

Digit

(6,163 posts)
10. Hiya Howler, thank you for the cheerleading!
Mon Sep 24, 2012, 07:35 PM
Sep 2012

Now I KNOW I will get the job!

'cause Howler sez so! I can almost smell the incense!

WOO HOO indeed!

Howler

(4,225 posts)
25. TOMORROW! Its Tommarow!!!!
Wed Sep 26, 2012, 05:44 PM
Sep 2012

Still keeping your Job Interview in the Light Digit!!!! What time Tommorrow????

Digit

(6,163 posts)
27. Whoops, I did not see this in time!
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 12:06 PM
Sep 2012

I have an update...see separate post.

Thank you so much for the wonderful vibes!

kimmerspixelated

(8,423 posts)
15. No Problem, Best Wishes!
Mon Sep 24, 2012, 10:12 PM
Sep 2012

Laughing is always a good thing! Well, maybe not at a funeral, or something..HAHA.

davsand

(13,428 posts)
18. Laughter is always good.
Mon Sep 24, 2012, 11:28 PM
Sep 2012

I keep thinking about that Mary Tyler Moore show where she completely lost it at Chuckles the Clown's funeral.

Laughter heals every bit as much as tears.



__________________________________

Digit, go forth and be excellent. I know you will!



Laura

kimmerspixelated

(8,423 posts)
23. Oh, Yeah!
Tue Sep 25, 2012, 10:14 PM
Sep 2012

Absolutely. In Laughter Yoga there's an exercise of opposites laughing and crying with the same stress busting results!

davsand

(13,428 posts)
24. My extended family has horrified a couple of funeral homes over the years.
Tue Sep 25, 2012, 11:12 PM
Sep 2012

We do realize that death is serious, but we also celebrate that life. You can always tell when everybody has shifted gears because they all start telling stories about the one that just passed.

My father's passing was not a surprise, but still it was painful. We were at the funeral home the next day making arrangements for his funeral and they were showing us pictures of floral arrangements for the top of his casket. They were all typical arrangements for the top of a casket, except for one that was made up of wild grasses and flowers. While it was pretty enough, it was also made up of a lot of the same stuff that my dad had spent a lifetime cutting out of his soybeans and barn lots. I took one look at it and could not help it--I started laughing and handed the book to my brother who ALSO started to laugh. Our mom was giving us "that look" until she got hold of the book and then SHE started laughing. The funeral director was giving us all looks like he thought we were nuts.

I had to explain to him that we'd spent our childhood walking beans and doing farm work that included cutting those same grasses and flowers out of the bean fields. My mom was laughing so hard she was wheezing when she told him that if we put anything like that anyplace near my Dad--even if he was dead--he'd sit up and yell at us all to get a weed hook or a hoe. The funeral director was not as amused as we were.

During the visitation, my brother was telling some of my aunts and uncles about that little scene, and they got started laughing. Pretty soon, the neighbors (also farmers) heard the story and THEY were laughing. The next thing I knew they were all telling stories about my dad and some of the stuff he'd done, and it seriously WAS a celebration of him and who he'd been. Very healing, and totally not the somber atmosphere of a funeral home.

We've had similar experiences over the years with other family members, and have actually had other people from outside the family make comments that it sounded more like a party that a funeral in the room.

You can laugh and cry at the same time.


Laura

Tumbulu

(6,436 posts)
19. OHHHH YEAH!!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations~~~!!!!!!
Tue Sep 25, 2012, 12:00 AM
Sep 2012

But if this group of people is not the best group for you- then I hope that a better opportunity open up for you.

Last summer I had an experience where I really flubbed a meeting. I was so boring and sort of not connecting that I called the meeting off and went and had a good think about it all. A few days later there was a different meeting with different people and it went from being a 20 minute scheduled thing to a 3+ hr thing where we all left each other feeling like allies ands friends.

So, trust that it will go well, but if you do not like the feel of the place/people try to use it as a dress rehearsal for the real thing that will then come your way.


Rooting for you and sending hopes that this is the right place for you!!!!!

Digit

(6,163 posts)
28. It went as well as can be expected
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 12:13 PM
Sep 2012

I will just have to trust that things will turn out as they should.

I will update in separate post and remain optimistic.

Digit

(6,163 posts)
29. Thank you for the good luck wishes
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 12:14 PM
Sep 2012

Stay tuned for the update in separate post momentarily.

Thanks!

Howler

(4,225 posts)
26. Its Today!!!!!
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 11:47 AM
Sep 2012

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Digit

(6,163 posts)
31. Howler, OMG girl!
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 12:18 PM
Sep 2012

Here I was getting all serious and now I am in a fit of giggles!

When I can compose myself, see my UPDATE post.

Howler

(4,225 posts)
32. (((HUG)))
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 12:25 PM
Sep 2012

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Digit

(6,163 posts)
35. Howler, this is for you...hope you like it
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 02:11 PM
Sep 2012

Our member, who loves her garden,
Howler be her name;
Her wisdom flows
and wit bestows on earth as it does in heaven.

I can't match your wit but tried to make you laugh!
Oh, and I posted my update. Let me know if you have any questions.

Howler

(4,225 posts)
37. OOOOO! I love IT!!!!!!
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 02:41 PM
Sep 2012

Diget! You so Rock and Made My Whole DAY!!!!!! I could just squeeze the Stuffing out of you!!! (In a good way)!!!

Digit

(6,163 posts)
33. Update
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 01:30 PM
Sep 2012

I finally found the place...evidently they don't use street signs much around there....but I was still 15 minutes early for my interview.
I wore a nice simple black dress and short heels which are tricky with my knee but I managed. At least now I know I can wear heels again if only for a short time....
I cleaned up nice. LOL

The interviewer was quite pleasant and asked many of those questions such as what 5 adjectives would people use to describe me, or what criticisms would employers give me.

What first dismayed me was learning that this was a call center when the staffing agency had told me it was not and I had asked this up front. Then I was informed the major emphasis will be on collection for indebtedness when I thought that was only PART of the job description. Also the way the collections portion was presented initially was that I would be helping customers to get on a payment plan. It is depressing because I feel badly for people who are hurting either physically, emotionally, financially or whatever the case may be. I was also informed customers would be often be upset (ya think?).
So, doing this in a call center environment when you are being measured by how many calls you take or make to people in distress is not quite my idea of an ideal job.

I fear I will come home each evening worrying and feeling sad about the people I have spoken with earlier in the day.
If there was a job paying $20/hr doing collections and a $12/hr doing something that was actually helping someone, I would take the $12/hr job. I think most ASAH'ers understand where I am coming from.

The interviewer probably could read my facial expressions. She said she was still interviewing and usually that is not a good sign from my experience anyway.

I am frankly disappointed.

Count it as a dress rehearsal and move on? I am not sure what to report to the staffing agency just yet. Maybe I should keep my mouth shut.

I desperately need another job. If it was offered to me, I don't know if I have a choice. Of course I would be looking for something else not as depressing.

I wish I had better news, but it is what it is.


Habibi

(3,600 posts)
34. It's outrageous that the staffing agency lied to you!
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 01:49 PM
Sep 2012

But I understand the needing a job situation, since I'm there now. Are there other agencies you could work with? This one sounds underhanded.

In any case, it's good that you got an interview! Hopefully you can take encouragement from that and press on to land a better gig, soon.

Hang in there--

Digit

(6,163 posts)
36. I am not entirely sure the agency knew
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 02:23 PM
Sep 2012

If she didn't know, she should have said she was so. This agency is one of the top ones in the area.
I have heard although I don't know if it is true, that if you are registered at more than one you get blackballed.

I wish you luck also in finding your ideal job. Hopefully the employment picture will get better for everyone....SOON!

Howler

(4,225 posts)
38. Oh Dear.
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 02:51 PM
Sep 2012

Well Like Tumbulu & Tsiyu said This just isn't the right job for you Digit!!! A Much Much Better one is on the horizon that will be the PERFECT job for you!!! Great pay excellent Bennie's,Good vacation time.And You will actually love what your doing and get along famously with all the co workers!!!!!
Thats one of the reasons I love you so much Digit. I really don't think you would have been able to harass and collect money from folks down on their luck either!
That speaks so highly of you!!!!
Well I'm still going to send for the perfect job for you.
Please keep us up on the adventures of Digit! I so love hearing from you!

And I know You looked just Beautiful today Professional Yet Beautiful!!!

Digit

(6,163 posts)
40. I plan on asking the agency if there are any other openings where I may fit in
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 08:30 PM
Sep 2012

I took a nap and after sleeping on it, this job is not for me.

It is afterall an agency and they have other openings.

So thank you once again for all the well wishes....I know there is something out there for me!

Tumbulu

(6,436 posts)
43. How is it going Digit?
Mon Oct 1, 2012, 11:58 AM
Oct 2012

I am hoping that a much better possibility has opened up for you.

Sending encouragement

Digit

(6,163 posts)
44. I am still putting out resumes and looking for new opportunities
Mon Oct 1, 2012, 09:46 PM
Oct 2012

Nothing as yet, but not giving up.

I still bask in the encouragement I received and continue to receive.

Thank you!

Tumbulu

(6,436 posts)
46. Oh you are welcome
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 10:11 PM
Oct 2012

I enjoy spending a little time every morning imagining you in your dream job that pays a real wage.

It will happen, at least it feels that way to me.




Digit

(6,163 posts)
48. That is very sweet of you
Wed Oct 3, 2012, 11:03 PM
Oct 2012

I appreciate your efforts and love hearing that a new job is within reach.
Thank you!

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
45. ooooh noooo....well this was the dress rehearsal
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 08:14 AM
Oct 2012

so you'll be ready for the next interview for the better job with better pay, better benefits and better work!

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