Reading your post I felt like I was kicked in the stomach. I don't usually get such strong reactions so you must be going through hell.

Your brother's situation is sad and horrible and you and your family have my deepest sympathy.
Being out of work for so long is tough, really tough. I do hope that you will find employment for yourself at a good rate of pay at a position you enjoy.

It does sound like fraud is involved somehow with the will and authorities have ways to determine the truth. Hopefully it will be something easy to prove like
a forged signature.

I know you have been kicked in the teeth but keep the faith.

I will be sending you white light and energy to surmount the rough times you find yourself in.

Having learned more, I am not sure that there is any solid basis to challenge the will. The executor is sending my brother copies of all the wills.

Nonetheless, I really wish my uncle hadn't held out this hope to my brother, only to not act on it. He is so upset.

I'm more upset about the never-ending stream of problems that fall into my life, and wondering if I'll ever have a good day again. Being unemployed for 4 years takes a toll.

I am sorry, liberalesto. You're a long-time poster here and I had no idea you were living with such adversity.


Cher

My brother is the one with the adversity, although I worry about him a lot. I wish my uncle had at least left his car to my brother.

I'm fortunate to have a husband who has a job (although looking for a new one because his company lost its contract with the federal govt.) Unfortunately I have neither a job nor freelance work, and neither of our adult daughters is working. They live with us. I hope and pray something is done to turn this economy around, and soon! So many people are seriously hurting for lack of work.

I'm so so sorry You are going through such hell. I'm sending to you Woman and your family .
too.

I'm praying that our economy turns around, that people can find decent jobs, and that the wealthy are prevented from looting companies and avoiding paying their fair share of taxes.

And will add you into my morning visualizations and prayers.

Light to you and yours.

I'll keep you in my prayers.

I hope that, somehow, today is a wee bit brighter and you don't feel so beaten up. I don't know what's going on either but there's a lot of souls feeling beaten up and beaten down.



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Things just seem "off" in the world, but let's hope things start to change for the better.

and ask for a rec. for a lawyer...stay in contact with the executor. More than likely you will easily find a lawyer to give you a free consultation. There is also a good chance that you can find one that will ask for a very low retainer fee to examine the documents-- and will agree to be paid in full after the estate is settled.

Just off the top of my head, I would think there's a possibility that the housekeeper wrote a will and had him sign it-- but, I doubt she went far enough to make it legally valid. There is also a very good possibility that the...I can't remember what you call it? Hologram? or something like that-- will was signed when he was under the influence of pain meds, and frankly that dog don't hunt.

It's hard to not feel "screwed" and just say "well damn...this didn't work out...." especially when you are already tired, and broke.

I am NOT a lawyer; but I have used one to deal with a financial situation before, and once you just TALK to one...just get a sense that someone is going to be on your side, you will feel better immediately.

Do not give up on this; think of what your uncle would have really wanted if he had been healthy. Go with that. Take a big assed vitamin pill, call the executor, your brother, AND get a consultation.

I'm so very sorry that you are dealing with so much right now. Please know that you are not alone, and please know that it gets better. Sometimes it is tough to remember that if you've been feeling bad for too long. My deepest sympathies to you and your family on your losses.








Laura

Thanks!

It's people like you and the other members of ASAH that make DU so great.

I will definitely ask any attorney we contact to do so.

blessings to you,
LE

I think it means something along the lines of "written by hand".

Your support, and that of the others in ASAH, is deeply appreciated.

for all your losses.

Thanks for being here for me.

I have been a paralegal, although I only once dealt with a will, and it was something contested as you are talking about.

Do call several attorneys. It may be, as JanMichael said, one will be happy to look at the documents for a relatively low fee. It may also be that if you need to contest it, you'll need to retain one on a contingency basis, meaning the attorney will keep a precentage of the final payout.

Do not let the housekeeper get away with this.

She probably deserves some kind of reasonable reward for her services, but not the entire estate.

would help with the wording, and practical advice! Lawyers get such bad raps...when we needed one, we found not one but two great ones that were not only pleasant to work with, ethical and awesome, but also totally affordable.

Am sorry life is feeling almost out of control right now. Been going through very similar things. I so totally get it.

I'm sorry for your loss.

Back in December of 2000, my dad's younger brother passed. He was 85. Dad had passed in July of 2000 and was about a month shy of 89.

The other uncle was a great-uncle on mom's side. Husband of one of mom's first cousins on her dad's side. I think he was 96 or so.

Your executor is right to file a will contest. Sounds like that uncle was not in his right mind and had what is known in legalese as "Lack of testamentary capacity".

Yes, I am a lawyer, but I do not practice.

Good luck!