my girlfriend sent me the equivalent of a "Dear John" email. That was after having had only a literal handful of emails since January. I managed to get her to communicate again so we can discuss this versus just ending it. I'd been getting different signals for the past few months, as if things were fine, and then suddenly they weren't.

She's also been going through a nasty fight with her landlord through the tenancy court they have in New Zealand, over her residency, their responsibilities of property upkeep, and so forth. It's stressed her to the max, and I tried to get her to realize that the mood of her emails in the past five months have mirrored her successes and setbacks.

She's going to a seminar with a numerologist well-known there (and getting known in the US through Hay House) so I hope her mood brightens again.

So yeah, I'm learning the hard way about this Venus stuff...

Terribly sorry to hear this, ken.

Your situation could be a Saturn in Libra relationship issue, too. That is putting the kibosh on a lot of long term partnerships.

about you last 2 days, actually--you have a wonderful presence and you have been missed.

As hard as it is, remember things happen for a reason and they are always for your highest good even if it doesn't seem like it at the time. I predict a new girlfriend who is more in tune with who you are will show up and you'll feel as if you've been together forever. Hang in there! Big to you!

So sorry to hear about it... But reading the other responses here, I am reminded how helpful and encouraging this genius bunch of folks are that truly care about each of us! Hang in there. It's so much easier when we have ASAH, don't you think??!!

and I wholeheartedly thank you all for it!

I don't know if our relationship is over or not. She is saying that she's open to reassessing it together, but not promising anything. I've already said I'm open to whatever we work out, but just didn't want to end it so abruptly and with no communication leading up to and beyond that. To me, that's as bad as a txt-msg breakup.

It's the unexpected nature of it -- and lack of closure -- that threw me for a loop.

C'est la vie.



Thanks to a brilliant ASAH soul, for the first time I am able to see how astrology can help me with a very, very key/core aspect of my life.

Seems I'm in the throes of having Chiron in Pisces in my first house. Yowzer....it has kicked my butt big time lately, but I'm hopeful.

to you, BlueIris.

And to all....