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No Vested Interest

(5,193 posts)
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 06:51 PM Aug 2021

Requesting prayers for my son in emergency room with Covid.

He's unvaccinated, of course, despite my and his sister's entreaties.
I've spoken with his ER, nurse, who tells me he is stable.
He's had Covid for 8-9 days, but tried to keep it to himself and get well on his own.
Has gone down the last few days, today the worst apparently.

I'm very angry with him, but also scared for him.
Please, God, spare my boy, now a middle-aged but not always reasonable man.
Lord, have mercy.

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Requesting prayers for my son in emergency room with Covid. (Original Post) No Vested Interest Aug 2021 OP
I'm sorry. You all are in my thoughts... hlthe2b Aug 2021 #1
Oh my,.. What an ordeal for you - Mum. Good tidings your way. magicarpet Aug 2021 #2
My heart hurts over this, please God. Beachnutt Aug 2021 #3
SW Ohio. No Vested Interest Aug 2021 #6
Sending prayers SallyHemmings Aug 2021 #4
Oh, I'm so sorry! I will pray for him tonight. secondwind Aug 2021 #5
It's tough being a mother of a grown man who won't get vaccinated. NH Ethylene Aug 2021 #7
You're correct, of course, re the folly of anger. No Vested Interest Aug 2021 #11
Lord hear and have mercy according to Your abundant mercies. sprinkleeninow Aug 2021 #8
I'm so grateful for your prayer. No Vested Interest Aug 2021 #12
Seconded JustADumbFireman Aug 2021 #28
Amen 🙏 SimplyHadEnough Aug 2021 #57
you and your son are in my thoughts nt XanaDUer2 Aug 2021 #9
I'm so sorry GPV Aug 2021 #10
It appears he may still be in the 10 day window FarPoint Aug 2021 #13
I don't know enough to respond correctly, but No Vested Interest Aug 2021 #14
The monoclonal antibodies is and infusion... FarPoint Aug 2021 #44
I think these are being over-hyped by repug gov. due to fact TFG has a stake in co. lark Aug 2021 #48
I will only tell you what I have personally seen.... FarPoint Aug 2021 #51
I know it can be, but using it so people don't have to vaccinate is stupid. lark Aug 2021 #60
I see.... FarPoint Aug 2021 #63
Yes, that is exactly my point. lark Aug 2021 #65
You got it, your son and you are in my prayers, just playing it forward. Don't yell at him till ... marble falls Aug 2021 #15
I can smile at that one. No Vested Interest Aug 2021 #16
Prayers for you and your family Dreampuff Aug 2021 #17
So sorry Catherine Vincent Aug 2021 #18
As a mother, my heart goes out to you. yardwork Aug 2021 #19
It took me a long time to convince my daughter to get vaccinated. Hugs and hope to you and yours. BoomaofBandM Aug 2021 #20
😢 blm Aug 2021 #21
So sorry to hear about your son sdfernando Aug 2021 #22
Hope gets well Texaswitchy Aug 2021 #23
Hoping for a good outcome. Tom Yossarian Joad Aug 2021 #24
Prayers to your son jimfields33 Aug 2021 #25
Healing vibes sent........nt Heartstrings Aug 2021 #26
All the positive vibes for you and your son! forgotmylogin Aug 2021 #27
Vibes for healing and strength for both of you. niyad Aug 2021 #29
Ugh, this is awful. 😟 ShazzieB Aug 2021 #30
I will lift up your beloved son in my prayers. Tanuki Aug 2021 #31
I hope he makes a quick recovery and sprints to vax. Bluethroughu Aug 2021 #32
I will be praying... CBHagman Aug 2021 #33
Wishing him a full and speedy recovery GeoWilliam750 Aug 2021 #34
Be strong for your son OldBaldy1701E Aug 2021 #35
Sorry for your pain Nululu Aug 2021 #36
Prayers for him, for you, and all who love him. May he recovery swiftly. KatK Aug 2021 #37
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Beacool Aug 2021 #38
I hope he gets well and hopefully he has learned his lesson and will get vaccinated. totodeinhere Aug 2021 #39
Thoughts of a speedy recovery are coming your way...... NT essaynnc Aug 2021 #40
Prayers for your son n/t rustysgurl Aug 2021 #41
! can't recall any greater anxiety than Jarqui Aug 2021 #42
Vibes. applegrove Aug 2021 #43
My late night call to ER told me that he is not there, nor has son been No Vested Interest Aug 2021 #45
Sending healing energy MyMission Aug 2021 #61
Thanks for sharing. I know you are correct No Vested Interest Aug 2021 #64
Prayers Up. ❤ littlemissmartypants Aug 2021 #46
Sending you and your son prayers. intheflow Aug 2021 #47
I am so sorry...prayers for your family and particularly your son. Demsrule86 Aug 2021 #49
Done! nt TrollBuster9090 Aug 2021 #50
Ugh IbogaProject Aug 2021 #52
Aloha ke Akua mahina Aug 2021 #53
You poor thing. My heart is with you. Scrivener7 Aug 2021 #54
May Fortune smile on your son. Haggard Celine Aug 2021 #55
done admonish Aug 2021 #56
Sending Positive Energy ⚡️ Both Your Way and His Way! TheBlackAdder Aug 2021 #58
Thinking of you and your son. MLAA Aug 2021 #59
I will put him on our prayer list at church. shrike3 Aug 2021 #62

hlthe2b

(105,915 posts)
1. I'm sorry. You all are in my thoughts...
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 06:54 PM
Aug 2021

May this be a hard-won but well-learned lesson from which he recovers to be able to share some wisdom in the future.

No Vested Interest

(5,193 posts)
6. SW Ohio.
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 07:03 PM
Aug 2021

Sick as he was, he had to drive himself to the nearest ER.
His job evaporated during pandemic - little to no insurance, though he has some funds and a house.
Single, no kids.

Thanks for your prayerful intercession.

secondwind

(16,903 posts)
5. Oh, I'm so sorry! I will pray for him tonight.
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 07:00 PM
Aug 2021

I hope he comes out of this in good shape, and hopefully will have learned something from it.

NH Ethylene

(30,994 posts)
7. It's tough being a mother of a grown man who won't get vaccinated.
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 07:04 PM
Aug 2021

Mine doesn't have Covid (yet) but it may just be a matter of time. He's also medically vulnerable.

I wouldn't waste your energy on anger; people make their choices based on their own perspectives. To them, it makes sense. I've had to overlook our political differences so that it doesn't get in the way of our love for each other.

I hope your son pulls out of it okay. I am sending good thoughts for him.

No Vested Interest

(5,193 posts)
11. You're correct, of course, re the folly of anger.
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 07:13 PM
Aug 2021

Up until the need for Covid vaccination, we just don't discuss political differences.
I felt, and continue to feel, that it's more a moral issue, with vulnerable family, not to mention the rest of society.
He stated - on social media- that he believed his natural immunity would keep him safe!.
Very tough to hear when a loved one is stuck on an unreal thought process.

sprinkleeninow

(20,534 posts)
8. Lord hear and have mercy according to Your abundant mercies.
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 07:05 PM
Aug 2021

Spare this one from any demise of the virus. Hear the plea of his mother, and from me, an unworthy servant. Deliver him from the coronavirus so he will be emboldened in witnessing and proclaiming Your Great Love and Compassion.

☦ Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit. Now and ever, and unto the ages of ages. Amen.

No Vested Interest

(5,193 posts)
14. I don't know enough to respond correctly, but
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 07:31 PM
Aug 2021

I believe the nurse told me he would have to be admitted for Remdesavir and other treatments.
Good news and bad news: It he doesn't need admittance that means he's not critically ill, but can't get more advanced meds.

FarPoint

(13,524 posts)
44. The monoclonal antibodies is and infusion...
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 12:29 AM
Aug 2021

I really see excellent outcomes with the early onset treatment interventions...In the 10 day window...

Here is a list of treatment modalities:

https://combatcovid.hhs.gov/i-have-covid-19-now/available-covid-19-treatment-options

SNIP>
Monoclonal antibody treatments: The FDA has issued Emergency Use Authorization for two investigational monoclonal antibody treatments that can attach to SARS-CoV-2, the coronavirus that causes COVID-19. These antibodies could help your immune system recognize and respond more effectively to the virus.

These treatments have been authorized for patients with mild to moderate cases. This includes those who have had symptoms for 10 days or less, who are 12 years of age and older, and who are at high risk for progressing to severe COVID-19 and/or hospitalization. It also includes people who are 65 years old or older, and for people who have certain chronic medical conditions. Learn more about antibody treatments with: etesevimab and bamlanivimab or casirivimab and imdevimab.


The Casirivimab-Imdevimab...also known as REGEN-COV is the one I see used most often at this time...

little news clip..... https://www.news4jax.com/news/local/2021/08/14/antibody-treatment-coming-to-jacksonville/






There is no cost for the antibodies themselves, but the facility may charge for the infusion (giving the treatment by IV). Medicare covers the IV treatment costs, but Medicaid coverage is different in each state. Many large private insurance plans cover all costs, but you should check with yours to find out for sure. If you do not have insurance, ask the treatment facility if there are any fees....END>

lark

(24,041 posts)
48. I think these are being over-hyped by repug gov. due to fact TFG has a stake in co.
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 10:20 AM
Aug 2021

I know 2 people who got the treatments when they went to the hospital. The husband was doing poorly and is still doing poorly in ICU for 5 days, it did nothing for him. Wife wasn't as sick, she responded well to the treatment and was released after 1-2 days. I know this is just anecdotal, but it sure isn't the 90% efficacy they are claiming. I think it's being hyped by rw and isn't as good as said. Not as bad as hydroxchloroquine, which increases the deaths due to heart issues, but not nearly as good as claimed.

Since Death Sentence bought millions of dollars of this, same as he did with hydroxychloroquine, I would be hard pressed to have any faith in it whatsoever. IMO It's just another way for repugs to pretend to care but continue to kill us and profit highly off of it.

FarPoint

(13,524 posts)
51. I will only tell you what I have personally seen....
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 02:42 PM
Aug 2021

This therapy is fabulous.... a true life saver.....I have seen about 75 people get this.... the earlier in the 10 day window was best results...Just telling you what I have seen out in the field.

lark

(24,041 posts)
60. I know it can be, but using it so people don't have to vaccinate is stupid.
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 06:48 PM
Aug 2021

That's what Kemp and Death Sentence are attempting.

FarPoint

(13,524 posts)
63. I see....
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 10:41 PM
Aug 2021

This is essentially the first line of treatment for mild to moderate covid-19 infection...it is almost standard....So, if I understand you correctly, these insane tRumpster grifting governors know this and thus feel, "safe" to continue pushing no vaccine....That is sick!

lark

(24,041 posts)
65. Yes, that is exactly my point.
Wed Aug 18, 2021, 08:27 AM
Aug 2021

There has to be profits to go alongside the disease and deaths according to Repug 101.

marble falls

(61,858 posts)
15. You got it, your son and you are in my prayers, just playing it forward. Don't yell at him till ...
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 07:32 PM
Aug 2021

... he's healthy again.

ShazzieB

(18,444 posts)
30. Ugh, this is awful. 😟
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 09:00 PM
Aug 2021

I will pray, for your son's healing and for strength for you, whatever comes.

I am so, so sorry you are going through this.

Bluethroughu

(5,645 posts)
32. I hope he makes a quick recovery and sprints to vax.
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 09:04 PM
Aug 2021

I'm sorry for your pain, I know I'd be a wreck and most likely angry my son didn't get the vax, but also with the GOP on TV regularly contradicting science...it's a shame.

Sending healing vibes for your whole family.

KatK

(199 posts)
37. Prayers for him, for you, and all who love him. May he recovery swiftly.
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 09:18 PM
Aug 2021

My adult son is also unvaccinated, and there's no swaying him ...

Beacool

(30,290 posts)
38. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 09:28 PM
Aug 2021

You must be so scared for him. Good vibes are going your way. May he make a full recovery.

totodeinhere

(13,250 posts)
39. I hope he gets well and hopefully he has learned his lesson and will get vaccinated.
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 09:46 PM
Aug 2021

This didn't have to happen to him. If he been vaccinated his case would almost certainly have been milder.

Jarqui

(10,422 posts)
42. ! can't recall any greater anxiety than
Mon Aug 16, 2021, 10:09 PM
Aug 2021

when my daughters were in the hospital.

I am so sorry and pulling hard for you.

No Vested Interest

(5,193 posts)
45. My late night call to ER told me that he is not there, nor has son been
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 01:43 AM
Aug 2021

admitted to the hospital , so I'm presuming he somehow got back home and likely crawled into bed.
All of which would mean the ER doctors felt he was not so seriously ill that he needed hospital care, etc.

I'll give him a rest overnight and see what I can find out Tuesday.

I so deeply appreciate the caring, the prayers, and good wishes (and advice) of these DUers who reached out.
Your support was/is so comforting when under ongoing stress.

I'll send up thankful prayers for all of you tonight, for your own needs as well.

Love you all.

MyMission

(1,996 posts)
61. Sending healing energy
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 07:54 PM
Aug 2021

My cousin was admitted the day after the ER sent her home.
She returned the next day, was admitted and then lost consciousness for 2 days. After her fever broke they weaned her off oxygen, and kept her to make sure she was stable and breathing ok. It was just as hospitals started to get overwhelmed from this Delta surge in FL, late July. Meanwhile her boyfriend and son were home sick with it. Her son recovered, but the bf was still sick when she was released after 10 days.

She convinced him to go to hospital, he was put on oxygen, they kept him 4-5 days, released him the minute his oxygen levels hit 95. They didn't care if he was stable because they needed the bed. He still feels like crap. So does my cousin. Her son, late 30's, went back to work.

I hope your son recovers. I feel compelled to say this: Keep checking on him, he may need to go back to the ER. Oxygen levels can drop causing confusion and irrational behavior before causing further harm, and covid pneumonia is also a thing I've heard about. Many hospitals are overwhelmed by this surge. Sending healing thoughts.

Please keep us posted.

No Vested Interest

(5,193 posts)
64. Thanks for sharing. I know you are correct
Wed Aug 18, 2021, 12:19 AM
Aug 2021

He has been to ER on two separate occasions, a day or so apart.
He told his sister he had diarrhea, but I know it would have to be pretty bad to have to drive oneself to hospital with such a condition going on.

I'll copy his email to me from this morning, so all those interested can see.

I deeply appreciate the concern shown here on DU.
I'm reluctant to share his situation on public social media, inasmuch as it's his private medical issue and could make him look publicly foolish for his reluctance when this is behind him & he wishes to apply for work, etc.

Hope your cousin and family continue to make progress. I have another son, lives in FL, also unvaccinated. You can imagine the concern.

intheflow

(28,840 posts)
47. Sending you and your son prayers.
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 08:12 AM
Aug 2021

Absolutely standing with you in your fear. May your son be spared from an early death.

mahina

(18,840 posts)
53. Aloha ke Akua
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 03:13 PM
Aug 2021

Please comfort No Vested Interest’s heart and help the son heal soon and well. Prayers for peace of mind and thorough recovery, in your love. Aloha nō, aloha Ke Akua.

admonish

(57 posts)
56. done
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 05:41 PM
Aug 2021

There's nothing he can do about his choice but today He can give your son another chance. I hope he can have his chance and take advantage too. As for you, be strong and be there. It's all we can do in this situation

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