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mr blur

(7,753 posts)
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 09:58 AM Apr 2015

Well, it sure seems like "child abuse" to me

This from a website called Seton Magazine ("Daily Inspiration for Catholic Homeschoolers&quot

Letter to a Child

One day, when one of my daughters awoke, she found this letter “from Jesus” resting on her night table:

Dear Child,

How would you feel if your parents gave you a puppy as a gift, but instead of wanting you, the puppy ignored you altogether and ran to others to be loved instead? How would you feel if that puppy ignored you no matter how often you called its name because it preferred others to you? How would you feel if night and day you saw that puppy (which was given as a gift to you) giving all of its love, joy, energy, loyalty and affection to others while wanting as little as possible to do with you?

Maybe if you stop and think about this, this will give you an idea as to how I feel watching you give to others all that you were created to give to Me. You were created by my Father for Me. He brought you into this world for one reason, and one reason only: to be My friend.

And yet, Me you have ignored while longing for human friendships instead. You were brought into this world by My Father to love Me. And yet, you have given that love to your toys, your DVDs, your music, the pleasures of this world, and most of all to yourself. But to Me, you have given no love. You were brought into this world by My Father for Me, not for yourself or for man. Why, then, do you cry for man, long for man, and search for man night and day?

It is My Father’s will that your entire life should be centered on Me—not on yourself, other people, or the things of this world. I often hear you say, “Maybe I’ll be a rock star when I grow up.” Your calling in life first and foremost is to be My friend; this is what you’re supposed to be, not only when you “grow up,” but now, as a young girl. When you give yourself completely to Me in the friendship to which you have been called, and for which you were created in the first place, then I will show you what I want you to do for Me. Your life does not belong to you; it belongs to Me. Therefore, it is I who will decide what I want to do with it. This is how life in Me is supposed to work.

The gifts, talents, skills, and abilities which My Father has given to you were given to you for Me. My Father wants you to glorify and honor Me with those things. They weren’t given to you for yourself or for the world.

Your parents are very careful when deciding whom to allow into your life in the way of companions and friends, for they are well aware that they will answer to Me in eternity for the choices they have made. My Father, who created you for Me, has entrusted you to them in order to serve as guardians to your soul. Therefore, they must be very selective when deciding whom to allow near to your soul, for the wrong companions can do the soul irreparable, eternal harm. This means that you will not always have the friends that you may desire, for the times in which you now live are perilous indeed.

It is I who long for friendship—yours. Where is it? My Father placed you on the Earth to be My friend. This is the number one reason why you were given life. And yet, Me you have ignored while searching for others to fill your heart. How long will you give to others what should belong only to Me? I want you to focus on your friendship with Me. If you do, I promise to fill your life—even your very soul—more than a million earthly companions ever could.

I love you, and I’m waiting for you. You are mine before you will ever be anything else. You have asked, “What should I be when I grow up?” My answer to this is, “Mine.”

“I want you to be completely Mine.”

Jesus


Fuck, that Jesus -needy or what?!

This is way beyond creepy.

It's by a woman called Lorraine Espenhain -"a wife, homeschooling mother, religious instructor, and freelance writer. In the past, she wrote for her local daily newspaper, but then moved on to writing for Catholic.net, where she has over 200 articles published. She also has her own children’s column at Agua Viva, which is the official newspaper in her diocese."

http://www.setonmagazine.com/homeschool/general-homeschooling/when-catholic-homeschooled-kids-get-lonely
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Well, it sure seems like "child abuse" to me (Original Post) mr blur Apr 2015 OP
Beyond creepy indeed. trotsky Apr 2015 #1
Yes, imagine how sick this would be skepticscott Apr 2015 #2
A lot of human leaders skip th eiddle man Lordquinton Apr 2015 #21
Yeah, that's some really disturbing stuff right there... PoutrageFatigue Apr 2015 #6
All of a sudden my musing on Statutory Spiritualism… NeoGreen Apr 2015 #3
That caused my skin to crawl. Solly Mack Apr 2015 #4
ME! ME! ME! progressoid Apr 2015 #5
That's horrifying! Binkie The Clown Apr 2015 #7
Well, I guess a Catholic home-schooler. mr blur Apr 2015 #11
This message was self-deleted by its author mr blur Apr 2015 #12
It makes Jesus sound like a stalker Rob H. Apr 2015 #8
rofl Heddi Apr 2015 #19
I hope the kid's response was... onager Apr 2015 #9
Fucking creepy Stalker Jesus Novara Apr 2015 #10
Hoo boy nil desperandum Apr 2015 #13
Jesus as whiny over-entitled child, or as creepy possessive stalker? muriel_volestrangler Apr 2015 #14
Just wait until Jesus writes her a letter with instructions about her private parts. beam me up scottie Apr 2015 #15
I remember people made a huge stink about that topic Lordquinton Apr 2015 #20
Fucked up beyond words. bvf Apr 2015 #16
I'd be appalled if the author raised puppies with that attitude, deucemagnet Apr 2015 #17
That Jesus dude reads more like a manipulative child-molester EvolveOrConvolve Apr 2015 #18
He brought you into this world for one reason, and one reason only: AlbertCat May 2015 #22
Mommy, instead of dad ... GeorgeGist May 2015 #23

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
1. Beyond creepy indeed.
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 10:01 AM
Apr 2015

Take away the protective veneer of religion - and the majority religion (Christianity) in particular - and ANYONE in their right mind would be appalled at this kind of weird shit.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
2. Yes, imagine how sick this would be
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 10:07 AM
Apr 2015

if you substituted the name of the human leader of some cult-like religious sect for "jesus". And then try to argue that there is anything about "jesus" that makes it any less sick and creepy.

And then remember that there are hordes of posters over in Religion who go ballistic when any implication is made that religious indoctrination can possibly be abusive to children.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
21. A lot of human leaders skip th eiddle man
Thu Apr 30, 2015, 02:51 AM
Apr 2015

and just say they are god, or Jesus, or his messenger on earth, so treat him just like the lord... We know the true crime documentarys.

 

PoutrageFatigue

(416 posts)
6. Yeah, that's some really disturbing stuff right there...
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 11:38 AM
Apr 2015

And I mean 'Get-Some-Fucking-Therapy' type of disturbing...

NeoGreen

(4,033 posts)
3. All of a sudden my musing on Statutory Spiritualism…
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 10:07 AM
Apr 2015

... doesn't seem to be such a bad idea after all.

 

mr blur

(7,753 posts)
11. Well, I guess a Catholic home-schooler.
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:37 PM
Apr 2015

Who writes a children's page in a local religious publication.

Response to Binkie The Clown (Reply #7)

Rob H.

(5,570 posts)
8. It makes Jesus sound like a stalker
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:03 PM
Apr 2015

"You know where I was when you were walking along the beach and saw only your own footprints in the sand in some places when you looked behind you? No, those weren't the times when I carried you. Those were the times when I was parked down the street from your house, waiting to see when you were coming home."

onager

(9,356 posts)
9. I hope the kid's response was...
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 12:12 PM
Apr 2015

"Letter from JESUS? WTF? Where's my loot from the Tooth Fairy?"

And I'll also take "incredibly creepy" for $200, Alex.

"I want you to be completely Mine."

Shudder...

And I'd want a Restraining Order.

nil desperandum

(654 posts)
13. Hoo boy
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 01:41 PM
Apr 2015
You were created by my Father for Me. He brought you into this world for one reason, and one reason only: to be My friend.


Or face the eternal flames of hellfire for your failure to be my friend and make me your savior...

This kind of weird stuff is what got me started asking questions in catechism and eventually got me ejected from that very same catechism.

muriel_volestrangler

(102,502 posts)
14. Jesus as whiny over-entitled child, or as creepy possessive stalker?
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 02:30 PM
Apr 2015

Either way, that could be the worst attempt at drawing people to Christianity I've read. I feel sorry for her children (homeschooled by her - no sane adult to balance out her shit), whoever falls into her 'religious instruction' trap, and her diocese - presumably about to collapse, if they are reduced to depending on weirdos like her to write for them.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
15. Just wait until Jesus writes her a letter with instructions about her private parts.
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 04:10 PM
Apr 2015

All joking aside, I am sickened by this.

A disgusting abuse of parental influence, trying to force her daughter to be submissive to her will by using Jesus as a proxy.


This child is being primed for other abusive relationships.


Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
20. I remember people made a huge stink about that topic
Thu Apr 30, 2015, 02:49 AM
Apr 2015

when there was a book coming out that pointed out the similarities between "God's love" in the bible and abusive relationships, like how it was identical.

Truth hurts, but if you yell loud enough, and send enough death threats, you can silence the people spreading it.

EvolveOrConvolve

(6,452 posts)
18. That Jesus dude reads more like a manipulative child-molester
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 07:56 PM
Apr 2015

than a "loving" father figure. This kind of shit makes my skin crawl.

I'd love to see the Serious Liberal Theologians in That Other Group try to explain this shit. Double-dog dare you to post it there.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
22. He brought you into this world for one reason, and one reason only:
Fri May 1, 2015, 10:35 AM
May 2015

to try to get your genes passed on....

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