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Go Vols

(5,902 posts)
Wed Oct 21, 2015, 02:02 AM Oct 2015

Sometimes I feel bad

like now,for no reason.

My oldest boy was killed in a wreck at 21.08 years old by an idiot that "just pulled out" into oncoming traffic.

Been 9 years and it still fucks with me.

Edit: He was rough,as was I at that age,my last pic of him.

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Sometimes I feel bad (Original Post) Go Vols Oct 2015 OP
Vibes. applegrove Oct 2015 #1
Sorry for your loss, best wishes to you. n/t PoliticAverse Oct 2015 #2
Of course there ohheckyeah Oct 2015 #3
I am so sorry. murielm99 Oct 2015 #4
so very sorry Go Vols Skittles Oct 2015 #5
Cherish that memory of your handsome son at 21. No Vested Interest Oct 2015 #6
thank you all Go Vols Oct 2015 #7

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
3. Of course there
Wed Oct 21, 2015, 03:56 AM
Oct 2015

is a reason - you are grieving for someone you loved dearly. Grief knows no timeframe I've been told.

I'm very sorry for the death of your son and I hope today is a better day. If you need to talk more we are here for you.

murielm99

(31,488 posts)
4. I am so sorry.
Wed Oct 21, 2015, 04:30 AM
Oct 2015

Nine years, nine days. It hurts. The reason is that he is gone.

I hope you have some better days.

Hugs.

Skittles

(160,135 posts)
5. so very sorry Go Vols
Wed Oct 21, 2015, 04:45 AM
Oct 2015


the old adage, "Time heals all wounds" simply is not true

Some wounds, time can only ever make easier to bear

No Vested Interest

(5,202 posts)
6. Cherish that memory of your handsome son at 21.
Thu Oct 22, 2015, 12:22 AM
Oct 2015

It is human and entirely natural to miss and mourn your son 9 years later.

Peace.

Go Vols

(5,902 posts)
7. thank you all
Fri Oct 23, 2015, 02:17 PM
Oct 2015

Drove from Tenn to Milwaukee yesterday to spend a few days with my youngest boy.

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