find peace. R.I.P.

On the loss of your father....

May you and all who loved him find peace in his memory.

I wish you peace and many good memories.

I lost my mother last year & she was about the same age as your father.

and your family and to all who knew and loved your Father. May your heart always hold the good memories .

during this difficult and sad time

for so many years you have been a sympathetic listener and a shoulder to cry on, offering kind, gentle, and soothing words, providing comfort for the brokenhearted with an unconditional love and sincere desire to help. i offer all of that back to you dear friend.

my heart goes out to you.

in the days and weeks and months to come, know that you are not alone and we are all here for you

has touched me deeply.
I won't lie, today has been good and bad. Good for the happy memories and bad for so many other reasons.
I'm still not able to process this whole thing. It's funny, I find it easy to comfort others. I find it without any problem at all to offer my time and energy if someone is in need. For me, it's who I am and what I'm able to do.
What I have a really hard time with is opening up, accepting any help at all and telling people what I need.
I overheard my husband talking to a friend the other day. The friend obviously asked him how I was doing and he told them my Dad had passed away. Then he said this ... I think she's ok, she's been more quiet than usual and I cannot get her to talk about it.
Hah, that's me in a nutshell. He also said it's hard knowing what to do for her when she won't let me in.
I promise, I'll try harder to unlock the feelings vault and let him in. I know it's not healthy locking it all up inside of me. I know it's unhealthy to pretend I'm fine. I also know the danger to a relationship when one partner shuts down ... So I'll try harder, I promise.

Thanks to you my friend for taking the time to console and reach out. It's greatly appreciated.

aA
kesha

hugs to you and your family

condolences are greatly appreciated.

My heart is blessed on this Father's Day when I come here and see all of your notes to me.

So, thank you, thank you.

with love and appreciation.

kesha.

Deepest condolences to you and your family.