Rest in peace, cat.

I knew there was one space people would understand both issues.

I still feel bad that I blew up, but I'm only human too.

there’s many times when i regret speaking out
and
many times when i regret that i didn’t.

)))

I apologized this morning.

Grandson actually apologized last night for making it political.

His Dad, my Son was the as*hat in chief defending his cub.

I can understand that too. I taught him. LOL.

My sincerest condolences for your son's kitty.

I thought he might still be alive because even when he was still and his pupils non-responsive to light, I swear when I pet him I felt a purr.

After the emergency vet visit, we brought him home and he got up on the mantle to his favorite perch and we pet him, he purred. We all got to give him lots of love.

We had given him up for dead because he'd been gone for 6 days.

And so very sorry about the rest, too.

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During grief people will have these awful arguments. No one is in their full mind at the moment.

The grief is over powering for fur baby family.

And I'm truly sorry about the rest of that horse crap you have to deal with.

Thanks. I just don't know how I went wrong.

I taught my son to think for himself, so he blows ME OFF as he needs to have his OWN opinion.

THEN he swallows the QAnon crap hook, line and sinker.

'Prove it or shut (tf) up'.... say it quietly and low and look them in the eye...cuz you mean it!

Son and Grandson live with me, so to manage a peaceful existence, we have arrived at NO POLITICS discussed.

Grandson was in his grief and I guess it's understandable that he wanted to be rich and able to afford extensive treatment for the cat because he loved that cat SO MUCH. I got that part. Totally got that part.

Then he went into angry mode. Why does it have to be so expensive NOW?!

But told him it has been expensive like that for a long time, he said, "NO, only since 2020 when Biden took office"

I lost it. I will apologize for how I said it, but I am going to print out facts and figures for both of them and impress upon them that needing to BLAME someone for things does NOT SOLVE anything.

That my son teaching his son to automatically reach for political bias to soothe his grief is indoctrination, not education.

The MAGAs are constantly giving their "flock" reasons to be upset and painting a target on the DEMS.

cat. So difficult and sad to experience.
Emergency vets have always been very expensive. We took one of our cats to an emergency vet in the winter of 2016 and it was about two thousand or more dollars. Also took her to our regular vet at the same time to continue her care. She seemed better for a time, but by the end of April she passed away.

And I know vets and emergency services have always been expensive.
Pet insurance wasn't a thing until recently. Take your pet in, pay to take him home.

And medical bills for people have bankrupted so many too.

vet bills historically




Bankruptcies due to medical

2021 67.5% due to medical
https://balancingeverything.com/medical-bankruptcies-statistics/

2019 62% due to medical
https://www.cnbc.com/2019/02/11/this-is-the-real-reason-most-americans-file-for-bankruptcy.html

2009 54.5% due to medical
https://minnesota.publicradio.org/features/2009/06/newscut_singlepayer/BankruptcyDranoveMillensonhlthaffFeb2006.pdf