Bereavement

kozar

(2,851 posts) Wed Feb 8, 2023, 08:57 PM Feb 2023

I'm thankful finally,

My darkness, is leaving. You guys have heard me at my worst. But you listened. Thank you. All the nights I lied in bed and LilBit was asleep and the demons raced in my brain through my grief, now I lie down and songs I need to sing, play in my head.
There is a light, along this bereaved road. None of us knows how long the road is. But,

You only grieve cuz you had a heart big enough to love.

Koz

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I'm thankful finally, (Original Post) kozar Feb 2023 OP

"You only grieve because you had a heart big enough to love." 3catwoman3 Feb 2023 #1

I was thinking the same thing... slightlv Feb 2023 #5

Hang in there Kozar IbogaProject Feb 2023 #2

Glad to hear things are a bit better for you. hlthe2b Feb 2023 #3

Best to you, Koz. sheshe2 Feb 2023 #4

Glad to hear you realize you will be happy again Farmer-Rick Feb 2023 #6

3catwoman3

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1. "You only grieve because you had a heart big enough to love."

Reply to kozar (Original post)

Wed Feb 8, 2023, 08:59 PM

Feb 2023

Simply and eloquently stated. I will remember your words.

slightlv

(4,332 posts)

5. I was thinking the same thing...

Reply to 3catwoman3 (Reply #1)

Wed Feb 8, 2023, 11:00 PM

Feb 2023

I lost three of my most beloved cats last year... and the one I lost in March still hurts so bad I can't stand it some days. Still take in rescues, after many, many months passed by. I know for lots of people it's not the same as grieving for a human, and I understand that. Some days, I wish, though, they could understand the loss I feel.

Hang in there, Koz... I'm glad shades of light are coming back into your life. May it be ever increasing. You've had a hard row to hoe, and we're glad to be here to help where we can.

Blessings on you and LilBit.