And I would also tell my cousin that I love him/her. And if they're open to it, give a hug.

Emotional support and caring are probably the best things you can do.

Such a big loss for your cousin might center mostly on feeling alone or abandoned.

It's an awful place to be, as you know.

I'm so sorry.

So sorry to hear this.

What's the prognosis & is s/he willing to undergo treatments?

I would encourage them to reduce stress, eat organic & listen to docs.

Healing vibes on the way! 💓💓💓

...circumstances.

She was one of the finest people I have ever known, and I'm glad to remember saying as much.

I'm sorry.

and things can be done. My wife has stage 4 and she just had 6 treatments of Doxrubicon and another which is a cocktail. It appears that everything is stabilized. What kind of cancer does this person have?
Stabilization is what the Oncologist works to get.

whatever decisions she makes about treatment, etc.

She beat them both. That is what I would tell them.

She should hear about you. You are amazing.

She is in Texas and I am in N.J. so there is little hep I can offer.

I support you. If there's anything I can do to help, I'm here to help any way I can. Most of all, know how much you mean to me.

At this time, knowing that they're loved and supported is the most important thing, IMO. I don't have the cancer issue, I have the senile dementia and going downhill issue to deal with. And it's with my Mom, which makes it really hard. How do you condense a lifetime in a few words. Those are what I came up with that seemed to mean the most... to the both of us.